Nonso23: As far as my kids bear my surname only I have no problem with that.....

Nonso23: As far as my kids bear my surname only I have no problem with that.....

Nomski0: I'd love to bear my dad's name jointly with my husband's surname. But if my husband disagrees....no problem, i'll forget about it. Its not a do or die affair na

maxwello.yg:
I gbadu your grammar jawe

eyenCalabar: It's very wrong for any woman to still choose to bear his former names while married. She should understand that the thing is like a change of ownership kind of because a bride price was paid and the parents accepted it. Again, it doesn't just make sense still using your old names. For instance, if you were formerly called Gloria Bob and now you are married, you don't expect to be called Mrs. Bob rather Mrs. Tony (e.g. Tony being your husband's name), it wouldn't just make sense. It'll appear as if you were married to your father. Reason that!

Larryfly:

been trying to get thru to u. hope u don't mind, buh I'm taking ur signature personal. can we be chaty frnds

Nomski0: I'd love to bear my dad's name jointly with my husband's surname. But if my husband disagrees....no problem, i'll forget about it. Its not a do or die affair na

lorretta u: Change of ownership?


Are u ok?

You own your wife?as if u can create a human being.

Mtchew.her father who gave her life n her mother too won't even claim they own her
How much more u.some random stranger from nowhere.who met her when shes grown and because she wants to spend the rest of her life with you,you now own her!

You need a brain re-boot.

lorretta u: Change of ownership?


Are u ok?

You own your wife?as if u can create a human being.

Mtchew.her father who gave her life n her mother too won't even claim they own her
How much more u.some random stranger from nowhere.who met her when shes grown and because she wants to spend the rest of her life with you,you now own her!

You need a brain re-boot.

Nonso23: As far as my kids bear my surname only I have no problem with that.....

banega: are yuh toastin her on nairaland?

uj_sizzle: If it's important she bears her parents' name alongside her husband's for justifiable reasons then i don't see what's wrong. African men have issues sha making a big deal outta nothing

uj_sizzle: If it's important she bears her parents' name alongside her husband's for justifiable reasons then i don't see what's wrong. African men have issues sha making a big deal outta nothing

slimmy05: Just imagine your response as woman you will call yourself. You've actually lost your sense of respect, if you can't see peoples opinion about an issue and give your without subjecting the person opinion to insults. You'll also call your husband some random stranger with your loosed uncontrollable mouth. Try to have some respect in your post. You re the person who needs a brain re-boot.

ITbomb: A woman shall leave his father and mother. . . ., that includes leaving ' father's name'.
Problems and question like this arises when people neglect the word of God in their marriage and life

lorretta u: my hubby isn't complaining.
So I suggest you go hug the nearest transformer.
If his calling his marriage a change of ownership and that doesn't sound rude to you,then I don't know why mine should sound rude to you.

All these men with complex looking down their noses at women.you deserve whatever you get.cos I won't be rude to a normal self respecting man.
See your mouth.I lost my sense of respect but you're the one who has his sense intact abi?seeing you wife as a property you own is part of respect ba?u think u deserve respect?
No just provoke me

If I tell u what I really want to right now,you'll regret opening this thread!actually in the bible,it states "a man shall leave his parents and cleave to His wife." That's d exact way it is stated in d bible.get that right.before u start tooting horn as if na u sabi bible pass.

slimmy05: I'm waiting for that poo you want to say. I don't even have your time. Low self esteem is disturbing you, you need a psychologist to have your brain re-examined and who dash this you self acclaimed husband. Keep dreaming, keep dreaming. They'll still come back here and open a thread for single women.. Hahaha. You just come up here to derail a peaceful thread meant to share ideas devoid of insults. I wonder a man that will harbour an uncultured woman as you. I wish men come to see how their future wives misbehave on nairaland. You want equality, then also pay husband grooms price. That is one honour given to men alone, which shows a lot of respect for male folks. Females too have their respect, but don't subject it to a debate.