he doesnt call,he doesnt sms when ever he eventually does he keeps saying/telling me how much he wants me,
am scared because he's never there he's either busy or travelled.
does he really love me.

well if i must really say thats a whole not of question.where do i start frm.
Frm my own perspective a guy who claims to love u must alwasy be eager to shower u with affetions,love,care,to mention but a few.

a guy thats dosent call u regurlarly might not be a tru test of love,their might be so many reaosns for that.he cld be busy with work u know

but i think u shld really cool down take ya time n study him and know the kind of person he is probably things might work if u open ya self to tellin him what u like n what u dont like
well dat could be a very good start,but this is a piece of advice,in every relationship their must an element of patience and perservance for it to work,so u have to be patient n take it slowly

cos they say "slow n steady wins the race"

first of all there is nothing like love so dont expect a sign

well nddy u must be mistaken
if i must say u dont have to say such cos it does exist

myabe u have not experience any


i think i really does

all the same everyone has his or her way of seein things

Don't worry yourself the guy in question might have his reasons beyond being busy but be careful in your approach and exercise diplomacy.

The guy should do more if he really loves you but don't judge him for now.

Tell him how you feel and you listen to him the way he answered.

I will Pm you.

Well it is kinda hard to say from him not just having time, he might genuinely not have time or he might just be gaming, but whatever you do you'll have to do it with caution. Let's see what other's think

He doesn't love you.

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nddy:

first of all there is nothing like love so don't expect a sign

I was just going to say the same thing.Love doesnt exist,no signs,just ride on with your life and ignore the guy.If he calls u fine and if he doesnt then tell him to go. Dont waste your time thinking about love

Welcome to Nairaland.

Well, I don't think he loves you that much. Love and want is a different feeling. You might want somebody because of his/her looks but deeply you don't lovehim/her. Want is lust on its own.

am falling out of love

You r still with him?? Since august?? Hunnie, that is not good for your health. You need to let the arsehole GO. He doesn't love you.

l have,l realise it all that l should not stake my happiness for anyreason.
thankx baby for ur words

u cant really tell cuz people av diff ways of showing their love
he seems a bit ...........u knw wht i mean

a bit......................... sorry l dont know what that means

it's hard to tell
he only says he wants u
not that he loves u.

be careful girl.

l sure will

what is love to you? you have to know to tell. love is what is left when being in love has burnt away. no one can really tell you who to love and whom not to. it all lie inside of you. find it out, but personally i know he does love you.

You're the only one who can truelly answer that question. Search deep within ur heart, you'll find the answer.
All the best!

pearldrops:

a bit......................... sorry l don't know what that means

i meant he's a bit dere n dere, a bit

beautiple:

It's hard to tell these days whether a guy really loves you.
Guys sure have a weird way of showing their love.
I'm begining to disbelieve that true love truly does exist.
Anyway, girl, I'm sorry I can't be of any help here, but if he starts making you miserable, o'l girl, take a hike and look for the love somewhere else. Better still, don't look for it, it will find you.

dats soooo true.i doubt if ders true love.guys are like d most dangerous thng ever(oops!).

There do exist signs of true love, but i think these signs are only being shown by you. therefore i am simply telling you to let the ass hole go and find himself another eating spot.

love to me died a long long time ago,what l see now inside of me is a true picture of my self,the person that l am and not the person that am not,becos for once if am ever inlove l love crazily and fear no mountain no matter how high.

yes he does luv u. he prob jus busy. but idun fink there's a chance of a real relationship. but u need to work on it.Bleep

do u love?

do u love?

@uCHE: WHY ARE UCHE'S SOOOOOOOO DAMN ANNOYING? DO U KNOW?

well i thick he dose luv u just bear with him its just 4 a while

well i thick he dose luv u just bear with him its just 4 a while

@pearldrops

He could really love you you know.
Or he could just be wondering {as i am} ,,,,,,,,,,
i thot you were lesbo or are you bi

this is my philosophy in love

it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all

just see his ways,the ways he gonna act to you

than u will really know that he loves you,

but when he start to act funny just know that,that l.o.v.e aint there again