Woged2005: [s]Lessons Learned From Gov Chime's Wife's Situation[/s]:

[[s]b] 1.[/b] Never breakup another woman's home and expect peace when you take over. There's something called 'Karma'. The cries and pains of the poor woman you broke her family will hunt you someday. Whatever goes around, comes around.
2 . People on NL never jubilate on another person's misfortune because your own day may come. It's Mrs Chime's turn today, whose tomorrow? What the family needs is our prayers and not judgement and rationalization by 'over-sabi' people.
3. Don't marry a 'superstar' for his money and stardom and then want try control him afterwards. There's a reason why he is a 'superstar, and many of us are not. He could be there with the help of those women/men you are trying to edge out now. After all you just met a wealth you didn't know how it was made. It's best to stay away from such men if you're the jealous or clingy time. But if you choose to 'dig for Gold' it's purely a business decision, afterall "Cigaret makers don't care how many people who die of lung cancer, as long as they make money."
4. Never come to Nairaland for responsible marriage counseling. Otherwise you will be taking advice from naive teenagers and people who still have fantasies about marriage because they've never married before.
5. Let's stop making every woman's prblem a fight for woman equality and human right. No be so our African fore-fathers teach us. From what we see today, they might have been poor, but our fore-fathers' marriages were more peaceful than what we see from oyibo today. So my sistas, make una no bring oyibo man sense into naija marriage. eno dey work o. u hear?
6. Every unmarried person should go and research more what 'For Better, and For Worse' means. Najija sistas, marriage is not the solution to your problems, it should be a union between two best friends!

Do many naija girls learn anything from this woman's story? I don't think so, because every one of us want to hit it 'big'. There are consequences for every decision you take in life. Please pray for the challenges that family is passing through now. God can still change things.

Chillisauce:
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If you wanna pass across info, do that and stop making reference of what you don't know.
So many sides of the story. Stop using it as a reference when you don't know what really happened.

Except you meant to tell us your are the Wife

Chillisauce:
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If you wanna pass across info, do that and stop making reference of what you don't know.
So many sides of the story. Stop using it as a reference when you don't know what really happened.

Except you meant to tell us your are the Wife

Royal Roy:

You just spoke my mind 100%.

How did Op know all these?
Is it not same news media everyone is reading different versions?

Your postulations and positions are too far from reality..... would be better if you had said that's what I learnt from Chime's marriage crisis.

Ujujoan: RUBBISH!!!!

Woged2005: Lessons Learned From Gov Chime's Wife's Situation:

Do many naija girls learn anything from this woman's story? I don't think so, because every one of us want to hit it 'big'. There are consequences for every decision you take in life.

Ujujoan: RUBBISH!!!!

Royal Roy: ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^


There we go again

Nigerian men this Nigerian men that.

Generalisation of a group of people based on the actions of a few individuals is a big misconception and a lack of objectivity in my opinion.

If you believe all Naija men are the same and they have nothing good to offer then probably you need to check yourself first and the kind of Naija men you have been meeting and rolling with.

Only ignorance make people generalise and conclude everyone is the same because they come from a particular place or speak the same language.

Chillisauce:
And for the Men who dare to follow the right path, don't be surprised same society and even women calling him "sissi" "woman wrapper". Etc

pickabeau1: ^^^ ok o...

Please keep away from Naija men for your own good

The same people that are feted for their generousilty and ...

SA gals love naija guys die...

Chillisauce:

They love the money or the Men .

I agree with Stillwater.

99% are

pickabeau1: ^^^ ok o...

Please keep away from Naija men for your own good

The same people that are feted for their generousilty and ...

SA gals love naija guys die...

I hear akatas like naija guys too

Dont know much about the russians

Asians run away from naija males

stillwater:

Rotflmao!

Ujujoan: RUBBISH!!!!

Royal Roy: ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^


There we go again

Nigerian men this Nigerian men that.

Generalisation of a group of people based on the actions of a few individuals is a big misconception and a lack of objectivity in my opinion.

If you believe all Naija men are the same and they have nothing good to offer then probably you need to check yourself first and the kind of Naija men you have been meeting and rolling with.

Only ignorance make people generalise and conclude everyone is the same because they come from a particular place or speak the same language.

kulyie: roll,roll roll your boat gently down the stream,merilly merrilly merrily merilly life is but a dream.


how are you eeeddduuunnjjjoobbbbbiii mi owon


long time,i miss you o! Your twin brother nko? say shewa says hiiiii o!


meanwhile i hear wetin you do for baba oyo the other day for bamk when he was stranded,i said iwo nikan tan i see you o.you try

Royal Roy:

Lol.

I see you too Kulyie.

Am good and kicking.

Thanks