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CONFESSION: ''I Have Hidden My HIV Status From My Husband For Four Years" by segzytemi(m): 9:23pm On Nov 15, 2013
According to Punch Metro , a woman disclosed how she has kept her HIV positive status away from her husband after years of marriage.
Sh said;
''I cannot tell you how I contracted HIV, but I had a brief fling with a pupil in my secondary school in 2009 when I was 17''---Mrs. Grace Brume, 22-year-old HIV patient, expecting her second baby at the Amassoma General Hospital, Amassoma, Bayelsa State.
PUNCH Metro had enquired from Grace how her husband, Fyneface, was treating her considering her challenge, she said, “I did not tell him that I am HIV positive. No one knows that I am HIV-positive except an aunt. Even my husband does not know. I have hidden my status from him since I tested positive.
“I would have told my husband, but the aunt said I should not. My aunt keeps encouraging me that those who have HIV will not die and that there are drugs they take to keep alive. Interestingly, my husband is negative.”
I usually convinced my husband to use condoms.
“My husband used to kick against it each time I gave him condoms to use. I told him I was asthmatic and I did not want to get pregnant often. As a result, he agreed to be using condoms even though he did not like it.
“When we wanted to have the second baby, he did it without condoms. Still, my husband is negative.”
She said her resolve not to tell anybody was because of stigmatization which most HIV patients usually suffer.
Grace said her first child born to the “rascally schoolboy” was HIV-negative. She said Praise-God was in the Kindergarten class in a private school, stressing that when she was tested after 18 months of birth, there was no single trace of HIV in her (Praise-God).
Grace said, “My advice for pregnant women is for them to go to hospital to their HIV status. If they are positive, they should start taking their drugs to avoid the baby being infected.
“The ART drugs are working very well. I almost committed suicide five years ago when I tested positive to HIV. I was told that I was pregnant and had HIV. It was as if the entire world was crashing on my head. I went to tell my aunt about the development. She advised that I hid the result from everybody so that I would not have psychological problems.”


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Re: CONFESSION: ''I Have Hidden My HIV Status From My Husband For Four Years" by Ellatyra(f): 9:29pm On Nov 15, 2013
sad
Re: CONFESSION: ''I Have Hidden My HIV Status From My Husband For Four Years" by waleadex(m): 11:43pm On Nov 15, 2013
This is so terrible,too terrible and very terrible...
Re: CONFESSION: ''I Have Hidden My HIV Status From My Husband For Four Years" by baby124: 11:47pm On Nov 15, 2013
Story story, story! Once upon a time, time time grin

22-year-old HIV patient, expecting her second baby at the Amassoma General Hospital, Amassoma, Bayelsa State.


I usually convinced my husband to use condoms.
“My husband used to kick against it each time I gave him condoms to use. I told him I was asthmatic and I did not want to get pregnant often. As a result, he agreed to be using condoms even though he did not like it.
Re: CONFESSION: ''I Have Hidden My HIV Status From My Husband For Four Years" by Nobody: 11:59pm On Nov 15, 2013
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Re: CONFESSION: ''I Have Hidden My HIV Status From My Husband For Four Years" by coogar: 12:03am On Nov 16, 2013
the heart of a woman is deeper than the pacific ocean. this woman is evil!!!!
Re: CONFESSION: ''I Have Hidden My HIV Status From My Husband For Four Years" by Nobody: 1:04am On Nov 16, 2013
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Re: CONFESSION: ''I Have Hidden My HIV Status From My Husband For Four Years" by Nobody: 10:43am On Nov 16, 2013
shocked shocked shocked
Re: CONFESSION: ''I Have Hidden My HIV Status From My Husband For Four Years" by SalC: 9:56pm On Nov 16, 2013
What are we supposed to learn from this story?
How to keep your status secret and possibly infect an innocent partner? Or is she giving a testimony, I don't get it.

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Re: CONFESSION: ''I Have Hidden My HIV Status From My Husband For Four Years" by Nobody: 10:23pm On Nov 16, 2013
I reservoir my commentary

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Re: CONFESSION: ''I Have Hidden My HIV Status From My Husband For Four Years" by Leyqute(m): 1:49am On Nov 17, 2013
Its difficult to make something good out of this news item. Its equally hard to make something bad out of it.
Bittersweet news it is.

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