Pacify: Although u should've seen her in person and probably rented a hotel for the night for her if u had cash cos she had undergone a stressful journey to see u. However, it doesn't justify any reason she may have to come see u unannounced. I so much detest it.

redsquare: Met this girl a couple of months ago in a Calabar bound bus from Benin. We exchanged numbers and started talking. On my invitation, she visited me in Benin once. At that time my girlfriend was still doing her NYSC in Kano. I made it clear to her that I'm into a serious relationship. 2 weeks later after her first visit, she started calling that she wants to visit again which I declined. She has been complaining that I don't want her to visit me again. I told her I'll invite her when it is convenient for me. Just last saturday, I went to see a friend in my neighbourhood when she called that she was in my house. Initially, I thought she was joking, not until my neighbour called to confirm that a girl was waiting outside my door. I got mad! How could she have travelled all the way from Calabar without at least calling me? I called her back and asked her to go back from wherever she's coming from, she started pleading that she just wanted to surprise me. To cut the long story short, I asked my neighbour to give her some money for her transport which he did, and she left. I'm kinda feeling guilty at what I did. Did I do the right thing? What if she had met my girl at home?What kind of surprise (according to her) is that? Pls I need your contributions/advice/criticisms.

Anoneism: Guy u no try at all ooooooo. You shouldn't have given her Federal Punishment like that. You should have given her state or local government. Punishment. All the same she deserves whatever she gets. Put a call through to her and tell her you are sorry and that you detest what she did. SIMPLE!!!!!

Pacify: Although u should've seen her in person and probably rented a hotel for the night for her if u had cash cos she had undergone a stressful journey to see u. However, it doesn't justify any reason she may have to come see u unannounced. I so much detest it.

chiboy1928: @op wat u did was wrong no mata wat that not hw to treat a lady even if u dnt want her to sleep in ur House but u should have atleast see her face to face do u knw wat she might have gone through taking dat trip dat why I don't pity some guys wen dey are heart broken by ladies cos we caused some of dis tings ourself.

lynpetra:

Call her for what?
Sorry for gini,
What if she met his girl??Who would beg the other

AG.gal:
OP, u did the best thing. She was even lucky u gave her some money. She was so foolish!
What if u were out of town or u moved out of the apartment? Don't even trouble urself.

Iaz93:

OP, she came for your blokos! Good thing you used your head.

saintneo: I am really surprised that ladies are really in support of this.

I need to up my game.

n.oxide:
That must be one ugly chick

n.oxide:
That must be one ugly chick

Nomski0: I hate needy girls. Well done Op.
Your girl is lucky.

sakaguchi:
Don't mind all of them here joor!
Yvonne Nelson come my house unannounced from Sokoto, I go come straff my thing, na today, Mammy water no dey possess man, na women dem dey possess.
OP, weldone, you tried well but let me tell you what happened.
You have a very fine girlfriend.
You met this not so fine babe in a bus.
You invited her to your crib to have a jingle.
When she came, you were not impressed- maybe you discovered mouth odor, body odor, Gbagaun babe, or some other unforeseen ab initio f..uckup.
So you yansh her (or you didn't yansh her the first tym).
I believed you yanshed her sha.
She loved it- you hate it (love-hate things by wale)
You can no longer sponsor her transport from wherever again just to go into dat lame punannnny!
She tells you she is coming, you don't give a damn.
And because she liked it, she paid you an unannounced visit to spite you that she didn't need your transport fair, all she wanted was dick
But you sef don't even want to come close her punnnaaany, so you paid her off.
Once again, well done!
See as everybody is praising you as if you are a saint.

chiboy1928: Why blaming the girl all alone the @op should also be blame for cheatin on is girlfriend u are into a serious relationship and u went asking somone out again isn't it dat fault fr the @op side as well pls wen judging pple u judge fr both side.I have dis feeling that the @op isn't even faithful to is fiancee or girlfriend wich of them.