Please I need help...my project supervisor wants me to sleep with him..I really don't know what to do..I've never been involved in this type of problem..- want to change my supervisor but it's not that easy and I have to give my HOD a good reason...I have no proof about the issue..please I really need help and I dnt want to create more problems for myself...I posted this in the education section but I did nt get replies..please help

I can help you get a fake HIV positive test result.


Just drop the paper on his desk and bounce!
Let him understand your status is the reason you've been avoiding him.


In case you're not strong enough to attempt this, I'll bring in more tips.

Buy condoms and sleep with him ,end of story!

Please stop the jokes

That lecturer is a fool.

@kenyattaMoore:
Buy condoms and sleep with him ,end of story!

Kenyan style I guess
smh

BraideBraide: Please stop the jokes

I thought I gave you a tip... thats no joke

Acidosis:

Kenyan style I guess
smh

Really?
I respect myself more than you could ever think ,what does she want to hear to hear/read when she is asking that question? She already knows what to do.

Acidosis: I can help you get a fake HIV positive test result.


Just drop the paper on his desk and bounce!
Let him understand your status is the reason you've been advoiding him.


In case you're not strong enough to attempt this, I'll bring in more tips.

what if he is positive too?
it will make it easier.

tpacalipse: That lecturer is a fool.

Don't we know that already?

@kenyattaMoore:


Really?
I respect myself more than you could ever think ,what does she want to hear to hear/read when she is asking that question? She already knows what to do.

@bolded,
Nice

But its possible shes confused about the whole thing..

Hope I didn't offend you with my initial post?

@kenyattaMoore:


Really?
I respect myself more than you could ever think ,what does she want to
hear to hear/read when she is asking that question? She already knows
what to do.

she expects you 2 search your brain for something helpful or shut up!!!

Acidosis:
@bolded,
Nice

But its possible shes confused about the whole thing..

Hope I didn't offend you with my initial post?

Not at all! One of my father‘s friend wanted to taste my p..sy while he was staying in our house, did I let him do it?No! Because I already knew that's wrong.I didn't need to go and talk to my mother because I knew it was wrong!

baibijay:

she expects you 2 search your brain for something helpful or shout up!!!

What's "shout up"?

baibijay:

what if he is positive too?
it will make it easier.

There are 2 stages. TYPE I & II
AIDS occurs much more slowly in HIV-II, and since HIV-II is largely confined to West Africa, she can fake the type I. I bet the man would think twice. Besides, the man wouldn't want to disclose his status to a student.

@kenyattaMoore:


Not at all! One of my father‘s friend wanted to taste my p..sy while he was staying in our house, did I let him do it?No! Because I already knew that's wrong.I didn't need to go and talk to my mother because I knew it was wrong!

Lol.... next time make sure you inform your dad.

This silent/personal treatment while trying to protect the image of a potential r@pist is the reason why we have a very rate of r@pe and child abuse in africa.



and did I hear you call that man, friend?

Please I'm waiting for a good reply..please

can't you share this with your parents?

@Op i hope you dress decently in school and you do not expose your cleavage. Here is an advice from a similar thread

desertboom: Ohhh What a sad story in our Nigeria University. However,the same problem confronted a young girl in my school a year ago but she was bold and intelligent enough to deal with this menace that has eaten deep in our society. She contacted some police officers secretly, she also accepted the deal with the lecturer to hire a hotel room for the evil act. However, the lecturer was happy that he even arrived the venue before the agreed time, both of them were inside the hotel room giggling and preparing for the action to take place. Before the action was about to start the police and security agents invaded the room and arrested the lecturer. What a big shame for the lecturer, his wife, his kids and his entire family, he was dismiss immediately from the university. @poster. You can adopt the same idea so that we can deal with all this useless lecturers that wants to turn our universities to the dark side. Please, don't be afraid to fight him. https://www.nairaland.com/377290/lecturer-wants-sleep-wife

baibijay:

what if he is positive too?
it will make it easier.

LMAO!!
Dnt bother urself. Call him and resord the conversation. It's dt easy!
Take it to ur H.O.D. Dnt forget to keep a copy!

Thanks..I don't dress indecently to school and besides we have a strict dress code in my department...I really don't have proof yet but I'll try to get 1..right now it'll just be my word against his..

SLIDE waxie: LMAO!!
Dnt bother urself. Call him and resord the conversation. It's dt easy!
Take it to ur H.O.D. Dnt forget to keep a copy!

its kinda difficult bcs some h.o.d are like that too, its worse wen they all turn against you

BraideBraide: Please I need help...my project supervisor wants me to sleep with him..I really don't know what to do..I've never been involved in this type of problem..- want to change my supervisor but it's not that easy and I have to give my HOD a good reason...I have no proof about the issue..please I really need help and I dnt want to create more problems for myself...I posted this in the education section but I did nt get replies..please help

all u know is to use ur phones to ping,twit,post pictures on fb and listen to dbanj,u don,t know that u can use ur phones to record discussions u can use as evidence and make sure u always call his full names and titles when discussing or buy a face cap with video camera

@kenyattaMoore:
Buy condoms and sleep with him ,end of story!

She not like you, she has standard.

BraideBraide: Please I need help...my project supervisor wants me to sleep with him..I really don't know what to do..I've never been involved in this type of problem..- want to change my supervisor but it's not that easy and I have to give my HOD a good reason...I have no proof about the issue..please I really need help and I dnt want to create more problems for myself...I posted this in the education section but I did nt get replies..please help

There is no smoke without FIRE.. It is on RARE events that you see a Lecturer go for a girl he has nothing in common with.. it hardly happens. Something about you must have given him the courage to make such demands.

*my project supervisor wants me to sleep with him* is quite different from *my project supervisor wants to sleep with me*

Anyway, if this story is true, there is little or nothing anyone here can do for you. how do you react when he told you he wants to furk you? do you start shaking? you are already furked once he/she sees that you are scared cos fear is the most potent weapon of the enemy.

my sister had the same problem with her HOD, but because of her readiness to leave school if it is wat it takes made her escape the problem if u give in not only him but be ready to sleep with all ur lecturers including that ur HOD and proffessors because he would surely discuss it with them and they would come for their own share.
saying u are HIV positive is no reason because he would still use condom when sleeping with u and arranging with police might make the school authority to throw u out of school unless u have a solid evidence against him which I think u dont have at moment

wat u should do is first switch on ur phone call recorder to be recording all ur phone calls with him and when ever u are around him or to his office switch on phone voice recorder to record ur conversation with

Acidosis: I can help you get a fake HIV positive test result.


Just drop the paper on his desk and bounce!
Let him understand your status is the reason you've been advoiding him.


In case you're not strong enough to attempt this, I'll bring in more tips.

it might damage ur reputation in school, so i dont advise you to. My candid advice is report him to your department and also the human rights comission or any comission that deals with this kind of issue. Above all put it in prayers.

Think about the repercusions of each of ur options... Then choose the least detrimental.
I don't know if you heard about the gat lecturer in ABU? The guy brought policemen to the hotel they were suposed to do the deed and got caught RED Handed.
So but that would b a good strategy here cos the lecturers are religious and probably won't victimize the student.
And u'd do well asking advice from ur parents.
BTW u r pretty

BraideBraide: Please I'm waiting for a good reply..please

where are your parents?
Please,get off the internet and go tell the people that sent you to school ie your parents.
Assuming this is no joke.

BraideBraide: Please I need help...my project supervisor wants me to sleep with him..I really don't know what to do..I've never been involved in this type of problem..- want to change my supervisor but it's not that easy and I have to give my HOD a good reason...I have no proof about the issue..please I really need help and I dnt want to create more problems for myself...I posted this in the education section but I did nt get replies..please help

Are you sure he wants to sleep with you? How do you know. All you need is proof. You can record a conversation or just some random texts he must have sent you. You need proof and if you have proof, go talk to your parents and then your HOD. I will strongly advice you get your parents involved and also your HOD. Don't suffer in silence and do not create problems for yourself. But make sure you have proof!