Hi Guys,
Just curious on how long does it take for a relationship to stabilize?

I am of the opinion that the first few months are always not too deep interms of ways/what u guys disscuss, u both are still trying to impress one another.

So my qtion is, at what stage, possibly month do u open up completely to your partner n u guys stop forming(being urself)?

opinion please!

just for guys or can women speak on this subject

yeah both guyz n ladies

I have a general rule that I follow. If after 6 months i am still feeling a dude I will introduce him to my children. My soon to be husband is the only dude that has passed that test of time since my last long term relationship almost 2 years now ended.

so the answer to your question for me is 6 months. After that the true colors have come out. Now for me personally if a dude can stand my PMSing then we are all good, that only 28 days to see. LOL

those in relationship should be able to answer this questions.

tngtech:

those in relationship should be able to answer this questions.

Blad,

Could date for 3yrs and the relationship is still not stabilised. I gs it depends on your degree of patience cause sometimes stabilising a relationship could take forever.

eclairs---yeah nd while its takin 4eva to get stable,anoda dude sweeps u off ya feet nd stabilised ya within mnths.


my point is,if i dnt see us gettin smwhere within 3mnths(tho its unlikely wen its me ) i got no choice dan to look 4 a way to find my way

It depends on the individual. There's no standard time.

depends on the individual

Different folks, different strokes.

Some take 6 months

Some takes 1 years

Some takes 3 years

As long as for strong relationship between two people connect that is based on:

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[li]Trust[/li]
[li]Spirituality[/li]
[li]4 Characters[/li]
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[li]Humility[/li]
[li]Kindness[/li]
[li]Responsibility[/li]
[li]Happiness[/li]
[/list]

[li]Personal Hygiene[/li]
[li]Communication Skill[/li]
[li]Personal Habits[/li]
[li]Strong Connections[/li]
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[li]Good Chemistry and Compatibility[/li]
[li]Shared Common Interest[/li]
[li]Shared Common Life Goal[/li]
[li]Deeper Emotional[/li]
[li]Sexual Compatibility[/li] (refer the knowledge of sexuality)
[li]Agreed Financial Obligations/Compromise Equally[/li]
[/list]
[/list]

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it depends on one's level of patience, tolerance and maturity.