pardechevuex: Op,I don't think u are doing anything wrong but don't be desperate,I had a friend who was so desperate about getting married when she turned 32 she got d man and they got married bfore she got married she was always saying she will not be single at 33 but guess what?at 33 she became single again cos the man was a cheat and a wife beater.this will not be your case.all I ask you to do is to be patient your ideal man will come and u will be glad you waited

biolabee: Check this thread you may be able to express yourself
https://www.nairaland.com/1182427/thread-single-ladies

Acidosis: You are only 31, woman... Relax your mind and like you said, you can get your own apartment & make sure you live a decent life.

Giving yourself a matrimonial ultimatum is the surest way to fall in the arms of a barbaric groom.

If you believe in prayers, tender your requests to God and attend religious services, marriage seminars, reasonable events.. Don't go about clubbing else you'll only make a mess of yourself in the hands of small small chop & clean mouth dudes.

Resist every form of pride, now that we all know you travel to u.k everyday with a fat salary.

And make sure you dress well and in a responsible not so flashy way.

and then


invite me for your wedding on the 21st of September, 2013!

Happyness_Chima: Good day nairaland. I'm 31 years old female, single and unmarried. I want to get married by the end of this year by Gods grace. All the men that approach me either are unsettled yet or one problem or the other. At first I wasn't desperate, but I don't know what im doing wrong. I have a good job and travel to the UK often but still haven't met any man that's prepared for marriage. When I go out to have fun, my siblings start complaining that im attending parties and staying out late too much. Is it in our parlour a man will marry me? I'm trying to enjoy life by looking on to the bright side but still feel empty inside of me. What else can I do to get married at least by the end of the year? Any others I my shoes can input as well.

Coldfeet: I will say wait and be patient! But I don't think that's what u want to hear at this point! So maybe u should do what my "ageing" friend did! Look for a guy with a sweet gene! A man that can give u sweet looking baby and get pregnant for him! My friend is now married. They say the trend now is 30s baby mamas are more lucrative than non baby mama in dia 30s. Cant believe I am going to post this sorta bs!

Coldfeet: I will say wait and be patient! But I don't think that's what u want to hear at this point! So maybe u should do what my "ageing" friend did! Look for a guy with a sweet gene! A man that can give u sweet looking baby and get pregnant for him! My friend is now married. They say the trend now is 30s baby mamas are more lucrative than non baby mama in dia 30s. Cant believe I am going to post this sorta bs!

Coldfeet: I will say wait and be patient! But I don't think that's what u want to hear at this point! So maybe u should do what my "ageing" friend did! Look for a guy with a sweet gene! A man that can give u sweet looking baby and get pregnant for him! My friend is now married. They say the trend now is 30s baby mamas are more lucrative than non baby mama in dia 30s. Cant believe I am going to post this sorta bs!

Coldfeet: I will say wait and be patient! But I don't think that's what u want to hear at this point! So maybe u should do what my "ageing" friend did! Look for a guy with a sweet gene! A man that can give u sweet looking baby and get pregnant for him! My friend is now married. They say the trend now is 30s baby mamas are more lucrative than non baby mama in dia 30s. Cant believe I am going to post this sorta bs!

coogar:

Happyness_Chima:

please what else can I do. When everyone in ur family is getting married. If I step outside they say i'm perambulating everywhere. Party, wedding, nightclub is a problem. Im thinking maybe I should rent my own place since I can afford it. I haff tire for the matter.

Gboliwe:
You are 31 and you still live with your parents

Happyness_Chima:

please what else can I do. When everyone in ur family is getting married. If I step outside they say i'm perambulating everywhere. Party, wedding, nightclub is a problem. Im thinking maybe I should rent my own place since I can afford it. I haff tire for the matter.

kulyie: coogar whats up with posting leonardo di caprio's picture a.k.a jack dawson. did you tell him before posting it.2ndly whats with the look (or are you tripping for the op already :p this is your opportunity na o.you better open up and tell her how you feel 8-) dont let a good girl pass you by)

coogar:

Happyness_Chima: Good day nairaland. I'm 31 years old female, single and unmarried. I want to get married by the end of this year by Gods grace. All the men that approach me either are unsettled yet or one problem or the other. At first I wasn't desperate, but I don't know what im doing wrong. I have a good job and travel to the UK often but still haven't met any man that's prepared for marriage. When I go out to have fun, my siblings start complaining that im attending parties and staying out late too much. Is it in our parlour a man will marry me? I'm trying to enjoy life by looking on to the bright side but still feel empty inside of me. What else can I do to get married at least by the end of the year? Any others I my shoes can input as well.

amtheone:

Happy, u have to take it easy on urself. U don't need to put urself under intense pressure: for such will not help. U maybe thinking that all ur mate are married, its not true.

The most important thing is to prepare yourself for what u are looking for(husband) for u will surely get married.

Don't let family or societal pressure drive u into places that u are not comfortable with. It is not by human power, but it is God that gives husband/wife.
If u are bless with materials, don't let them be a barrier but a blessing, and if u are opportuned to seee other climates don't brag about it so much. Take life simple.

Don't worry so much about ur age. I got married to my wife who is above ur age(our wedding was on d 4th of May 2013), the same age bracket with my wife. As I'm typing this, we are still in the honeymoon though my angel is not feeling too fine.

Again, God can bring ur husband to come and meet u even in ur parents' kitchen. So, its not by how expose u are or where u have been to that matters but ur character and God's time in ur life. Ask me how I met my wife, that will be a diff topic.

Remain blessed.