mz kanye: Y will I say evrytin wen I no be mumu..d tin is I tell him tinz dat is imp en he shld know, I can't even stoop so low to telling him bou mi girl fwends talk..he shld understnad dere r limits to wot he shld even know bou mi talk with mi siblings!!

I may not have any experience when it comes to relationships,I've learnt from others.

First,every relationship must be based on sincerity of the heart and commited dedication to make the relationship stand strong. both partners must adhere not only the the calling of their union but also to faithfulness of their heart.
All these in place.every couple must know each other beyond their bedroom romance.they have to form a bond that only those have such can see it.
Bond in what way?every partners must live to feel the feelings of their spouse,they must have the urge to share in the burdens of their lovers.

Only the principle of trust can allow this bond.the possibilty of doubt is far removed.

To being open.No relationship can be sustained without the above concepts.If all these is in place.There should be no iota of fear in either partners to sharing whatever they face,or making their lovers their solid refuge on any given issue.
Even in cases where one partner cannot comprehend the situation or withdraws from you cause they can't cope with the matter at hand.it would be on record that at that particular moment you didn't make it a secret.

A free-mind is best for a relationship to last long.The day you put your heart at it to get serious with your boyfriend/girlfriend.just know that you are now co-pilots of everything that rocks either of your worlds.there would be semsitive cases,that your partner doesn't necessarily have to know.well u may keep them personal,but if it comes to light,and you've had an open policy in the past,he or she will forgive you.if they don't find out.after a while,if you found solution.you may hint them about it.

Hope this helps.
Cheers!

kokoye: Well, I have realised it is best to have a 'no secret' policy.

My better half doesnt take it lightly with me when she finds out something happened that she didnt know about....not because of what I did but because I didnt tell her about it.

But because of feminine emotions, at times I'll do something first and THEN tell her. Of course I must have thought it over that it's in the family's best interest before doing such. She'll still get pissed but she'll calm down.

A major advantage of this it that it keeps you in check - you dont want to do something that wont want her to know whenever.