I read of a lady that poured her lover hot oil, after four years of courtship and i felt her pains and decided to share my story.
We met during our service year, we were so much into each other and we have never for one day thought of separation. Three years later he travelled to south africa for greener pastures and all my friends told me to forget him and carry on with my life but i won't listen i kept praying for him to succeed and made sure we talk on phone everyday all tru his stay so that there was NƠ̴̴͡ bridge in communication. He came back after 3yrs and we did our engagement and i was very happy. Immediately after the function he left again promising to come for the wedding so i can join him, but he started complaining of things being hard and tough and we all encouraged him to come home and do other things. He came this year and we we were believing God for a miracle, he called me in june i went to him he was very bitter he doesn't want to lose me, we made love and two days later he jilted me for NƠ̴̴͡ reason. He stopped picking my calls and right now learnt he has travelled to another country. I won't have poured him oil but i don't know what will happen to me because am still in pains. I can't even face my parents for the shame after 8yrs of courtship.

just take tins easy ok............. God will see you through!!!!!!!!! men are just unpredictable

OMG!8 fucking yearsSome guys r heartless...Dust urself up my dear,its nt d end of ur life...God ll gv u a beta man...HOLD ON!!!

OMG!8 yearsSome guys r heartless...Dust urself up my dear,its nt d end of ur life...God ll gv u a beta man...HOLD ON!!!

op, move on!!

190-the-clown:




rotfl @ the topic and OP

Why are you kicking someone who is already down? What is wrong with you?

Take it easy and move on,8 years!!nawa o,if u see dat guy again,don't hestitate 2 pour hot oil on im...he deserves it

Oh that's just sad . You'll just have to move on dear, terrible things happen in the world. It'll be difficult, but God helps (hope you're a christian) and he'll find ypu someone deserving of you .
What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger dear. You'll get past this and someday help others who end up here get through it too *hugs*

8 years fa. So he called you and told you to come so that he'd bang you for the last time. Some people are demons oh. .and the few good guys are turning gays. I pity for single ladies.

Iaz93: 8 years fa. So he called you and told you to come so that he'd bang you for the last time. Some people are demons oh. .and the few good guys are turning gays. I pity for single ladies.

huh?lemme guess,u are gay ryt?no offence

D guy is broke, Daz all. He loves u but I think he just want some space to organise himself.

follow am go that country him run to. na by fire by force ooh... men are scarce this days... y him go chop your kpomo for 8 yrs just like that? follow am oooh

shannexon: OMG!8 fucking yearsSome guys r heartless...Dust urself up my dear,its nt d end of ur life...God ll gv u a beta man...HOLD ON!!!

The guy is not heartless, just that the girl won't leave him alone. How can you date someone for 8 yrs when suitors come every minute. Trust me, she is the kind of girl that has been embarassing her suitors owing to the fact that she has a promising guy. I advise girls never to date any guy more than 2 yrs including my gf, no matter how promising the guy is. A guy must have known everything about you after 2yrs of courtship. If he is interested in you, he will come for marriage.

Michelle55: just take tins easy ok............. God will see you through!!!!!!!!! men are just unpredictable

women are just as unpredictable, infact any human being still breathing is unpredictable, its only a dead person that you can keep in a place and its sure to stay, even that is hard these days going by the stories we hear

Now I hate stories like this..it is only God that is all-forgiven,I am not God,you break my head I break your head it has to be an eye for an eye,everyone should rather go blind

Touchy story, i do feel ur pains hun buh i hv gat gud news 4 u,u hv made d mistakes,tnk God life doesnt cum with instructions or manuals buh all u gatta do is to pick up ur pieces gallantly n make a stance,wiv ds xperience,no guy wud ride u like a horse n walk away. Xperience z d best teacher,he's indeed not ur guy,he only used u 2 catch groove,just sit bck tight n wait 4 ur real soul mate.

Zero sympathy babe, all ur fault, u shud hv had oda guys as back up while he was away, shit happens

i always advice girls, if ur lover travel out of naija, pls forget him. d stories too dey much o. @op, pele oh

Harbosede02: huh?lemme guess,u are gay ryt?no offence

***in seun's voice*** I'm as straight as a happy joystick.

190-the-clown:

8yrs
sumtin is obviously wrong wit d chic- no offence, no guy will see treasure and leave it unclaimed

Dat guy is a jerk,God wil pay him back in his own coin

snthesis: 8yrs
sumtin is obviously wrong wit d chic- no offence, no guy will see treasure and leave it unclaimed

yes bt some guys dnt like good things

The guy is not in the rt frame of mind to marry you. He is broke and unhappy he does have the rt to look after himself before he gets married. He knows you are a good woman but he is not feeling good about himself rt now so forgive him and start looking after yourself if he is the one for you he will shape up if not your own rt man will turn up. Go and be happy just keep moving on.

I'm so sorry, OP. Take heart, it is well.

Yield: I'm so sorry, OP. Take heart, it is well.

sup,
longtyme, hope uve been good

snthesis:
sup,
longtyme, hope uve been good

Hey, I'm great. And you?!!