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Why Do Men Takes Good Girls For Granted by cachal: 5:38am On Nov 02, 2013
I've been thinking about this for a while, and I can no longer keep it. Please I. Want us to discuss about this, why do men takes a good girl for granted? You see guys spending almost 75% of their earnings on pay girls, and can not afford to send N100 recharge card to that good girl that bearly demand for a dime? Am also a victim of this act, and I know many out there are victims of this act too.

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Re: Why Do Men Takes Good Girls For Granted by Allwility: 6:01am On Nov 02, 2013
That's because some men find these pay girls intriguing, wild and wouldnt mind going all length to tame 'em. But good girls are kinda docile and some men don't really want that. It's their natural inclination.
My take: Be yourself sweety. smiley

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Re: Why Do Men Takes Good Girls For Granted by temi4fash(m): 6:04am On Nov 02, 2013
It just cos a lot of times dai av bin told or learned from friends dat gud boiz are not appreciated....

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Re: Why Do Men Takes Good Girls For Granted by rodriogo: 6:12am On Nov 02, 2013
cus 90% of gud galz are mostly attracted 2 dier opposite....i luv gud gal tho jz dat they alwayz forming hard 2 get

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Re: Why Do Men Takes Good Girls For Granted by eightsin(m): 6:19am On Nov 02, 2013
Good girls are for keeps.
My dear,u will nt want to knw the other things we do to these other girls aftr spending the money.

For what its worth..it's nt that we don't spend on these so called good girls...in fact we do but it's not just as much as we spend on the others cos we feel they need it more. For example, a gud girl won't want to buy a dozen makeup kit n paint her face blue n purple so d money fr this goes to d oda chic

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Re: Why Do Men Takes Good Girls For Granted by Iaz93: 7:01am On Nov 02, 2013
Not all men. angry

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Re: Why Do Men Takes Good Girls For Granted by Pacify: 7:02am On Nov 02, 2013
Bad girls are not for keeps whereas good girls are. U spend heavily on a hooker cos u know she may never come back again, U have paid for her services. But a good girl will always be there so eventually u tend to spend more over a longer period of time

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Re: Why Do Men Takes Good Girls For Granted by luvablesam(m): 7:20am On Nov 02, 2013
Pacify: Bad girls are not for keeps whereas good girls are. U spend heavily on a hooker cos u know she may never come back again, U have paid for her services. But a good girl will always be there so eventually u tend to spend more over a log period of time

Cudnt agree with u more...Good girls are for keeps....Men appreciate them in their minds A WHOLE LOT...don't let anyone say anytin diff to u..

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Re: Why Do Men Takes Good Girls For Granted by iamteaser: 8:43am On Nov 02, 2013
Why do girls take good men for granted?

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Re: Why Do Men Takes Good Girls For Granted by cachal: 9:32am On Nov 02, 2013
Thanks a lot for your contribution, critics and views, this is. Getting interesting, am not the only one guilty of this act.. I feel some sort of relief..
Re: Why Do Men Takes Good Girls For Granted by numericalguy(m): 9:42am On Nov 02, 2013
Good girls are difficult, hard to get and boring (in and out of bed). You don't really want a good girl until when you are planning on settling down.

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Re: Why Do Men Takes Good Girls For Granted by dmcdad: 10:20am On Nov 02, 2013
Iaz93: Not all men. angry

Exactly!

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Re: Why Do Men Takes Good Girls For Granted by Nobody: 10:39am On Nov 02, 2013
eightsin: Good girls are for keeps.
My dear,u will nt want to knw the other things we do to these other girls aftr spending the money.

For what its worth..it's nt that we don't spend on these so called good girls...in fact we do but it's not just as much as we spend on the others cos we feel they need it more. For example, a gud girl won't want to buy a dozen makeup kit n paint her face blue n purple so d money fr this goes to d oda chic

Is she suppossed to be happy about this answer? lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

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Re: Why Do Men Takes Good Girls For Granted by rodriogo: 10:46am On Nov 02, 2013
iamteaser: Why do girls take good men for granted?
because gud guyz are 2 nice.... nd dy find it boring.

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Re: Why Do Men Takes Good Girls For Granted by Nobody: 10:48am On Nov 02, 2013
Pacify: Bad girls are not for keeps whereas good girls are. U spend heavily on a hooker cos u know she may never come back again, U have paid for her services. But a good girl will always be there so eventually u tend to spend more over a log period of time

Nigeria = no. 1 in prostitution undecided

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Re: Why Do Men Takes Good Girls For Granted by Nobody: 10:49am On Nov 02, 2013
@poster:
In the same way many girls fall for bad boys, many boys are not able to appreciate good girls but fall for the bad ones.

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Re: Why Do Men Takes Good Girls For Granted by Dygeasy(m): 11:44am On Nov 02, 2013
numerical_guy: Good girls are difficult, hard to get and boring (in and out of bed). You don't really want a good girl until when you are planning on settling down.
I Beg To Differ. And Would You Marry A 'Good Girl' And Confine Yourself To A Boring 'In And Out Of Bed' Life?

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Re: Why Do Men Takes Good Girls For Granted by Ruq: 12:05pm On Nov 02, 2013
The ish is Vice versa, Ladies also take good guys for granted. It's just like the saying 'good girls like bad boys' thats were you fall.
And them good ladies most of'em act like they should be worshiped for being good, Hella NO! guys really really appreciate good ladies at least it gives us hope for good future mothers.

still be good you'll mosdef find someone who will appreciate it but mean while, you can chill with me. tongue

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Re: Why Do Men Takes Good Girls For Granted by Articul8(m): 12:35pm On Nov 02, 2013
This isn't completely true.I avnt seen a sane man dt will tak a 'good gal' 4 granted.Mayb anoda word shld b used inplace of '4 granted'.
Every man wnts to keep a good gal cos dey ar scarce .No man wnts to marry a bad gal.We save u for d last,and u knw d last is d best.
We love u. I need a good gal in my life.Can I av ur contact?

On the other hand,good gals need experience to knw whch guy is good. U can nt claim to b good wen ur 'good' has nt been tested.Ar u gona remain 'good'?

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Re: Why Do Men Takes Good Girls For Granted by Danhumprey: 1:35pm On Nov 02, 2013
Same way the ladies take good/nice guys for granted! It's a two-way thing. Deal with it! angry

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Re: Why Do Men Takes Good Girls For Granted by eeewise(m): 1:36pm On Nov 02, 2013
1,Marriageable,marriage minded men don't take good grls for granted they don't even date d bad ones#fact. 2,good grls re for keeps,marriage while bad grls for play and sex#fact 3,its all this small boys ,young time wasters dat do all that

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Re: Why Do Men Takes Good Girls For Granted by mrborntodoit: 2:54pm On Nov 02, 2013
I guess the gods are to be blamed for this one, most men that maltreat women are hard core sexists , it is a general African mentality which might be characterized as a masculine defaut.

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Re: Why Do Men Takes Good Girls For Granted by iluvweed(m): 2:55pm On Nov 02, 2013
Just passing....


Very simple! Because men loves bad girls escpecially FRESH Blunt smoking bad girls .... grin grin grin grin grin grin


Rolling another joint... grin

Its Blunt Saturday!.....

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Re: Why Do Men Takes Good Girls For Granted by skyscraperTM(m): 2:56pm On Nov 02, 2013
This is not totally true, no good guy will take a good girl for granted. it's no longer news that girls purposely fall in love with bad boys and they go all sober when the expected happens. As if that's not enough, they use that experience to concludes that all men are dogs as if it wasen't their fault from the onset. Sounds crazy though but that's the fact.

These days girls care less if you're the most handsome dude in naija, so long you're loaded financially and you've got a 14inches anaconda below your waist that's all that matters.

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Re: Why Do Men Takes Good Girls For Granted by lafuria1(m): 2:57pm On Nov 02, 2013
Not true,
Re: Why Do Men Takes Good Girls For Granted by djeezy(m): 2:57pm On Nov 02, 2013
Op don't generalize. Not all men take good girls for granted. I love and appreciate good girls and no matter how much I spend on the supposed "bad" girl. The good one in my life remains the biggest shareholder.

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Re: Why Do Men Takes Good Girls For Granted by SELFWORTH: 2:57pm On Nov 02, 2013
.....because they think only for the moment....not over time. When they get older then they start regretting. ......

Remember gold is only sold to those who know the value. Only a good man will appreciate a good woman.

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Re: Why Do Men Takes Good Girls For Granted by Nuvally: 2:57pm On Nov 02, 2013
No one takes good things serious. Its a normal thing.

Secondly, it depends heavily on what u call "good"

Hoes are also good. I can't take them serious tho

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Re: Why Do Men Takes Good Girls For Granted by dridowu: 3:00pm On Nov 02, 2013
Where are the good girls ?
Good men are around now.

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Re: Why Do Men Takes Good Girls For Granted by Nobody: 3:01pm On Nov 02, 2013
Clicks google to get the answer cheesy

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