Tashamania:


There! Quite an epistle you didn't have to go through all that. Good girl, nice girl, best girl? What else?
For all I know, OP might be better than you in all ramification (no offence), but everybody's destiny aint meant to be the same. Like OP said, most women have had similar experience, even more. God knows why she aint married at this age and I tell you, it is for the best.

As for the bolded, why don't you give it a try? am sure my bro wouldn't wait for you to leave your husband's house before taking you down the aisle


Ish! Like it's that easy

Happyness_Chima: Thanks. I'm grateful for the replies.

Sorry if I offended anyone by mentioning UK. Wh[b]at I meant to explain is I'm always on holidays to London to relax and expand my search my a husband. I work in rotational shifts so when I get 4 weeks off, I like to use it to travel which is like 5-6 times a year[/b]. I'm not bragging ot showing off. I don't even go for shopping or live lavish when I visit there. Maybe it wasn't worth mentioning so I'm sorry.

I'm a catholic but started attending winners. I'm active in my Church even though most women are there for the same thing. They gossip too much and all that. Most of these brothers are not what i'm looking for or they're sometimes naïve and me I can't settle for any man anyhow. I like activities so I go out a lot and don't partake in irresponsible things. I'm just ready to have a husband and my own home. When you meet a man that's not settled, they usually bring their baggage to me and as a single woman I don't think I should be feeding any man. My siblings are getting hitched and im feeling the pressure to have my own.

babyosisi:

I am trying to help the sister get a husband which is what she desires
If you have tips to give her,please do
That is her purpose for the thread

If you have had single friends cry on your shoulders in their late 30S about no suitors,you will know what I'm asking about
For those who desire to marry the ages 22-30 are your best years with men at your beck and call,after that you must do what u can to be hitched before 35 or else,na only miracle remain or you settle for divorcee,rejected lunatics and polygamists or marry men well below your status out of frustration
That is the plain truth if she wants to marry a Nigerian male
No time for all that political correctness

esere826: Happyness, happyness... how many time i call u?

When i see person wen acheeive wetin i go like acheive
what i usually do is to learn from the person
(not what the person says he does, but what he actually does)

babyosisi don talk
the truth is that when i clicked on her profile and saw the topics she was engaged in
i fell in love with her immediately

A friend of mine was engaged to a beautiful girl in nigeria
he met and fell in love with a normal looking but extremely talkatively intelligent girl in the UK
Na God save that girl for Nigeria.. she was on her way out
but the guy got a job in 9ja and had to move back to his 1st love

Yvete: This is too funny!!!

@ Babyosisi: You don't mean harm, but your comment could be interpreted differently. Its seems like the poster wasn't pleased that's why she said "Most women have had these experiences" and she's right. We know what happens when women are imported from Nigeria to meet men over here. It mostly ends up sour. #BraggingRights for some though.

@ OP: As ladies get older, we increase our activities at Church and most men at Church ain't no better. My friend was fighting with a lady over a guy in the choir. The guy was two-timing, went and married another lady and brought her into the same choir. On sundays, I don't know how they all get along. Crazy! This is the same lady that my friend liked and she complained that he sounds like 'Nna Bros' on the phone and refused to date him. lolz.

Vikin:

My dear, marriage does not equal happiness..try to make yourself happy, because if you are not happy as a single lady you can never be happy as a married lady!

Be yourself, give love to everyone....elderly, kids, less privileged etc, you can never tell where love will find you.

babyosisi:


What do you mean by all this?
I said earlier that the qualities you are looking for are either unattainable or your attitude is even repelling the money bags you are looking for from coming to ask your hand in marriage.
There are every calibre of men in the church and in all the places you tell us you go to
And they are marrying fellow women like you with one head every blessed day
I once told a friend in plain terms to re evaluate what she is looking for in a man
You are not perfect
So don't expect anyone to be and you need to ask yourself what you are not doing right
You see those men you are describing in such terms,when you reach 38,you will be praying for a man that has one fifth of their qualities.
But if you want to listen to those who will tell you what you want to hear,that is your cup of tea.


Btw what type of job in Nigeria do you do such that you can afford to travel to London 5 to 6 times a year
The only ladies that can do this also have homes in prime areas of Abuja and there are some sugar daddies footing the bill.
No salary in Nigeria or anywhere else will afford you that luxury and you know what I'm talking about
Most of these ladies are still single because they wasted their youthful years and the same men they want to get married to have ears.

babyosisi:
Btw what type of job in Nigeria do you do such that you can afford to travel to London 5 to 6 times a year
The only ladies that can do this also have homes in prime areas of Abuja and there are some sugar daddies footing the bill.
No salary in Nigeria or anywhere else will afford you that luxury and you know what I'm talking about
Most of these ladies are still single because they wasted their youthful years and the same men they want to get married to have ears.

Vikin: Babyosisi, u are wrong by saying no job in naija can afford u travelling 5 or 6 times. She mentioned she wirks rotation. 4 weeks in and out. I imagine if its oil sector, she can well spend her off weeks anywhere in the world. What u have to do is tell ur employer where the book ur flight , to and fro. Offshore jobs on rotation pays a lot. Ask people around.

Op, open ur mind to people around you. Since u have the money, u should be after settling with guys that have good morals not necessary wealthy.

Tashamania: There! Quite an epistle you didn't have to go through all that. Good girl, nice girl, best girl? What else?
For all I know, OP might be better than you in all ramification (no offence), but everybody's destiny aint meant to be the same. Like OP said, most women have had similar experience, even more. God knows why she aint married at this age and I tell you, it is for the best.

As for the bolded, why don't you give it a try? am sure my bro wouldn't wait for you to leave your husband's house before taking you down the aisle


Ish! Like it's that easy

Happyness_Chima:

Jehovah!! What kind of rest-less married woman are you biko? You said no salary in Nigeria will afford 5 trips to the UK? that shows ur financial level. i have nothing to say but whats so special about this UK that has been biting you this woman since. I even apologized that I want others to understand what I do with my life and how I spend my time so they can advice because its biting u seriously. Flight ticket to London is only 90K. You claim to know everything abt wild girls and their lifestyle. How did you know all these if u were not one of them? I passed out from unijos by the age of 23. I'm not baby for you to boss around online. Is this how you treat your single friends. Show me one woman that has never had a suitor abroad. What have I done to warrant all this insults?

Happyness_Chima:

Is it wrong that I mentioned UK? I even came back to clarify. She wants to ridicule me for no reason. If I knew how inconsiderate people can be, I won't open a topic like this.

Happyness_Chima:

Is it wrong that I mentioned UK? I even came back to clarify. She wants to ridicule me for no reason. If I knew how inconsiderate people can be, I won't open a topic like this.

esere826: Happyness_Chima

will you date me?
I never get money or moto yet
but i get sense well well
I have potential

No worry, i no go chop your money
I wont drive your car either
you wont also pay for me to travel with u
I will just be at the airport to pick u with a taxi when u arrive

I live in a self contained BQ, u can visit me when u are off
when u travel, me and u go dey Skype

If you no like my wardrobe
u go change am to suit your taste

esere826: Happyness_Chima

will you date me?
I never get money or moto yet
but i get sense well well
I have potential

No worry, i no go chop your money
I wont drive your car either
you wont also pay for me to travel with u
I will just be at the airport to pick u with a taxi when u arrive

I live in a self contained BQ, u can visit me when u are off
when u travel, me and u go dey Skype

If you no like my wardrobe
u go change am to suit your taste

steve_cantrell: Heh ! Heh!

Sounds like blackmail to me .

I'll keep an eye on this thread

Happyness_Chima:

Jehovah!! What kind of rest-less married woman are you biko? You said no salary in Nigeria will afford 5 trips to the UK? that shows ur financial level. i have nothing to say but whats so special about this UK that has been biting you this woman since. I even apologized that I want others to understand what I do with my life and how I spend my time so they can advice because its biting u seriously. Flight ticket to London is only 90K. You claim to know everything abt wild girls and their lifestyle. How did you know all these if u were not one of them? I passed out from unijos by the age of 23. I'm not baby for you to boss around online. Is this how you treat your single friends. Show me one woman that has never had a suitor abroad. What have I done to warrant all this insults?

Vikin:

If you are interested, just say so ..

steve_cantrell:


No, I'm probably too young for the OP.

Vikin:

Put your CV here, your full picture, your reference, as a nairaland family, we need to make sure you are what you say you are?

esere826:

how many years u be?