What I advice do I give to my pal that is ready to get married soon. He has two women in his life and according to him, he loves one more than she loves him but the other person loves him more than he loves her. Both ladies are very great and exceptional for him but he doesn't know who to choose.

In tony tetula's voice : am in love wit two women i no knw which one to get.

Please I would appreciate it more if you back your choice with reasons

How do you people quantify love?

alutacontinua: How do you people quantify love?

. You don't use question to answer question or you don forget cus of ASUU tins? We have one on ground already so, na answer packaged as advice I need!

The general belief/say:marry someone dat loves u more....personally I did marry some1 I love more as it's meant to be a life time thing(hw can I possibly spend d rest of my life wit some1 I don't feel for?),however there should be a balance;love me as much as I do

zonaking: . You don't use question to answer question or you don forget cus of ASUU tins? We have one on ground already so, na answer packaged as advice I need!

I'll go with both. He must love me scarra and same with me too.


You feel better now

Love me i love you,God no go vex. Datsall

Neither. Don't settle. Find someone who loves you just as much as you love them.

What's he doing with two Women at a time anyways...

berylLOL: What's he doing with two Women at a time anyways...

Good question

Dis is difficult o.As 4me,i wil go wit d one dat loves me.When i realize i love sumbody but she is not into me,y waste my tym on her?Guyz should learn to control their feelings,its hard to do but it may b worth it.

How 'bout you go with the woman u love and also loves you in return. If you go with the one you don't love, I don't think u'll feel that completeness and happiness...likewise, if u go with the one u luv but does nt love u in return, I dnt think she'll feel that completeness too....so the best thing is love from both parties...

The problem is that you may never find a lady that loves you thesame way you love her. Yours might be more or lesser hence striking a balance becomes a miracle from God!

I think a lady should go for the guy that loves her...and a guy for the girl he loved

simple...as a lady, marry the one you love. And as a man, marry the lady that loves u.

First, Someone asked what your friend(or you) is doing with two women and that's a very good kweshion.

Second, your topic is kinda different from your post. In your topic, you sounded like only one of both partners loves the other while your post says both love themselves but to varying degrees.

Third, You did not back your post with reasons so how can we back our choices with reasons? Your friend must have different reasons for loving the two women but might not have the right reasons for loving one of them. So if u can produce reasons, one can easily say which of the two ladies is better, love aside.

But if I'm to directly answer your question based on the minimal information you provided, I'll say your friend should marry the person he loves most.

Oya here are my reasons:
1) Love, cannot really be measured. You may think you love someone more than s/he loves you while the person is thinking the opposite. In relationships, you can never tell who loves who more. You can only tell when someone loves you more(because you already know how you feel toward the person), but you can't be so certain that you love a person more.

2)Selfishness and self-centeredness is not good. Choosing someone who loves you more than you love them, as a reason to marry him/her, portrays both. It means you think of yourself more than u think about him/her. If the person loves you well enough that you think you can spend the rest of your life with him/her, then forget who loves more. The 'more' there na jara

#MY VIEW

wats the use of marrying someone u dont love and wats the use of marrying someone who dont love u ? i dont wana toture nobody

I feel its best to marry someone u love. There's a saying that goes dix way '' dont marry someone u can live with, but rather, someone u cannot live without''.

Marriage is about happiness.
I will advice he marries d one he loves. Women can easily fall for a man who is caring.