Seun:

I doubt it. Inasmuch as I don't like to control people close to me, I also don't like being controlled.

michelin89:

At the end of the day a man will always be a man. It's of no use arguing with ya.  

And a woman will always b a woman,thats life my sista we are all brought up in different/diverse environments,with different views about life,thats what makes the world go round and interesting
@seun,awwww and i was already on the phone with the wedding planner,anyway can't blame a brother for tryn

Seun:

Let's quickly return to the topic: "should wives submit?" Most Nigerians say "yes", including both men and women.

michelin89:

I wonder why women would say yes.

After you're married and garnered some experience in that department,I'll listen to you.
I wouldn't seek marriage counselling from a thrice divorced therapist, neither would I hire a 300 pound dietician in my weight management.

mukina2:

boyalinco been good . .

even if she plays for man united .
no woman must submit 100% to any man

Eurphoria:

so says muki

Lets imagine u are on the board of directors of your company and a decision is to be taken on an issue, u make your case and vote accordingly but in instances the Chairman has the priviledge of casting a tie breaking vote. Would you because of that say you would resign from the board.

frankiriri:

@TOH & Seun
Lets imagine u are on the board of directors of your company and a decision is to be taken on an issue, u make your case and vote accordingly but in instances the Chairman has the priviledge of casting a tie breaking vote. Would you because of that say you would resign from the board.

frankiriri:

@michellin
I didn't say I am wiser. If she offers superior reasoning we adopt her opinion. Using the analogy of the business situation, the fact that you offer superior reasoning may make your decision to be adopted by the board. At that point it is no longer your decision but that of the whole board and even other directors that were not in support would have to go with it.

frankiriri:

Besides I also beleive that the real choice a woman makes is in the man she chooses to submit to. If she chooses to ignore domineering traits and then thinks that they can have 2 captains in the ship then she is in for trouble. My people say pikin wey say im mama no go sleep no dey sleep

frankiriri:

For all the men in the house that are looking for wives that wont submit I pray you get your wish. Shikena

frankiriri:

And to all the ladies that don't believe in it I pray God removes people like you from the path of those of us that need submisive wives

frankiriri:

For all the men in the house that are looking for wives that wont submit I pray you get your wish. Shikena
And to all the ladies that don't believe in it I pray God removes people like you from the path of those of us that need submisive wives

babyosisi:

And may all the women with testosterone levels equal to that of men be content with being the"strong independent women" and save some families undue stress and not contribute to the already high divorce rate.

ThiefOfHearts:

because there's never a "should husband sumbmit" thread

do men not also "submit" themselves to bosses, laws, govt officials, websites blah blah?

Honey_pot:

. I believe that submission generates submission, it is a two way thing.

babyosisi:

Amen

ThiefOfHearts:

In case you didnt know, the women that are screaming are those screaming against men that DONT believe it's a two way thing but a thing that should only be done by women

Is that really hard to comprehend? Seriously?