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| Intimate Temptations, Christians How Do You Cope? by Nobody: 6:38am On Apr 18, 2013 |
I went to see my campus fellowship member (female) in her hostel, as I sat in her bed reading a magazine, she came in a short skimpy outfit. She looked so hot but as a christian i know it is wrong to do anything sexual until marriage. So i decided to leave her hostel . She told me to stay, that she had something for me. As i sat in her bed, she push me into the bed came on top of me and beg me to have se.x with her. She said she needed me badly. Apart from this, I have been facing other temptations. I feel like giving in sometimes. This is to those of you who are virgins or those of you who have decide not to have sex again till you get married have you ever been tempted to have se.x before. Please share the story with us, How did you overcome it, if you fell into the temptation, still share it so that others will learn from your story. Thanks in advance. |
| Re: Intimate Temptations, Christians How Do You Cope? by Nobody: 8:56pm On Apr 18, 2013 |
I was tempted and I ended up fornicating. trust me the guilt I feel haunts me till now especially when the word virgin is mentioned. Dont do it bro... 28 Likes |
| Re: Intimate Temptations, Christians How Do You Cope? by Goshen360(m): 9:10pm On Apr 18, 2013 |
New Living Translation (©2007) The temptations in your life are no different from what others experience. And God is faithful. He will not allow the temptation to be more than you can stand. When you are tempted, he will show you a way out so that you can endure. 1 Corinthians 10:13 The Corinthians Church (some or most) are the most immoral that Apostle wrote the ^ above scripture to. Think about that scripture above and God will give peace in your heart. 8 Likes |
| Re: Intimate Temptations, Christians How Do You Cope? by Hassan11: 10:09pm On Apr 18, 2013 |
Brother i really knw hw u feel about this. I av turned down such temptations too i tell u it is not easy. Sometimes u feel afterall what is there but God had specifically put his fear in u which is d begining of wisdom jst like he did unto Joseph. When u indulge in it u wil realise dat u peace, ur right in God, ur authority etc wil be tampered with. Luv u sir 3 Likes |
| Re: Intimate Temptations, Christians How Do You Cope? by Nobody: 10:23pm On Apr 18, 2013 |
With the sort of post I see on nairaland I was begining to think people like you guys didnt exit. YOUR comments have proven me wrong. You are all great people. @jacobscros, you are great. 10 Likes |
| Re: Intimate Temptations, Christians How Do You Cope? by Nobody: 10:30pm On Apr 18, 2013 |
I can relate, loosing your virginity is never an easy thing. That feeling of regret. Men |
| Re: Intimate Temptations, Christians How Do You Cope? by mumumugu(m): 11:00pm On Apr 18, 2013 |
Say "GET BEHIND ME SATAN ' |
| Re: Intimate Temptations, Christians How Do You Cope? by DrummaBoy(m): 9:54am On Apr 19, 2013 |
The Bible commands Xtians to know how to possess their vessels in sanctification and holiness. Believe me conquering sexual sin is a life long work even after marriage. If you succeded as a single chances are U will succeded married. Knowing how to possess ur vessels is peculiar to U and ur situation. It may mean not going to female hostel at all, not staring at ladies, discipline, fasting, prayers, etc. 1 Like |
| Re: Intimate Temptations, Christians How Do You Cope? by truthislight: 9:55am On Apr 19, 2013 |
jacobscros: I was tempted and I ended up fornicating. trust me the guilt I feel haunts me till now especially when the word virgin is mentioned. Dont do it bro... Befor on this forum you had said you were a virgin and having issues with masturbation /mastur.bation. But today you just announced: jacobscros: I was tempted and I ended up fornicating. lol ^. Have you now became the "supperman" that God's(Yahweh) law was preventing you from becoming or you have just ended up picking a veneral disease? Smh for satan deception on premarital sex. I only wish you dont get carried away with the vicious circle that you just started, most cant even stop it even after getting married. (Just look at the world around you then you can understand). Peace |
| Re: Intimate Temptations, Christians How Do You Cope? by GraceBestowed(f): 10:28am On Apr 19, 2013 |
Everyone is human, and will act to the stimuli around them, so the best way to avoid temptation is to RUN far away when you see its symptoms; even the bible says to FLEE from evil. There is no anointing for discipline, and discipline comes from crucifying your flesh everyday, ask God for the grace to do this. Don't allow yourself to get into a situation where you could, possibly, compromise; having gone to the hostel, to be alone with this girl, is a perfect example of walking into a tricky situation. Finally, to answer your question, no, I have never been tempted to 'be intimate' since I got saved, and it's all thanks to the grace of God! All the best, bro! 9 Likes |
| Re: Intimate Temptations, Christians How Do You Cope? by Nobody: 10:28am On Apr 19, 2013 |
The renewing of your mind. The mind is everything. If you lose the battle in your mind, you are forever and absolutely defeated. You are what you think. Simply jettison all impure thoughts from your mind with the power of God and dealing with thoughts of intimacy becomes the easiest thing. It works like magic. In your experience, the amount of grace, word of God and personal discipline living in the individual comes into play. Nothing is impossible with God, so it's possible to push her off of you and walk out the room. 4 Likes |
| Re: Intimate Temptations, Christians How Do You Cope? by dridowu: 10:30am On Apr 19, 2013 |
Let me keep mute 1st |
| Re: Intimate Temptations, Christians How Do You Cope? by tellwisdom: 10:30am On Apr 19, 2013 |
Vilicious: I went to see my campus fellowship member (female) in her hostel, as I sat in her bed reading a magazine, she came in a short skimpy outfit. She looked so hot but as a christian i know it is wrong to do anything sexual until marriage. So i decided to leave her hostel . She told me to stay, that she had something for me. As i sat in her bed, she push me into the bed came on top of me and beg me to have se.x with her. She said she needed me badly. Apart from this, I have been facing other temptations. I feel like giving in sometimes. This is to those of you who are virgins or those of you who have decide not to have sex again till you get married Please give me her number  ...Is she still in that hostel?? 5 Likes |
| Re: Intimate Temptations, Christians How Do You Cope? by AkinDavid2: 10:32am On Apr 19, 2013 |
You know what RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN and keep RUNNING RUNNING RUNNING and nothing more. Don't waste your time binding or casting so that you don't end up bounded and casted  3 Likes |
| Re: Intimate Temptations, Christians How Do You Cope? by Nobody: 10:35am On Apr 19, 2013 |
Constant development is the law of life, and a man who always tries to maintain his dogmas in order to appear consistent drives himself into a false position. -Mohandas Gandhi christians are the worst pretenders i've ever seen!! 2 Likes |
| Re: Intimate Temptations, Christians How Do You Cope? by MoAfrica: 10:39am On Apr 19, 2013 |
Keep yourself clean young man, and resist the devil he will flee from you. Trust me you don’t want to go through the pain i went through after fornicating, for the first time you will see how naked you are before God, like our father Adam did in the garden of Eden. Stay away from sin and at the right time, God will give you right women for you. |
| Re: Intimate Temptations, Christians How Do You Cope? by babysnogls: 10:41am On Apr 19, 2013 |
Be determined. Flee(physically run away) fornication. Open door wen alone wt ur lady. Spend more time out wt her talkn, knwing urselves. Avoid french kissing, caressing and smooching. Keep ur heart open to Holyspirit. 4 Likes |
| Re: Intimate Temptations, Christians How Do You Cope? by Nobody: 10:44am On Apr 19, 2013 |
lemme give some clues: never visit d opposite sex alone even if u are not emotionally connected, get urself busy all the time so as not to allow ur mind wander indiscriminately, guard ur mind diligently, one must have to exercise thinking right, never ever watch porn, see the opposite sex as blood brothers or sisters as the case may be. If u can put these into practise, ur chastity is guaranteed. Enjoy! 6 Likes |
| Re: Intimate Temptations, Christians How Do You Cope? by konn: 10:44am On Apr 19, 2013 |
991: Constant development is the law of life, and a man who always tries to maintain his dogmas in order to appear consistent drives himself into a false position.not all christians |
| Re: Intimate Temptations, Christians How Do You Cope? by tpapi: 10:48am On Apr 19, 2013 |
Kai, dis op don fall my hand |
| Re: Intimate Temptations, Christians How Do You Cope? by Alwaystrue(f): 10:50am On Apr 19, 2013 |
@OP, You do not cope with intimate temptations, you flee! Joseph fled when his master's wife tried it with him. In future, either visit the female hostels with another friend or leave any situation that may want to compromise your belief. Flee ALL appearances of evil, the bible says. Keep yourself for your wife as that is what God commands and think on things that are pure and worthy of praise. The world calls those that keep their virginity till marriage stupid, what does God call you? God's report is the best o. May God help you and us. 6 Likes |
| Re: Intimate Temptations, Christians How Do You Cope? by Krisgift(f): 10:52am On Apr 19, 2013 |
Nice thread.i have been tempted and i fell,though i didn't touch the ground;-).dat's all |
| Re: Intimate Temptations, Christians How Do You Cope? by quicksylva(m): 10:54am On Apr 19, 2013 |
Akin-David:Buhahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahaha You Don't End Up Bounded And Casted. |
| Re: Intimate Temptations, Christians How Do You Cope? by Tunisque(m): 10:57am On Apr 19, 2013 |
Vilicious: I went to see my campus fellowship member (female) in her hostel, as I sat in her bed reading a magazine, she came in a short skimpy outfit. She looked so hot but as a christian i know it is wrong to do anything sexual until marriage. So i decided to leave her hostel . She told me to stay, that she had something for me. As i sat in her bed, she push me into the bed came on top of me and beg me to have se.x with her. She said she needed me badly. Apart from this, I have been facing other temptations. I feel like giving in sometimes. This is to those of you who are virgins or those of you who have decide not to have sex again till you get married Your story is incomplete. You never mentioned whether you fell or not. Be that as it may, i must tell you that you weren't wise enough to have gone to a sister's hostel not to talk of sitting on her bed. When we caution brothers against too much familiarity with sisters they think otherwise. The truth is that the flesh is not born again but the spirit, yes God's grace in Christ Jesus is sufficient but He warns us to be as wise as the serpent and gentle as the dove. Apostle Peter also emphasizes on the need for us be vigilant and sober for our adversary the devil as a roaring lion walketh about seeking whom he may devour. We all face temptation from the opposite sex every day and God gives us grace to say NO but we shouldn't take the grace of God for granted. Well, all i said here are for those that are actually born again with the Spirit of God bearing witness with their spirit that they are child of God. God bless you. 4 Likes |
| Re: Intimate Temptations, Christians How Do You Cope? by AnodaIT(m): 10:58am On Apr 19, 2013 |
There are temptations that the Bible says you should stand and fight. But intimate temptations? We are warned to fleeeeeeeeeeeeeeee. . The wisest of them all couldnt even understand the ways of a man with a woman. The emotions there is biblically complex |
| Re: Intimate Temptations, Christians How Do You Cope? by drealnamdy(m): 10:59am On Apr 19, 2013 |
Krisgift: Nice thread.i have been tempted and i fell,though i didn't touch the ground;-).dat's all Story..  |
| Re: Intimate Temptations, Christians How Do You Cope? by Promolysis(m): 11:00am On Apr 19, 2013 |
MoAfrica: Keep yourself clean young man, and resist the devil he will flee from you.are u guys implying that sexual sin is the only sin existing in the world today? Belived me there are other sins we committed on daily basis and we feel it doesnt matter. |
| Re: Intimate Temptations, Christians How Do You Cope? by etochi11(m): 11:00am On Apr 19, 2013 |
Vilicious: I went to see my campus fellowship member (female) in her hostel, as I sat in her bed reading a magazine, she came in a short skimpy outfit. She looked so hot but as a christian i know it is wrong to do anything sexual until marriage. So i decided to leave her hostel . She told me to stay, that she had something for me. As i sat in her bed, she push me into the bed came on top of me and beg me to have se.x with her. She said she needed me badly. Apart from this, I have been facing other temptations. I feel like giving in sometimes. This is to those of you who are virgins or those of you who have decide not to have sex again till you get marriedu didn't finish d story. Y? Complete it.. Did u giv in or u slapped her? Which 1 |
| Re: Intimate Temptations, Christians How Do You Cope? by Okijajuju1(m): 11:02am On Apr 19, 2013 |
SIMPLE.. When I am tempted by the Spirit of Lust, fornication, immorality and sex, I simply backslide, have sex, repent and return to default mode.. #Problem solved. Thank God for the Blood of Jesus and Grace.. Sinning has never felt so good. |
| Re: Intimate Temptations, Christians How Do You Cope? by omoabolade(m): 11:02am On Apr 19, 2013 |
There's no two way frm escapin ds kind of temptatn dn to RUN. In 2007, a single older lady trried luring me. It was my new station nd she was d only person i knew in d village. Dt day she took permision in d school she was teachin durin break, only for her to come to d health centre whr i work to seduce me. When she saw dt a nurse was present she invited me to her place for lunch. Bt i declined sensin her intentns by God's grace while promisin to visit her later. ds i did in d evenin when her room mates were back frm school. Several yrs later, even afyer she got married, she still sent a romantic msg to me. One tin i ensured was dt we never ar never alone together. All in all, IT HAS BEEN BY GOD'S GRACE 1 Like |
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