bonna4u: @op, It is obvious you don't love your boy friend because of his crude behaviours. You only endure him because he takes care of your needs.
I suggest you take his not being romantic as the prize you have to pay for staying in a relationship built on personal interest.

dnt realy lyk dat ur sugestion. Bt tankz anyway

My dear, until you are ready to stop loving his money, continue to endure cuz it seems that is the only reason you are still in the relationship. If he wasn't give you the $$, I'm sure u won't be lamenting on this issue.

Ndo! Pele!

thareta: Now I see y guyz yab us a lot u gave a long list about his bad character buh wen it came down to why you love him the only thing you could say was "MONEY".
No wonder dey say we follow money over everything else

dear, do u expect me 2 list only hz bad character nd neglect hz gud deeds? Dat wud be bad of me nau

JAVANESE: [/color][color=#000000]
Wait until he starts puncin u maybe u go fyn ur way by den

naxo u hate me reach?

Ema prince:
see advice!....don't you know there are some ladies out there envying her for having a guy that provides regularly?

make she dump am and lets see if she will be lucky enough to get a generous,romantic,faithful all-in-one guy..there is no perfect man!

that romantic person out there may be randy that she will always be heart broken or very poor and stingy that she may start considering cheating with some richer dudes to meet ends.

except that the OP is too scared,she's supposed to communicate to the guy on how she wants to be treated.

i do communicate wit hm bt he doesnt listen

homesteady: I suggest that you should also start shouting back at him! If he beats you, beat him back!
Then he'll start respecting you!

do u want hm 2 reconstruct mah face?

Lyk u said, it myt b d way he was brought up...his dad neva treated his mum that way....he needs 2 learn...or he mayb u'r d bleep object.

Finegrl: do u want hm 2 reconstruct mah face?

That's the problem with women! They are always afraid!

Finegrl: Hi evry1. Am Ibukun by name. I nd ma bf av been dating

hmmmmand u still refer to him as MA BF...u must be a very 5illy girl

Yield: Money's not everything. What else do you like about him besides him giving you money and taking care of your material needs? Whatever happened to calling you by your name?

no be dat one dey pain me sef. Itz d way he do cal d name datz wat i dnt lyk. If na persn wey get fyn voice, e 4 beta. If u hear hz voice ehn..... Lyk trumpet of d end tym

homesteady:

That's the problem with women! They are always afraid!

am nt afraid o. Just dat i stil lyk ma face nah. Wisdom z profitable 2 direct.

sweetpoison: hmmmmand u still refer to him as MA BF...u must be a very 5illy girl

wetin daht one cum mean kwanu?

Finegrl: no be dat one dey pain me sef. Itz d way he do cal d name datz wat i dnt lyk. If na persn wey get fyn voice, e 4 beta. If u hear hz voice ehn..... Lyk trumpet of d end tym

Chaiiii

I am just like your boyfriend, but my girl is cool with it, she knows that just me, I don't call her by any pet name or send some romantic messages or so but I love her and she knows so no big deal.

If you are not cool with it, I am afraid you have to back out because you CANT change him.

This gurl u know serious o

Yield: Chaiiii

am tellin yhu

adewasco2k: I am just like your boyfriend, but my girl is cool with it, she knows that just me, I don't call her by any pet name or send some romantic messages or so but I love her and she knows so no big deal.

If you are not cool with it, I am afraid you have to back out because you CANT change him.

tankz dear

IAMBREEZY: This gurl u know serious o

wetin i do?

Finegrl: i reali do luv hm my dear

Hmmm. Then change him. Change s d only permanent thing

franckoi:
Hmmm. Then change him. Change s d only permanent thing

ok o. Tankz

thareta: Now I see y guyz yab us a lot u gave a long list about his bad character buh wen it came down to why you love him the only thing you could say was[b] "MONEY". [/b]
No wonder dey say we follow money over everything else

u see am.u claim to love im buh u r just after his money .

!!!!!!

Sapphire86: My dear, until you are ready to stop loving his money, continue to endure cuz it seems that is the only reason you are still in the relationship. If he wasn't give you the $$, I'm sure u won't be lamenting on this issue.

Ndo! Pele!

@ finegurl: Does he pet you by touch ? My advice is you talk to him face-to-face about this matter. Remember a problem shared is half-solved_not in all cases tho' but should work in this one.

@finegirl, run 4 ur dear life now before its becomes late.This is a bad sign but it seems u dnt want 2 understand it.Verbal abuse or harsh tone of a guy towards a girl is a prior sign/warning dt he may 1 day start abusing d girl physically n emotionally.

Mercy-u:
@finegirl, run 4 ur dear life now before its becomes late.This is a bad sign but it seems u dnt want 2 understand it.Verbal abuse or harsh tone of a guy towards a girl is a prior sign/warning dt he may 1 day start abusing d girl physically n emotionally.

Mercy-u:
@finegirl, run 4 ur dear life now before its becomes late.This is a bad sign but it seems u dnt want 2 understand it.Verbal abuse or harsh tone of a guy towards a girl is a prior sign/warning dt he may 1 day start abusing d girl physically n emotionally.

Abeg,chop knuckle jare.
@op,you berra think very very well.Remember,love is not everything.A pot of soup contains a lot of ingredients to make it tasty.If he has all this characters,abeg jump and pass.It's a very bad sign. A woman needs to feel loved and appreciated.

Oh please!

franckoi:
Hmmm. Then change him. Change s d only permanent thing

Sorry but she can't change him.She doesn't have the character that would change him.
Her bf is the type that needs someone like him.He needs a woman that is headstrong like him.You know when he shouts,,a woman that wud start breaking all the breakable in the house in other to subdue his voice.He needs a woman that wud stand his fists,so y he us sleeping peacefully after being drugged,she wud raise his head,and continue to give him countless blows and slaps as he struggles weakly,a woman that wud set long nails at the edge of his tyres so he wud have to visit tyre shops monthly,a woman that is fearless and doesn't care!Am sure after months if bringing down the roof,if the love still exists,both wud sit on the floor of his fighting arena,tired exhausted, finished,bruised,worn-out,ashame,teary,then an understanding might be reached.

Le kwanu ihe Ego ne wete. Babe just tell yaself the truth. The only reason i can see that made you still 'love' him is bcoz his cheddah...Nlanders no dey lie. 96% of the posts here points towards dat based on what you said. So give yourself some sense (its optional). Ask yourself if you would have endured this if he was a broke a55 broda. I've got to proffer help else where. Like National Geographic Chanel...Think Again.
Guente

very tru jare@lynpetra

2sexy needs to help you deactivate your account

@finegrl

But does he know how to give correct prick?