I av been trying to make him change bt to no avail,no job,all he does is to sit at home saying dat they wil call him for a job

you cannot tell someone,it has to come from the mind.so learn hom to tolorate your spouse.tell God your problem.what ever advice you need. back it up with the bible and not man

Ur boo get strng heart,just relax stay wit am.maga go soon pay

U gud gal uaself

fu(k her friend

my girl left me bcs i dnot get a job after 4years of NYSC...within those 4yrs, i did my ICAN by the grace of God,and after that i go a job in shell...Please be wise and tell God in prayer...am 28yrs dol

to only way to quit the relationship is to QUIT.

queenlatifa: I av been trying to make him change bt to no avail,no job,all he does is to sit at home saying dat they wil call him for a job

you said you tried to make him change. change what exactly?

question is he educated? does he have work skills? in reality how employable is he?

queenlatifa: I av been trying to make him change bt to no avail,no job,all he does is to sit at home saying dat they wil call him for a job

Just say you want to quit cos he has no job or money as at yet.

I really don't understand why ladies cant just try n wait.. ..

God help all of una

chiboy_man: my girl left me bcs i dnot get a job after 4years of NYSC...within those 4yrs, i did my ICAN by the grace of God,and after that i go a job in shell...Please be wise and tell God in prayer...am 28yrs dol

sharaaaaaaaaaaap dia...with this ur yeye English, how shell wan take carry you?

@OP.is your love for your boyfriend predicated on having a job? Do you knw hoe many men date and marry women without jobs? abeegi, go sidon

Specialist900: to only way to quit the relationship is to QUIT.

The thing just tire me ohhh, i don't know since when QUITING begin get how and means to quit....


@op... If u don't know how to quit, lemme just say this STOP .

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simples.

Spell I. Q.U.I.T that's all

There goes love down the drain !! nobody loves a broke ass !!!!Another one bites the dust !!! So your love is conditional abi cos i can't see you mention anything about his attitude o, its just he can't get work !!! come to think of it; is work that easy to get in Nigeria now? Do you know how many people are sitting at home now? So because he never carry cement for your front he isn't doing anything abi? Definitely he would apply and wait for companies to call him abi na him go call the companies to employ him? Women shaaaaa and "Olorunsogo" attitude !!! Nevertheless sha there is nothing like "Quitting in the real sense of it", QUIT is QUIT !!!just tell him without mincing words and pray his butts don't later land a job in Chevron.

Oohrhii:

Just say you want to quit cos he has no job or money as at yet.

I really don't understand why ladies cant just try n wait.. ..

God help all of una

Did you miss the part where she said all he does is to sit at home? If he does not go out to get something, he should be left

Just tell her. 'Go to hell, I'm done with you'.

I wish u could see beyond the present.

Oh girl RUN. During courtship a man sits at home waiting for Job to call.....

U can never change him that is not possible u can only advice him...

Go out there u will see who u deserve... Haba I can't imagine a lazy huzler like that...

Lmao,guys wen i met him he lied dat he had nd in accounting,so recently i got an oportunity for him in a firm(throug my uncle)he turnd my offer down,so dat was wen he he den told me dat he has been usin a fake result.peps bliv me it was hurting.so wat do u think?

25omega: you said you tried to make him change. change what exactly?

question is he educated? does he have work skills? in reality how employable is he?

to make him reailase d fact dat hes not geting any yound,aba a guy of 30yr of age dat doesn't av a result or an handwork not to talk of job afta all i met wen he had nothin hopin dat things will change

Hmm please let me know how this ends. Thanks in advance.

Some women don turn god wey be say na dem dey see person future. Do you think he is happy with his present predicament? He is not I can bet my today's dinner on that.

Try and be patient cos nobody knows tomorrow. You might decide to leave him today and the Job will work out the next day. Encourage him, pray for him and advice him to throw more sticks in the fire. This is just a passing wilderness for him and all he requires is your support except maybe you don't love him or never did.

māy bę ţђę ŗęāşoŋ ђę ђāşŋ'ţ goţ ā job įş yoų įŋ ђįş life. plęāşę lęāvę ђįm āŋd wāţçђ wђāţ ђāppęŋş ŋęҳţ .

dįşçlāįmęŗ: į ām ŋoţ şāyįŋg yoų āŗę dįşţųŗbįŋg his progress but you will make him wake up

There're many unanswered questions. What type of work is he looking for? What is his level of education? How long has he been looking for work? Is he looking for jobs he can do in the meantime before he gets his foot in his field or is he unwilling to do anything else?

Yield: There're many unanswered questions. What type of work is he looking for? What is his level of education? How long has he been looking for work? Is he looking for jobs he can do in the meantime before he gets his foot in his field or is he unwilling to do anything else?

he doesnt even av a certificate not to talk of an hand work,ok he saw a factory job last yr he left within two months do u no d excuise he gave, he said d work is too tedious.so he sat at home waitin for dem to call him.

[bros no b fight o

queenlatifa: he doesnt even av a certificate not to talk of an hand work,ok he saw a factory job last yr he left within two months do u no d excuise he gave, he said d work is too tedious.so he sat at home waitin for dem to call him.

From all your posts it's obvious you know the right thing to do. Tell him you're moving on if he ain't gonna sit up, nothing is too small while waiting for the 'mega' job.
btw how does he expect to get a job without having a degree or skill?

Wasted ma time readinq this...
Em out of here!

ur mistake was trying to change him , better run . Or give him an ultimatum to change or else he loses you