Theres this chick in think im in love with, in fact we've been dating since like 3 yrs ago when we were both in naija, now she lives in manchester while i stay in Romford, the only times we get to hook up is like once in 1 mnth, or 2 mnths sometimes cos we're both busy wiv school and the dist is far,we only get to talk on phone or chat online, i wanna take her home to mamma(marry her) but im scared, y'all think this will work out??

if y'all have been going for 3 years, i see why not.
But if you think that you love her, you need to know for sure b4 you make any moves. You also need to know that she loves you and you have to be ready to get married.

talk with ths chick about marriage if u haven't mentioned anything yet and plz don't call ur mom telling her u have found a wife while you two haven't agreed on anything, good luck

what exactly u scared of? you don't know her enuff? the distance? or taking her to mama?

hi, u dont even know watz been up thher sinze she left u,3yrz iz a long time 4rm now nd pple change evridy,do u thnk shez still in luv th u?is dat y u r scared?marriage is a long time,th sby ur not sure of,it can be approaching eternity

well, thats 3 encouragemnts and i discouragement, cool then, more thuts

she loves you not

@evaseh why would u say that, i mean u gotta have a reason or smthg dont u think honey??

if yu guys have been true to yourselves (you know wat i mean) them yep it'll work, BUT (you no say wen 'but' enter, e dey always spoil tins) so if you r not sure & 'but' dey, well i think know where i driving at. Take heart wen One door closes Haba another must definitely open

Since you know her better than we do, only you can answer the question. Do you love her and is it mutual?? Follow your heart on this one.

The ball is in your court!!

@desiree, thanxs, for one of the best comments so far

tru_mic:

@desiree, thanxs, for one of the best comments so far

No probs, babes!!!
I try

lol

im sure u do

tru_mic:

@evaseh why would u say that, i mean u gotta have a reason or smthg don't u think honey??

_{wow he calls me honey,wow}


well i dont really have a reson,i just think she loves him not

aiight evaseh, if u say so

Tru-mic, three yrs aint no joke. Nd if u guyz cld still make work over here in a distant land, also following ur distance,

I suggest u shld think she might be d one, not just any relationship can cope with all dat. Even ppl aint married as long as u guyz bn going out. GO FOR IT DUDE!! m in ur support.

tru_mic:

aiight evaseh, if u say so

thanks handsome

its alwez been lyk dat,get real,tell her ur plan.i think if u can keep each oda for 3yrs,u shld b able to work sumthing out,at least you get to see each other like once in a month and you know the reaso why its like that,she's not ignoring,its other stuffs that keeping you apart.