every guy likes to date a 'girl' but loves to marry a 'woman'....

1 thing is certain as UNEMPLOYMENT increases,the number of marriages decline. Some1 has not fed himself which other mouth will he feed?
Somtimes the bloated ego of some men wont allow them settle with a ready made lady cos of inferiority complex.

Kirinwa: As a caring nairalander,my advice to our single sisters is treat any man who approaches you nicely and respectfully.
Guys can you imagine approaching a lady to say hi and she's looking at you like you're ALIEN!Jeez.Some of them are architects of their own misfortune.I have discovered most times ladies hang out with playboys and sacrifice the future for a few meatpies or fried chicken while ignoring more serious guys who they consider boring without even giving them a chance.

U av said it all. One more point, while u treat a man nicely, close your legs tightly. At that desparate age, u become very vulnerable cos dat place will need servicing and u will b tempted to sleep around.

All you all, go to church and seek God for help, today is Sunday, then continue this thread after church, Don't forget to continue the church after church

eekin4a decent lady max. 26yrs, for a very serious rshp dat can lead to marriage, should be a graduate (working or not) and enterprising. Send me a mail ngdude86@gmail.co m

uj_sizzle: It's not the lack of men that's the issue i think, it's the lack of 'marriageable' men.


Men are scarce, boys are plentiful

Who also wants to marry a gal that has been ffukkedd by all!

With the experience i have had so far mingling with Nigerian girls,i think it's suicidal for a guy to even think of marrying a Nigerian girl without having acquired as much wealth as can meet her excessive demands.So for me it's a capital NO to marriage until i have built atleast a duplex in bananna iceland,bought like 4 or 5 fleet of cars and saved enough money in my bank account.Let's not decieve ourselves,most Nigerian girls can only respect and submit to you in marriage when you are wealthy,unless you are lucky to marry from the microscopic good ones.

NL member:

I'd rather not get married to be honest. I don't see the need.
I would however get into a contract with a partner to have kids. And that's only because of my parents.

men don deal with this one weh weh. them don turn am to femanist.

This is a serios issue to be honest.

I'm surrounded by so many of them & I really feel for them.

Its scriptural though

yeah its true we guys are very scares this days, guys are nt really getting the job dey require, if u are a lady or guy and u nid a pathner mail me or view my profile and go to the websiten u see for more details

joywendy: The Percentage of male to female in dis country is more.for every woman there is a man,how do u mean men are scarce Anyways sha my advice is ladies pls u ppl should not make marriage a do and die affair,its very complex,its not by force oh and who said u can't be happy without men. At the age of 35, u say u want to get married and have kids Pls be real, getting married is not a prob,but what about the kids,giving birth at that stage can be dangerous. See if the worst get to the worst u can adopt a child if marriage again isn't possible. Pls the world is already populated enuf.just be happy with urself and u will be happy. Look at the life of oprah and genny they doing well without men.searching for them its a complete waste of time and energy.be warned:don't be moved by what d society says.best regards

And these women are forever into vibrat-ors.

Yeah,that's it.

Matthew briggs:

You mean this link. https://www.nairaland.com/1265198/dwindling-pool-male-lovers-nigeria

Ladies make una no cry am here to help, i am 32yrs of age nd stil hav 9yrs to flirt but wil take 12 matured ladies as wives when dat tym comes.

toshmann: All you women looking for men STOP going to the Internet to find a husband. Everything online is fake. The girls are fake, the guys are fake, the smiles are fake. Go and look for men in the real world. Be nice. Be approachable. Some girls put their face like say na there idi Amin de shit. How can a man approach you?

Learn how to say "no" politely and with a smile. That way men won't be scared of an embarrasment if things go wrong and as such will be more likely to step up and ask.

Be neat. Some girls dirty like hell. Wear clean and decent clothes. Don't go to church to find a husband, we already know that women looking for a husband in church is a desperado pretending to be holy. Go to parties, weddings, child dedications etc. these are where you'll meet men willing to date.

Finally, if you like him, say so ASAP. Quit all this hard to get wey dem take sabi black girls. After una wonder why we like white girls more.

Control your anger. Watch your words and even the way you laugh. Try and be polished. You don't have to be miss world to attract men but you must be decent and intellectual to attract decent men

My humble advise to my Naija sisters. Free of charge.

Yours affectionately
Toshmann

don't mind this guy oh, pls go to church to look for husband. and for me I don't visit badoo or other dating sites coz there too fake with girls that are not real.

kinnad: There's dis particular gal i so much cherished. always bought her inspirational books n many tins. she continued acceptin bt anytime i askd her for a hangout she wld refuse,until a day came she told me she had a guy. when i saw d kind of tout she called her guy,i almost wept. i stopd callin her,everytn ended. Now,after 2 years,she has startd callin me,askin me why i dnt care abt her anymore. Our gals are too blind to c d real guys cuz they're 2 materialistic,n dats why som guys decieve,use and dump them

GBAM!!! Dis is their greatest undoing

I have always believed the Bible, the authentic word of God. Just read Isaiah 4:1 which was written centuries ago and see how this current trend was foretold! I will advise the spinsters to behave like Rachael who was humble, considerate and hardworking enough to be the wife of Abraham's promised child - Isaac. Likewise, those that are married should be dutiful wives and caring like Ruth, lest they are forced to exit the marriage and join the already overbloated group of un-married women. Either we like it or not, no woman is complete without a man in her life; same for men though, but generally, the pressure is on females!

Jman06: With the experience i have had so far mingling with Nigerian girls,i think it's suicidal for a guy to even think of marrying a Nigerian girl without having acquired as much wealth as can meet her excessive demands.So for me it's a capital NO to marriage until i have built atleast a duplex in bananna iceland,bought like 4 or 5 fleet of cars and saved enough money in my bank account.Let's not decieve ourselves,most Nigerian girls can only respect and submit to you in marriage when you are wealthy,unless you are lucky to marry from the microscopic good ones.

Bros ur head dey there. Women only respect husband wu ar financially endowed

Isn't dis true?

Young spinster btw 23 -27. You are free to email bussylusi2000@yahoo.com.

sexytabhi:
Stop chasing me around,you re too many and am still thinking of whom to choose..go for your akwa ibom babes,don't allow them waste..go aand help their ministry

i dey laugh no be smal

Am the last guy in my house and we are 5 in number..all ripe and employed..the issue is that the only ladies they trust are their Ex.. That actually left them when they were unemployed and marrie someone richer..now that are they comfortable, they r finding it difficult trusting and believing in women..the last that came back from abroad caught the fiancee cheating..

Good Girl: I am under the impression that Nigerian men are rejoicing over this article like they do every time the issue of single women is raised. Is there something about single women being desperate that gives you o-rgasms or am I missing something?

And it seems you`re one of the single women. btw, hw old are u? pls don`t reduce your age.

Nonso Chris: I'm afraid,this thread will make a lot of Nairaland's girls to make mistakes and wrong choices.

vry true

Jman06: With the experience i have had so far mingling with Nigerian girls,i think it's suicidal for a guy to even think of marrying a Nigerian girl without having acquired as much wealth as can meet her excessive demands.So for me it's a capital NO to marriage until i have built atleast a duplex in bananna iceland,bought like 4 or 5 fleet of cars and saved enough money in my bank account.Let's not decieve ourselves,most Nigerian girls can only respect and submit to you in marriage when you are wealthy,unless you are lucky to marry from the microscopic good ones.

when i said earlier dat i can't marry a 9ja lady,neva,its no joke.

maxwello.yg:
You kept forming when you were young and getting all the attention from bunch of guys.
Now, you are old and desperate to point of registering on all social networks just for the main aim of getting a husband!
SMH!!!
My Naija guys are not even chasing women more than they chase money!!!
Be patient with us!!!
Truth is, when you are beautiful, well behaved and financially independent. You'll get married when you want.

If you think the bolded is guarantees marriage, you're naïve.

lymelyte:
And these women are forever into vibrat-ors.

I guess a few don't do s€x. I also know that some find male lovers specifically to meet their s€xual needs.

Well, it's a long time coming. Minus children would many guys even get married? In the whole relationship thing it is women that get most of the benefits. What is really the man's place. In the past we used to have women cook and clean. But nowadays we have eateries every where. Why? Women are not cooking anymore. On sunday, women say they are tire. Let's go to KFC. Eat junk and junk and more junk. So it turns to a time where guys are jst tired. Go to palms on sunday or shoprite and see guys sitting alone taking drinks. Jst chillin. Being alone. What is really the point of pursuing a woman wen all she can do is give u sex in return for all the outings. Many women really av nothing to bring to the table. Jst spend spend spend.

Well, it's a long time coming. Minus children would many guys even get married? In the whole relationship thing it is women that get most of the benefits. What is really the man's place. In the past we used to have women cook and clean. But nowadays we have eateries every where. Why? Women are not cooking anymore. On sunday, women say they are tire. Let's go to KFC. Eat junk and junk and more junk. So it turns to a time where guys are jst tired. Go to palms on sunday or shoprite and see guys sitting alone taking drinks. Jst chillin. Being alone. What is really the point of pursuing a woman wen all she can do is give u sex in return for all the outings. Many women really av nothing to bring to the table. Jst spend spend spend. Every girls dream is to marry a guy who has a ride. Cool tho. Such guys get a lot of attention. So most women get used. Enuff said sef. Who cares if men are scarce or not. I dnt pity women that are single at 35. At one point in time there must have been one guy that rily liked her but becos he doesn't work in chevron like titi's bf she decided to ridicule him. Life is a circle.

dommfa:

I know your type. Yeah, the type that is 'tortured' by women in the real world but only run to the internet to form bosses. At least if you can't have your pride intact in real life, you can on a faceless forum. Hahaha

All of a sudden, everyone is smart and wise. I dey laugh.

Read your previous post and i must say you sound pained, like these guyz hit some nerve.

12 inches!:
Many women really av nothing to bring to the table. Jst spend spend spend.

now this isn't a joke but a fact.

I believe that ladies need to realise that it is desirable to get married but it is not the end of the world if you don't. You can live a very productive and fulfilling life without bring married. The nigerian culture does not help as a single lady is regarded as incomplete even by the family. We need to inculcate self confidence and self belief in our ladies. The pressure f marriage sometimes pushes our ladies to settle for 'second best'.

There are many ladies all over the world (especially the developed' world who are unmarried by choice and are happy. This shoud not be misconstrued as advocating the marriage is not good.

See wetin those bad boys cause..Now this woman is into Ultimate search....Kasala don burst ooo