We have been seduced into a way of perceiving life which seems to
suggest that passion and sexual chemistry are always instant and unsolicited.
In the now famous scenario of "boy meets girl" and "girl falls helplessly in love,"
we have come to acquaint romantic relationships with afterthought more so
than forethought. In other words, it can appear decidedly unromantic to plan romance.

these are 10 ways to light up the fire in your sexual life.
1. Share your sexual expectations with one another and work on finding a common ground.
After going so long without discussing this important topic, you’ll more than likely be more
alike in your responses than you think.

2. Understand that even with expectations, our individual sexuality is not etched in stone:
our individual sexual needs can and do change as we mature and we need to deal with
our sexual/emotional baggage as we become exposed to new knowledge about sex.
This means that each spouse must remain flexible and demonstrate a willingness to compromise
to keep the other sexually fulfilled.

3. Be aware that hormonal differences between men and women can cause a
mismatched sex-drive.
This can be a test of love and patience and does keep the relationship interesting and unpredictable.

4. Have lots of sex, both spontaneous and planned. Research shows that the more a couple
connects sexually,
the more sex they want to experience with one another.

lack of fire in couples sexual life is one of the leading reasons for divorce.
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