sexkillz: You should trust your partner, not your best friend. . . No matter what a best friend does or says to your partner, if he or she is not swayed, nothing happens. The fault always comes from the partner. The final choice rests on them.

So, do you trust your partner? If no, why on earth are you still with someone you cannot bring yourself to trust? Don't you think something is wrong with you, if you fall in this category?

mikelreal: okay.
Number 1. I dont ve a gf so 90% of what you just typed ~~~~~.

2. with all due respect(mod) your comments re kinda rude,dont u think so?

3. we re all entitled to our own opinion, so if someone doesnt agree with urz, its normal,no offence.
and finally I ve read countless times where couples (both married,and normal bf/gf) because of this issue do some terrible sh!t so? #justmyopinion.

k2039:
I just thought about emotional vulnerability, the woman could be susceptible and a lot could happen. My point I would rather not risk it.

I remembered a story I read on NL about a woman who lowered her defenses while her husband was away thinking she will never fall, she did have extra marital se.x once and she did confess to her husband when he returned. I thought about that case and I do think the woman did love his man she was just vulnerable when the stuff happened.

My whole point, as much as trust does exist, one shouldn't play risk. Of course I will trust my partner ahead of my friend.

sexkillz: 1. If you don't have a girlfriend, why are you advising on what you know nada about?

2. No I don't think so. If you interpret my comment as rude, its your own pill to swallow any how you deem fit.

3. If we are all entitled to our opinions and you don't like your opinions countered and decimated, why did you try to pick holes in the opinions of another in the first place?

And finally, I can only defend the actions of a legally married individual. BF/GF arguments hold no water in actuality. We only make excuses and get away with it.

mikelreal: okay.
Number 1. I dont ve a gf so 90% of what you just typed ~~~~~.

2. with all due respect(mod) your comments re kinda rude,dont u think so?

3. we re all entitled to our own opinion, so if someone doesnt agree with urz, its normal,no offence.
and finally I ve read countless times where couples (both married,and normal bf/gf) because of this issue do some terrible sh!t so? #justmyopinion.

Ms_Steph: azzin tot am d only who notice how rude he is.

Idowuogbo:
Rude!

What did I say?

Ms_Steph: azzin tot am d only who notice how rude he is.

Seriously?

sexkillz: What did I say?

sexkillz: You people are too emotional.

sexkillz: Seriously?

Ms_Steph: I don't blame u shall its seun dat is made u have dat mind to talk anyhow

Ms_Steph: I don't blame u shall its seun dat is made u have dat mind to talk anyhow

I don't blame you too for not having a mind of your own. . . Everything will be ok.

sexkillz: If you trust someone, where is the risk?

k2039:
For me, no one gets 100% of my trust, humans are susceptible to errors.

k2039:
For me, no one gets 100% of my trust, humans are susceptible to errors.

sexkillz: You people are too emotional.

Oahray: difference between humans and robots

sexkillz: Its sad.

Oahray: Who liked this post? Ogugua?

It fit be you. See as you wan use ogugua cover up.

sexkillz: No one trusts you 100% as well. Good for you. But then, some of us do trust, and have people who trust us with their lives. . . If that isn't 100%, I don't know what else is.

That's just me.

k2039:
I do understand your point, if we start this debate we will just toss to and fro without reaching a conclusion. Putting your complete trust on human is setting yourself up for failure from the start, there should be provision for errors (though some errors are disastrous and not forgivable) so that when this errors do happen one won't be completely hurt in the end.

Even in marriages, 100% peak if achievable will be towards the couples old age, then the trust would have been earned after series of life experience.

You don't have to necessarily agree with me, but the best you can do is trust yourself because you are responsible for yourself alone. Everyone has both potential to behave like a swine or saint within himself; though which one is actualized depends on decisions not necessarily conditions and people change with time. A saint today could be a slut tomorrow and that is not in your jurisdiction to determine for that person.

Every relationship should be built on trust, but complete trust is simply setting one for failure because humans will always remain humans.

Now Killz will quote me. I'm out of here.

Mynd_44:
I walk with a cool and trustworthy circle of friends who can die for someone else. Plus why be with a girl I can't trust? It is silly and a waste of time

Ferdinandu: you didn't even say Friend but circle of Friends,you think you trusted all of them.That is the mistake with some people,they think everybody around them are friends until some people bring out their true character.It may be alright to have a friend like that you can vouch for but [b]Circle of friends?[/b]you are deceiving yourself.