kandiikane:

They cannot or they just won't?

Of course, a man can self-service once a day

kandiikane:

They cannot or they just won't?

Of course, a man can self-service once a day

nwando:
No normal husband with the responsibility of running a household would want it every blessed night
Is he jobless
A man with a job would come home sometimes very exhausted and would barely finish his dinner to crash on the couch with the remote in his hand
There are sometimes all the discussion on the bed is about family affairs and plans and SE.x takes a back seat
Regular Husbands and wives have little disagreements sometimes and at those times,se.x is suspended
So a man wanting it daily come rain or shine is not normal IMHO

He is either a domineering ,abusive man that allows his wife no opinions of her own
Or he is taking se.xual enhancing drugs
Or he is addicted to po.rn
All three are unhealthy for any woman is his life

She should discuss with him
Sex should be enjoyable by both parties
If she feels used and abused ,it is no longer love
It is now a power issue
Something is fundamentally wrong here
I don't even understand how a man could could insist on sleeping with a woman who is not participating
Can't he see how unhappy she is?

Symphony007: I know this will sound kinda childish but i'm just a teen. Why is the lady tired or it? I taught sex is suppose to be fun from how it's spoken of.

byvan:


I believe the everyday talk is exaggerated,I just don't see the everyday possibility.

byvan:


I believe the everyday talk is exaggerated,I just don't see the everyday possibility.

nwando:

Every married couple knows it is impossible to do it daily
When some are still calculating Naira and kobo when thy return from market
If hubby sold his goods at a loss or custom come seize the okirika wake up,he won't even remember he has a Blokoss talk less of how to use it
Na beg you go beg am to eat semo sef,the man go dey hiss like snake talk
Some topics here are certainly not depicting real life situations
Every married man or woman here knows exactly what I am talking about here

Woman divorces husband with a small sized manhood
Since I married my husband, Mr. SundayOlabiyi, two years ago, he has never satisfied me sexually.” This was the confession of an aggrieved intimacy-starved housewife, Olubunmi Ajayi, who blamed her matrimonial woes on the small size of her husband’s manhood.
Olubunmi, 36, who approached the Alakuko Customary Court, Lagos, seeking the dissolution of the union, added that her husband’s penchant for running afteryoung girls, despite the fact that she has been managing to cope with his inadequacies and other problems with maturity, further annoyed her.
She confessed that the major problem she had with her husband was his nonchalant attitude to her welfare and his inability to satisfy her sexually.
She said that she had tried other options, especially local medicines, to improve her husband’s intimate performance, all to noavail.
“
I have tried my best for this man over the years. I am convinced that he is not ready for me as his wife. That is why he is always looking outside, chasing after littlegirls,” she told the court.
Asked if it was not her inadequacies that made her husband to start looking elsewhere, she said she had always tried to do her best at home.
“It is not my inadequacies that made him look elsewhere. In fact, I don’t have any, as far as I am concerned. I cook good food for him, take good care of him and what did I get in return? Nothing! I tried all I could to make him a real man in bed but all was futile.
“I equally went as far as going the traditional way, making concoctions but itwas the same old story. What else am I waiting for in the marriage but to opt outgracefully,” she told the court.
Revealing how they met, she said that shemet her husband through one of her friends who happens to be her neighbour, adding that the neighbour is also from her husband’s home town in Ikenne, Ogun State.
Bunmi said what can save the union fromcollapse is for her husband to have enough time for her and perform well in bed. She added that she approached the court because she was not ready to commit adultery.
She urged the court to dissolve the marriage and order her husband to pay for her resettlement.
The respondent, Mr. Sunday Olabiyi, told the court that it was only his wife who can tell the court how best one can perform wonders in bed.
According to him, he never denied his wife intimacy whenever she wanted it and he has always taken good care of her.
He accused the petitioner of having a hidden agenda and made up her mind to abandon him for another man.
The matter was adjourned by the court president for further hearing

byvan:

Lools!!!!I bet those seeing the everyday possibily are just the single folks here.One can never understand the practical aspect of marriage until they are actually in it.

Woman divorces husband with a small sized manhood
Since I married my husband, Mr. SundayOlabiyi, two years ago, he has never satisfied me sexually.” This was the confession of an aggrieved intimacy-starved housewife, Olubunmi Ajayi, who blamed her matrimonial woes on the small size of her husband’s manhood.
Olubunmi, 36, who approached the Alakuko Customary Court, Lagos, seeking the dissolution of the union, added that her husband’s penchant for running afteryoung girls, despite the fact that she has been managing to cope with his inadequacies and other problems with maturity, further annoyed her.
She confessed that the major problem she had with her husband was his nonchalant attitude to her welfare and his inability to satisfy her sexually.
She said that she had tried other options, especially local medicines, to improve her husband’s intimate performance, all to noavail.
“
I have tried my best for this man over the years. I am convinced that he is not ready for me as his wife. That is why he is always looking outside, chasing after littlegirls,” she told the court.
Asked if it was not her inadequacies that made her husband to start looking elsewhere, she said she had always tried to do her best at home.
“It is not my inadequacies that made him look elsewhere. In fact, I don’t have any, as far as I am concerned. I cook good food for him, take good care of him and what did I get in return? Nothing! I tried all I could to make him a real man in bed but all was futile.
“I equally went as far as going the traditional way, making concoctions but itwas the same old story. What else am I waiting for in the marriage but to opt outgracefully,” she told the court.
Revealing how they met, she said that shemet her husband through one of her friends who happens to be her neighbour, adding that the neighbour is also from her husband’s home town in Ikenne, Ogun State.
Bunmi said what can save the union fromcollapse is for her husband to have enough time for her and perform well in bed. She added that she approached the court because she was not ready to commit adultery.
She urged the court to dissolve the marriage and order her husband to pay for her resettlement.
The respondent, Mr. Sunday Olabiyi, told the court that it was only his wife who can tell the court how best one can perform wonders in bed.
According to him, he never denied his wife intimacy whenever she wanted it and he has always taken good care of her.
He accused the petitioner of having a hidden agenda and made up her mind to abandon him for another man.
The matter was adjourned by the court president for further hearing

nwando:

These people doing it everyday,dem no dey pay school fees?
Dem no get mama and papa to support?
Dem no dey build house for village?
Dem no dey run out of money to execute projects?

Beginning of school year with all the school fees lined up,the men no go think of SE.x lai lai
Na how to pay be im priority.
The thread is fake

byvan:


Ha!!!based on the last paragraph,I doubt if school fees alone can deter a man from thinking of sex,though not everyday sha.I had a friend whose hubby demanded sex on his hospital bed,some men dey tryoooo for igwokilikwo.

fork adict:
Lmao. On his hospitl bed ke? Men I give up on some pple. But y some pple no dey pity dem life?

Chuxoko: I think this woman in question is definitely lying. Thers's no how the husband could have been having sex with her every night for the past eight years. The problem of some of these women is that becsause of their envolvement with secret spiritual husdands they find it difficult to satisfy their husbands. The husband might have been asking for sex for the past seven days without her aggreing once. But she will tell someone that her husband wants sex everyday.

MrBible: But before marriage and in the early years of marriage the woman is always asking for more now the man is so used to it, the woman is complaining.

billyG: The woman shld refuse to wash her kunt 4 oneweek to discourage him .

toofine765: Hi nairalanders, my bis sis who has been married for eight years that confided in me that the husband usually makes love to her every night, that he never beleives that she can be tired. She works and has little kids she is taking care of. She say when ever she compains of tiredness, he gets very angry and leaves the house only to come back after midnight. I could not bring myself to tell her he definatly goes out to sleep with other ladies. My only advice to her was for her to give it to him any time he likes it but I have been veryu unhappy since then. Why will he not understand with her when she is tired? Why does it only have to be about him only? He is just selfish and it makes me sad. She does not want a divorce either because of her children. But I still feel this action of his can still lead to her death one day. Please house members, what do you think is the best advice for her because she is so dear to my heart.

jennykadry: @Topic

Does he help out with house work? cos it will be very selfish of him to ask for s33x if all he does is go to work, come back home and sit in front of the TV legs crossed and watching soccer.

Let him do some of the house work and see if he wont reduce his excess cravings to once a year.