Hello People.

As seen from the topic, yes, my husband of 1 year still uses his ex-girlfriend's name as his password. I saw this from a list of other passwords. Now, how do I bring this up without making it an issue or blowing it out of proportion? Because the way I see it, him using the password frequently could mean that she is on his mind when he types it out?

So chip in people.

wildeberry: Hello People.

As seen from the topic, yes, my husband of 1 year still uses his ex-girlfriend's name as his password. I saw this from a list of other passwords. Now, how do I bring this up without making it an issue or blowing it out of proportion? Because the way I see it, him using the password frequently could mean that she is on his mind when he types it out?

So chip in people.

You can use anything/name as password. I currently use myinlawisawitch as my password.

True, but if you found out that your spouse was using an ex's name as their password, how would you take it?

wonlasewonimi:

You can use anything/name as password. I currently use myinlawisawitch as my password.

#Evils

It. Depends on how close and free you and your hubby are,you can talk to him about it if you are not comfortable with the password but no matter what you do,don't fight him,just be calm.

wonlasewonimi:

You can use anything/name as password. I currently use myinlawisawitch as my password.

Rotflmao
Wickedness

sexytabhi: It. Depends on how close and free you and your hubby are,you can talk to him about it if you are not comfortable with the password but no matter what you do,don't fight him,just be calm.

we are close, and i also happen to know that he liked that ex for a long time.. so how do i bring it up as he might make it an issue

Try hacking in wit dat password
And watch him change it fast
No need to talk plenty

oxygen47: Try hacking in wit dat password
And watch him change it fast
No need to talk plenty

I agree with you. Try and enter the password in his presence, once he figures you already know his password he will definately change it. Men and secrecy sha, must he use a password?

He uses the name as password for many internet accounts. Not just 1.

wildeberry:

we are close, and i also happen to know that he liked that ex for a long time.. so how do i bring it up as he might make it an issue

Are u scared of him?

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wildeberry: He uses the name as password for many internet accounts. Not just 1.

hack them all

wildeberry:

we are close, and i also happen to know that he liked that ex for a long time.. so how do i bring it up as he might make it an issue

I think that is better,pick his phone and enter the password in his presence,he will either ask you how you knew or change it immediately. Which ever way be ready for query,moreover you ought to have done enough for him to get over his ex #angryface...

Just sit down and talk to him bout it don't shout..

Maybe he forgot to change it..

@ Dyt, no i am not scared of him. i just would not want it to be blown out of proportion.

@ Enegod, i probably would hack them in his presence because he knows i have seen the password list where her name is popular.

@ Sexytabhi, i will do that. Some people leave past memories to linger in their present for reasons i can't understand.

@ nadia _SA, i want to talk to him about it.. But how do I even bring that topic up in a discussion?

Its a very simple matter
Tell it to him
which kind thing b dat one
Am married too and on all grounds I know d things I can take and not

Trouble sit down, yanga go wake am. Wetin she dey fInd Palava, she dey find. Wetin she go get Palava, she go get.



Why are feeling so insecure about he's password U've been stalking him, right

Ok, I feel ur pains. Why don't u use one of ur ex's name as password and let him know as well. If he asks u to change it then he too must be ready to change his.

But all in all...

Trouble sit down, yanga go wake am. Wetin she dey fInd Palava, she dey find. Wetin she go get Palava, she go get.

Dyt: Its a very simple matter
Tell it to him
which kind thing b dat one
Am married too and on all grounds I know d things I can take and not

Madam, mrs married woman. If her husband pursue her for house, shey, make she come become second wife for ur husband house

@ jhydebaba, i have not been stalking him.. if you scroll up, you would see that i said he saw me see the list of passwords, I didn't go searching.

jhydebaba: Madam, mrs married woman. If her husband pursue her for house, shey, make she come become second wife for ur husband house

And how does dis ur post mk sense

Seriously wot's d big deal? Juz talk 2 him abt hw u feel. Mayb it doesn't mean anythin and hez used to d name as his password. He mite not even know it bothers u

It does not bother me like the world is ending. I just have the rational thought that he maybe still thinks about her. I will let him know

wildeberry: Hello People.

As seen from the topic, yes, my husband of 1 year still uses his ex-girlfriend's name as his password. I saw this from a list of other passwords. Now, how do I bring this up without making it an issue or blowing it out of proportion? Because the way I see it, him using the password frequently could mean that she is on his mind when he types it out?

So chip in people.

it is either he is still thinking about her or does not want to go through the hassle of changing passwords for all the accounts that her name is his password for. under what circumstances did he break up with this girl? is he a very busy man such that he might not have time to spend on changing passwords? was this his password before you got married or is it a new one?i don't think its appropriate for him to have her name as his password in any case but it might not be something to worry about depending on how you answer those questions.

Why do people use their SO as passwords anyway?

Tell him to change it to my name

When I saw this, I smiled because am guilty as well
Of truth, i used it for all my online stuff not because i am still into her but i just dont see anything odd about it. So op, talk to ur hubby about how you feel because he might not know you r hurt by it.

@op, Whatever you do, do not hack into his account like some persons suggested here. That would be an invasion on his privacy and trust me, whether or not he changes the password, you are not going to like his reaction thereafter. As a wife, you need to dialogue with your husband and tell him that you are not comfortable with the password and try to find out the rationale for using the password. It's okay to feel apprehensive when our partner does something that makes us feel he still thinks about the ex. First things first, you need to talk to him about it before resorting to any other alternatives. Perhaps the name could also be the name of his relative, sister or mum.

djeezy: @op, Whatever you do, do not hack into his account like some persons suggested here. That would be an invasion on his privacy and trust me, whether or not he changes the password, you are not going to like his reaction thereafter. As a wife, you need to dialogue with your husband and tell him that you are not comfortable with the password and try to find out the rationale for using the password. It's okay to feel apprehensive when our partner does something that makes us feel he still thinks about the ex. First things first, you need to talk to him about it before resorting to any other alternatives. Perhaps the name could also be the name of his relative, sister or mum.

Im sure as a wife she would know this

SniperInADiaper:

Im sure as a wife she would know this

You're right, but there are some names peculiar to only a set of people. It could be a middle name or a name not frequently mentioned. Savvy?

M sure he opened dat acct while he was stil wif hez Ex,itz nt a big deal 2 me,letting im knw might make im angry..

AncientJerk:

it is either he is still thinking about her o[b]r does not want to go through the hassle of changing passwords for all the accounts that her name is his password for. [/b]under what circumstances did he break up with this girl? [b]is he a very busy man such that he might not have time to spend on changing passwords? was this his password before you got married or is it a new one?[/b]i don't think its appropriate for him to have her name as his password in any case but it might not be something to worry about depending on how you answer those questions.

My thoughts exactly!

But i will calmly ask him to change it. No time to waste. Just make sure he changes it to something he can remember so that it won't be your fault if he forgets.

For me, I have been using the same password since I got a phone and my first email address. Its the same password for everything. Asking me to change it is going to be tough. Infact there is no member of my family who doesn't know my password. Even my friends

poshdiva:

My thoughts exactly!

But i will calmly ask him to change it. No time to waste. Just make sure he changes it to something he can remember so that it won't be your fault if he forgets.

For me, I have been using the same password since I got a phone and my first email address. Its the same password for everything. Asking me to change it is going to be tough. Infact there is no member of my family who doesn't know my password. Even my friends

hmmm ,then let me b ur friend!