Hello!Good people I need your candid advice on this.I met a guy sometime in August last year,we started a serious relationship from the onset,by December we had met our parents,we were even talking marriage this year but,this guy is asking me to wait because he has to pass a medical exam to become a specialist after making attempts at passing the exam twice.Now he is asking me to wait until he writes the exams by October,whether he passes or not we shall fix a date but that the wedding will come up next year.My dear people what should I do?If it was in my power ,I would have made him pass his exams when he made the first attempt,I tried to make him see reasons that we can get married and he can still write his exams but he says no.I have been praying,my fear now is if he doesn't pass this time God forbids and we go ahead to fix a date for the marriage ,he might just manage but not be happy .Some guys are even asking my hand in marriage but I try to shove them off because of my present relationship.Please good people,What should I do?

If you love him, then wait for him. Instead of you to pray for him and support him, you are here talking about other guys that are disturbing you. Who told you the grass is greener on the other side? Calm down and stop been desperate. The fact that he has seen your parents, shows he is serious.

Just because he failed twice does not mean he can not pass this time around. Believe in your Man and his ability. Encourage him in every possible way you can. But if you chose to do otherwise, then you are on your own.

2goodbobo: If you love him, then wait for him. Instead of you to pray for him and support him, you are here talking about other guys that are disturbing you. Who told you the grass is greener on the other side? Calm down and stop been desperate. The fact that he has seen your parents, shows he is serious.

Just because he failed twice does not mean he can not pass this time around. Believe in your Man and his ability. Encourage him in every possible way you can. But if you chose to do otherwise, then you are on your own.

Thanks for yourcontribution.Should I keep waiting till I am 40?

pkween: Thanks for yourcontribution.Should I keep waiting till I am 40?

Do not not wait begrudgingly. Wait however long you want to wait, but not a moment longer. I wonder why you would mention these other men who have made passes at you. Do they matter? If they were not present, would waiting for your guy feel easier or pardonable?

No matter what u say, the child of hell will do everything within her power toil enter the place.

Medical exams are hard(I guess) so he has to read and get ready. The stress of a marriage might not leave him enough time to prepare. I think you should support him instead of nagging(coz I think that's what you're doing). If you nag in excess you might lose him!

Now might also be the best time to think of things if you doubt your love 4 him(this one you're talking of other proposals) or vise versa.

let him pass his exams, i'm sure other girls are also asking for his hand in marriage, so stop threatening him with your suitors.

at least, since he says he wants to attempt again this year, whats the harm in waiting till then and praying for him?

are you approaching 40?

pkween: Thanks for yourcontribution.Should I keep waiting till I am 40?

= seeking excuses to end the relationship. Alright, I understand. Husbands don dey scarce.