You're certainly correct, speaking from experience I have a girlfriend like that 98% of her friends are man, and these makes me sick but she won't admit having anyhting with them and most time when I notice a frequent mention of any particular one am alway jealous and thinking that she has fling with them. I really thing when a lady has a serious relationship she should limit her cliques of male friends if not completely stop their closeness.
thanks nice topic

yinkaoke:

You're certainly correct, speaking from experience I have a girlfriend like that 98% of her friends are man, and these makes me sick but she won't admit having anyhting with them and most time when I notice a frequent mention of any particular one am alway jealous and thinking that she has fling with them. I really thing when a lady has a serious relationship she should limit her cliques of male friends if not completely stop their closeness.
thanks nice topic

COOL

I have got to vent about this, because I have actual proof that I am right. Ever since I started dating, I've had to deal with the drama of all my girlfriends having guy friends. Then I met my ex Dammy, Dammy was hands down the smartest woman I have EVER met. When her and I started dating, she was amazing, the first thing she did was get rid of all her guy friends. When I asked why, since this was the first girl I had ever dated who actually had done this, she responded with "Guys arent friends with girls for anything other then in the hopes that they'll either get sex out of it or eventually possibly date you". Now that is a WOMAN confirming that its true, so having said that, how the hell can any girl get mad at there boyfriends for not being cool with her having guy friends? Hell even I've had friends who were girls that I messed around with while they've had boyfriends lol guys and girls as "just friends" = very rare!! What's your view?

sorry to say this but thats a silly statement

some of my very best friends are guys, i am even a Godmother to a friends son

i grew up in a male dominated household so I've always had guys in my life in a platonic way, and all we do is hang out and talk, . .  if there is anyone using anyone, l'd say my guy friends use me. . .  I always end up cooking and shopping for them and giving relationship advice. . .

I personally prefer guys as friends becos i get to hang out in pubs nd beer parlours, go for wild nights out and watch adrenaline fuelled and horror movies. . . I dont know many girls who have the same tastes as I do. I can talk about anything with  my guy friends and they in return appreciate female perspective on many issues.

The guys ur girl had has friends are probably dogs, no matter what women say (I'm guilty as well) some guys do have brains and they are good friends to have

i dey tire for all these pointless arguments

beyond our gender are we not all HUMAN beings with different personalities

i have male friends who are married, single and in committed relationships

why? because we have so many things in common that its inevitable that we are friends

but i'm not juvenile and i RESPECT their relationships and personally i dont discuss their relationships cos its not my business.

and i expect my hubby to understand that these are my friends SIMPLE

@ Salsera,

Long time oh. Why are you getting angry?

@pataki

Bros na NL o!

all these posters that type just to occupy space and make no sense

How have u been?

I am very well here oh. In fact I cannot help but wonder the kind of posters we have these days.

Busy typing my fingers out everyday on the computer.

How are you doing too? When are you planning to visit us on the other side again?

All is well sha.

Feesha:

@stillwater
You sound like someone i will like to be my "friend". You are intelligent with a good sense of humour.

You did not put your email address in your profile. And whats with the picture of the singer you used as your picture? Is he your idol or one of your friends?

Send to me @ bolukom@yahoo.co.uk. Stop venting spleen on the unrepentant men. They are all the same.

mmmhhhh

Feesha:

Is he your idol or one of your friends?

hahaahahahhahahaahaha rotflmao

Why are you laughing?

lol
i totally disagree with you fine there is a thin line between friendship and other things however when this has been clearly defined
and mapped out there is no reason why you could not be friends with members of the opposite sex and very good friends at that.
However u must never cross the line between friendship and relationship or sex because once you do you neva knw what lies on the other side
most times the outcome is neva gud

what are friends for if you can't help them in "wet" and "[color=#990000][/color]hard" times