Do you believe that age  is nothing but a number? If no, what do you think is the appropriate age limit by which a girl must be married(i.e if marriage is a must in her life) and what is the upper limit age by which a man must be settled down unless he wants to be known as an old cargo.?


Will you care about a partners age before marrying him or her? I mean, can you still marry somebody even if the age gap is almost 10 years?


Do you also believe what they say that '40 is the new 20'?

To me the age limit for a girl to marry is 25yrs while for a guy is 30yrs .

big father:

To me the age limit for a girl to marry is 25yrs while for a guy is 30yrs .

Please sir, with due respect make some correction in the number you put.
Are you talking base on religious theology or the present modern life we're living?
you mean a girl/boy will just jump out of university and jump into marriage because time is against him/her?
This is why some boys/girls get hooked with a terrible marriage life cause they feel like getting old.

There is no age limit in marriage it's only when one feel OK and get the right person he/she has something in common period.

I'll get married to any age in as much as she gives what I want and lack.

i am uncomfortable around a girl thats 5 yrs younger than myself. i feel too old around them. there's no age limit for anyone to get married. although, its always a good idea for a girl to get married early

oziomatv:

Please sir, with due respect make some correction in the number you put.
Are you talking base on religious theology or the present modern life we're living?
you mean a girl/boy will just jump out of university and jump into marriage because time is against him/her?
This is why some boys/girls get hooked with a terrible marriage life cause they feel like getting old.

There is no age limit in marriage it's only when one feel OK and get the right person he/she has something in common period.

I'll get married to any age in as much as she gives what I want and lack.

So are you suggesting that a lady gets married at an older age ? Bearing it in mind that they get closer to MENOPAUSE now a days ?
For me,marrying at a younger age of 25yrs is quite ok , at least before getting to the age of 30-35yrs , she would have given birth to the number of children she wants and she could go ahead and enjoy the best of her married life looking more younger and refreshed.

big father:

So are you suggesting that a lady gets married at an older age ? Bearing it in mind that they get closer to MENOPAUSE now a days ?
For me,marrying at a younger age of 25yrs is quite ok , at least before getting to the age of 30-35yrs , she would have given birth to the number of children she wants and she could go ahead and enjoy the best of her married life looking more younger and refreshed.

MENOPAUSE as I know starts from 45 up wards, besides must she be used as a child producing machine? 1 or 2 children is okay then the rest will be for fun.
Anyway exerpt in nigeria where all they cares is bearing children, staying at home doing nothing.

I think having them matured is the best.

My brother menopause starts earlier nowadays due to the kind food in take which compraises of so many chemials. You said marriage in africa is all about child bearing,you are wrong bro,but then of what use is a marriage without children and besides who says the wife will sitdown at home without working ?There so many working mothers out there and they are really doing well.

big father:

My brother menopause starts earlier nowadays due to the kind food in take which compraises of so many chemials. You said marriage in africa is all about child bearing,you are wrong bro,but then of what use is a marriage without children and besides who says the wife will sitdown at home without working ?There so many working mothers out there and they are really doing well.

      Yes,  it's of no use without children but not to overload her with wheelbarrow loads of children. then her hollyground will be as wide as a tunnel.
  MARRIAGE should be for LADIES- 30 upwards Men-35 upwards. with this age, they've already tested good and bad sides of life and come to a conclconclusion there is no need of rushing marriage, remember men love flirting also girls, so they need time to figure things out. all these need to be done before getting married. 
   not as early as 25/30 as you said,  later they come to realise  that they never enjoyed life before.

  off topic
       The food you've infront of you (in ur profile) I hope you're not eating alone? me I dey hungry oo.Io

big father:

My brother menopause starts earlier nowadays due to the kind food in take which compraises of so many chemials. You said marriage in africa is all about child bearing,you are wrong bro,but then of what use is a marriage without children and besides who says the wife will sitdown at home without working ?There so many working mothers out there and they are really doing well.

          That's the big problem that will face africa in the year future. they're rushing western world culture and food like flies dey rush dead body, we tend to ignor our natural food god freely give to us. People are drinking chemicals in the name of soft drinks while some are eating fabricated foods mixed with god knows what in it. thank god I can cook and know what to prepare. FAST FOOD?, NO THANKS.

i think by 25 you should already have a man that you're courting and ready to take to the alter


For a man, it should be 30, that's the limit

By bigbrother,
My brother menopause starts earlier nowadays due to the kind food in take which compraises of so many chemials. You said marriage in africa is all about child bearing,you are wrong bro,but then of what use is a marriage without children and besides who says the wife will sitdown at home without working ?There so many working mothers out there and they are really doing well.

So is erectile dysfunction that affect men from the age of 40. Does that mean that men should be scared of the big 40 or should they rush and have all the children they can before age 40?

Needlelady:

So is erectile dysfunction that affect men from the age of 40. Does that mean that men should be scared of the big 40 or should they rush and have all the children they can before age 40?

who is talking of a man here ?   A man can stay as long as 100yrs and will still be sexually active and still have children. But will it be good for a man of that age to be paying school fees when he is suppose to be reaping the fruit of his retirement ? Am sure a woman can and will never be that sexually active at half of that age .
So if you see a man of 40yrs unmarried , then there is definately something wrong somewhere !

hhhhhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmm . . . . . . . . . . . . . . I thought dis was about age limit?

I don't believe that age is nothing but a number. I believe that a woman should be married by 30 and a man married by 38.

My boss was married at 35 and she has two kids, I feel like because more women are getting higher degree, they are waiting till later to get married.

I also believe that it depends on where you are in your life, marriage is not just about the pressure of family members telling you to get married. You also have to be mentally and financially prepared, until then i don't think that you should get married because you are getting old, ,,

40 is the new 20 if you are a RICH MAN!!!!

If u're broke, then I don't think SO.

As far as the gyl has not reached the age of Menopause she has not passed the age of marriage.
For the age of marriage depends not only on age but other factors.

By madamkoko,
I believe that a woman should be married by 30 and a man married by 38.

Why the difference in age for both sexes when both should be wary of an age related reproductive inability at 45?

By Bigfather,
who is talking of a man here ?   A man can stay as long as 100yrs and will still be sexually active and still have children

Don't fool yyourself brother, not anymore, more and more men are getting erectile dysfunction from 40 because of the sedentary lifestyle abnd food associated with this generation, besides, some scientists are pointing at cell phones too as a probable cause. I hope you know that viagra does not cure a dead horse, sheeesh.

Do you believe that age is nothing but a number? If no, what do you think is the appropriate age limit by which a girl must be married(i.e if marriage is a must in her life) and what is the upper limit age by which a man must be settled down unless he wants to be known as an old cargo.?


Will you care about a partners age before marrying him or her? I mean, can you still marry somebody even if the age gap is almost 10 years?


Do you also believe what they say that '40 is the new 20'?

it all depends on people and their destiny,i know of a girl dat got married after our secondary school,at d age of 15 and still lives happily wt d husband, but i believe once a girl is 18 and has got a matured brains i dont see anything stopping her from getting married

and as for d age gap,i will only marry a guy dat is atleast maximum 10 years older than me

why must one get married anyway?

damola1:

why must one get married anyway?

why must one not?

@Chinda3
15? lol, when i was 15, i was busy wondering what materials my teachers would want us to bring to school. lol

as for the age gap, i absolutely agree, but 7 is enough

I asked because, guys are always like, girls have too much palava, they are quite expensive to maintain, they disturb too much blah, blah, blah, and girls are like, boys are always distrustful, they are playing around, and are not caring blah, blah, blah, , so why must people get married anyway why not simply enjoy your lives separately, I mean any concrete reason why one must get married?

15? Shocked lol, when i was 15, i was busy wondering what materials my teachers would want us to bring to school. lol

My dear e surprise me oooo,we finish from secondary school early at d age of 15,even me sef i dey ask d girl why she wan marry at dat age,she say na her destiny na hm i say ok,my dear na so i wait for years to hear say dis girl leave her husband house (i no be enemy of progress)but u know she was too young then,i was thinking she wont cope,but d girl dey enjoy her husband house till date,dats y i said it depends on destiny.

damola1:

I asked because, guys are always like, girls have too much palava, they are quite expensive to maintain, they disturb too much blah, blah, blah, and girls are like, boys are always distrustful, they are playing around, and are not caring blah, blah, blah, , so why must people get married anyway why not simply enjoy your lives separately, I mean any concrete reason why one must get married?

LOL. i got you.
i bet if women come up with reasons why and why not to get married, the why not would have more reasons

chinda3:

My dear e surprise me oooo,we finish from secondary school early at d age of 15,even me sef i dey ask d girl why she wan marry at that age,she say na her destiny na hm i say ok,my dear na so i wait for years to hear say this girl leave her husband house (i no be enemy of progress)but u know she was too young then,i was thinking she wont cope,but d girl dey enjoy her husband house till date,that is y i said it depends on destiny.

wow. that's amazing. those kind of event rarely happens^{in the western world}

well, seriously, why must one get married, why not stay by yourself, since it's so much wahala, one might be better off not married, its not uncommon to find matured boys single in developed countries, someone like paul allen is still single,  why must one get married?,  plus now society is even demanding a particular age range to get married,

wow. that's amazing. those kind of event rarely happensin the western world

i agree wt u,if at dat age man wan marry me,men i will kick his ass off my father's house,cos i consider it child abuse, person suppose enjoy life small before e enter bondage, sorry cage, oh i beg i make mistake for typing na , marriage

well, seriously, why must one get married, why not stay by yourself, since it's so much wahala, one might be better off not married, its not uncommon to find matured boys single in developed countries, someone like paul allen is still single, why must one get married?, plus now society is even demanding a particular age range to get married,

one must get married because GOD ordained it so right from the time past, come ooo,its very obvious u dont want to get married, i hope u dont mind my asking but, are u gay, please dont be offended

chinda3:

i agree wt u,if at that age man wan marry me,men i will kick his ass off my father's house,because i consider it child abuse, person suppose enjoy life small before e enter bondage, sorry cage, oh i beg i make mistake for typing na , marriage

LOL. funny

, even if I was Gay, I would still face the same issues related to getting married., cos I will still have a partner,

Besides the believe that the almighty baba wants us to get married, for someone who doesn't believe in God, what answer will I give to the person?, if he says he cannot stand the nagging of a woman and associated wahalas, no privacy, blah blah blah,

person suppose enjoy life small before e enter bondage, sorry cage, oh i beg i make mistake for typing na , marriage

Even you yourself talk am say na bondage and caging, how come you no wan live a free life, that's out of bondage?

Besides the believe that the almighty baba wants us to get married, for someone who doesn't believe in God, what answer will I give to the person?, if he says he cannot stand the nagging of a woman and associated wahalas, no privacy, blah blah blah,

whether d person believes in God or not ain't ur business,it has been prdained right from time to be so, , he who findeth a wife findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour from God

Even you yourself talk am say na bondage and caging, how come you no wan live a free life, that's out of bondage?

na bondage because marriage is like one television,with so many channels but u are allowed to watch only one channel, therefore it helps reduce fornication rate, like i said earlier it is a bondage but can also be a very sweet bondage if u want it to be, a sweet bondage only if u are wt d right person,