lynpetra: I think I know where you are coming from t.boy.My ex who I dated for four years had the same problem with his ex.He said the gurl was always at his beck and core like a zombie!!Always does what he ask without complaining.According to him,there are months without a single argument.That's boring!If they go out with friends,she doesn't contribute anything on the table during discussion.Well my commando ex got fed up and kindly let her go.Then he met me.....and the whole house starts to shake

Onyegecha: Please this is not a problem. You can turn it into a romantic sport with a little creativity. She treats you like a master today, you treat her like a mistress tomorrow. Find a way to enjoy what the good lord has dropped in your laps, but be careful and observant to be sure it is not a pretend game in which case she is using this subservient attitude to get you to the altar before unveiling her true colour.

t.b.o.y:

Lol. You go get craze gan oooo. All i want from her is to question my judgment at time. Am not perfect and i can't be. I can be making all the decisions always.

Caracta: I don't understand. Does she pray in your name or did she carve an idol in your image? What do you mean by "worship"? Pls make me understand

Caracta: I don't understand. Does she pray in your name or did she carve an idol in your image? What do you mean by "worship"? Pls make me understand

Mynd_44: I have seen this sort of poo happen before. [size=14pt]The girl actually kneels down to greet the guy[/size] (he is just 3 years older ooo), she calls him "broda" and obeys everything he says.

Some women are just like that.

rokiatu: How about you try been jovious with her, flirt with her, be a friend, act romantic, give her good sex, show to her that is a romantic relationship and not a dictatorship.

No matter how naive, shy, or country she is, your attitude towards her will shape her behavior towards you.

alutacontinua: @op, i think the first step is to get to the root of her attitude. There are quite a number of reasons why she might be doing that. It could be pretence, desperation, up-bringing/mentality about men, low self-esteem, she might just be like that naturally. My advice: you're the one that has been with her, so, try and get to know why she acts that way. From there, you'll be able to tackle the issue. Forget all those people telling you to just enjoy the relationship, i don't think it's that easy to be in a relationship with somebody who wouldn't shake you sometimes. Where's the fun in the relationship?

lynpetra:



Very true,some girls are so deceptive!Esp when desperate(some men too).Like myself,I don't like pretending cos I will end up making a total f.ool of myself or hurting d oda person.Sometimes we tend to hide our true colour only to get something we want.Part of the reasons y there are mistrust in marriages.To all my ladies,be true to yourself!Be real ,so your man can see ur flaws and help u change them if he can!Don't fake ur orga.sms and don't rush into the bathroom to empty xxxx gel on ur punnnnany just so to let him know u are wet and ready for him

t.b.o.y:
Iv been dating this girl just a little over a year now. Am four years older than she is. She has been good as far as i knw. The problem i av with her is that she treats me like am a lord. Initial i thought it was respect but nw she worship me which i don't like Iv sat her down time with no counts to make a realize i don't want that but she seems not to change. Iv never shouted or lay my hands on her so i don't knw What warranted all this. The relationship is now master and slave and its not interesting anymore. ADVICE PLS

alutacontinua: @op, i think the first step is to get to the root of her attitude. There are quite a number of reasons why she might be doing that. It could be pretence, desperation, up-bringing/mentality about men, low self-esteem, she might just be like that naturally. My advice: you're the one that has been with her, so, try and get to know why she acts that way. From there, you'll be able to tackle the issue. Forget all those people telling you to just enjoy the relationship, i don't think it's that easy to be in a relationship with somebody who wouldn't shake you sometimes. Where's the fun in the relationship?