It just puzzles me to find out that people in so called serious relationships would always cheat if the opportunity to do so comes knocking. To some people, we are humans made of flesh so we are unable to resist the temptation of defiling our bed even if it's just for the shortest of minutes. I was arguing with some of my friends who said there was no way I cud ever be faithful to my galfriend forever, how true is that? I maintained that I'd always love and never cheat on my woman but they said it was impossible that my "fidel" feelings will vanish soonest. The truth is that it is truly very very hard to be faithful, but I still feel it is not impossible. Tell us about your experience here. Time for some confessions!

I don't know why it happens, even when a guy is dating the girl of his dreams he'll probably still cheat.

you know with this thread you are basically telling on you self. so you have cheated

Not me . . am no cheater!

same here.a bliva of one male,one female

Me am a saint. beliv it or not

Confess to what?

You cheat whe you feel like cheating.

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u dont call it cheating, we only call it that when caught in the act .
We call it simple comparism . VARIETY is the spice of life. u cant continue to live on one kind of food alone,u'll die or become malnourished, something else should be sampled or tried .

cheat ke, God forbid bad thing.

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u don't call it cheating, we only call it that when caught in the act .
We call it simple comparism . VARIETY is the spice of life. u can't continue to live on one kind of food alone,u'll die or become malnourished, something else should be sampled or tried .

Would it be ok for your wife to sample as well?

good question!

Erm. . . . . .not eveybody cheat in a relationship.

the reason why people cheat is that their partner gives them problem

[color=#990000][/color abeg dis na danger zone.how man go fit waka well if him no pass hot areas,even him food no go dey done.theissue at hand is known to be prevalent in our society.As for me,i no fit cheat on my guy,cos he get wetin i dey find outside,and beside since i wouldnt like him to sample other girls,why try it.

oreofemi:

the reason why people cheat is that their partner gives them problem

very wrong!!!

oreofemi:

the reason why people cheat is that their partner gives them problem

Very Very Very Very wrong.!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Child listen,Some do it because its their second nature.Some just for adventure.Some peer pressure,while some have a mindset that the girls abound and they should have some more.
It doesnt matter if the culprit is in a good relationship or not.Though there is a tendency for the person in a bad relationship to cheat.But its not a general rule.

dunno about u but I have neva cheated in ma life,

Do not generalise.
Not everyone cheats.

i even wonder why men cheat more than women

People cheat when they are not able to communicate their needs to their partners. In fact cheating is a very immature act. No adult should even indulge in such a degrading act.

Poster, you think it's impossible to cheat, right? Have you ever dated a girl ?

Why shouldn't we cheat especially when we're not married? Na una know o

radiant,

how many dudes do u have as a boy friend?

The mental cheating is the most entertaining form of cheating.  No vanquished, no victors.

No gossiping, no heartbreaks.

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speak for yaself

Airforce1:

radiant,

how many dudes do u have as a boy friend?

Is that the topic? Go smoke the right shyt dude.

i dont smoke.

u said cheating is right. so i uhm thought u musta've been one of those gurls out there.

Which girls?

There are so many "theres" and girls. So which "there" and which girls?

My own take on this is between happiness and contentment. It might sound strange but I believe you have to be happy and content with who you are with before you're less likely to cheat.

Now what do I mean by this? The funny thing is I was thinking to myself on my way to work this morning.

If I am happy with someone, that means she satisfies me for now but long term is definitely a no no. When what I am really looking for turns up I will leave that person. I might cheat by trying to check out if this amazing person actually is what I am looking for. In other words, someone comes along who I get on so well with and I'm thinking what are the odds. I have met someone like that and no I wasn't unfaithful. I now believe the "one thing led to another" phrase, but you can still stop it. This wasn't about sex but not often you meet a spend hours talking like you've known that person for years plus they are attracted to you and likewise.

If I am content being with someone, this means long term she is the ideal person to look to the future with but there are no fireworks. Everything else is fine and you get on well with them but there is no passion. (Mind you it's not all about passion). In this case you don't want anyone else to have a family with but you actively seek out someone who will add some fun into your life.

My take on this is that you should be with someone who you're make you happy and you're content being with them, that way you'll be like I have everything i want.

But you can be faithful if you want. It's a mindset even if you're happy in your relationship,