though im AA and shes SS, but now im scared to be a widower that early, my children their mother so early, i google and i have read so many things online about SS gene, i'm just shaking now, everything looks scaring to me, Jeeeeez, i actually feel like breaking up now or what else can i do?

what happened to positive thinking or faith depending on which 1 u belv in. Put urself in her shoe,she deserve the best tins of this life,she didnt create herself for goodness sake. Since ur AA i dnt see why ur panicking.

chidyhels: what happened to positive thinking or faith depending on which 1 u belv in. Put urself in her shoe,she deserve the best tins of this life,she didnt create herself for goodness sake. Since ur AA i dnt see why ur panicking.

Exactly

If u are scared just run

shes the best for me i know, shes everything ive ever wanted in a woman even beyond expectation, but in this case im scared.

Don't operate a relationship in fear. If you can't stand the terms, walk away boldly.

It's painful to find someone we love in the wrongest circumstances. But do we love to live? Or live to love? Be wise!!

Break up with her, because you don't really love her. If you did, you wouldn't be thinking about yourself instead you should be thinking of her and what her life must have been like growing up, and etc. Anyway, just break up and give her the opportunity to find someone who really loves her.