I have spent quite some time on the romance forum & as a certified relationship counselor, I have given a few of you advice. But one thing I've come to notice is the number of times I have had men writing to me for advice because their women treat them poorly.

Ladies, if you claim to "love" your man, please act like it. Why must it always be him that has to initiate every call or text message? Why must he always be the one that needs to plan every date?

Would it kill you to send him a cute message that reads, "Hey babe, Just wanted to let you know I'm thinking about you."? Would it kill you to surprise him to a sweet romantic dinner? If you don't have the money to take him out, you can simply cook a delicious meal for him. Make the evening special in your own way.

Once in a while, if you have money, you can stop by the mall and get him a nice shirt or something you think he would like.

A few years ago, I learned the secret to keeping my man happy: Whenever I can, I do sweet things for him. I plan romantic outings, date nights, couple nights (an evening where we gather with all our "couple" friends), and I buy him little gifts whenever I can. Not just on his birthday, but whenever I can. Above all, I gave him the most important thing to a man: RESPECT. In return, I get treated like a QUEEN. My man goes above and beyond to put a smile on my face. Making sure I'm happy slowly became a priority for him. He gets me everything I want on his own will. I've never had to ask for a thing.

I know our African men like to act hard and tough, but deep down inside they just want a woman who will genuinely love them. Not one who will love with words, but a woman who loves with actions.

If you have a man who is not acting right, just start loving him the RIGHT way and watch him change.

So ladies, send your man a cute text message today. Surprise him with a cute and sexy message. He will love it.

This goes to the married women as well.

**Disclaimer: I'm not telling you to spend all your money on this man o. Neither am I asking you to become his sugar mama. Just pamper him once in a while.**

True talk dear

So true HisRib...

Mods, please send this to front page. It needs to get its deserved reading.

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Nigerian girls still have a long way to go....they f**** not treating us like kings that we are
front page plsss

Enegod: Nigerian girls still have a long way to go....they f**** not treating us like kings that we are

Hopefully this thread will inspire them to change their ways.

Hmmmm im still on track.

Eesha: Hmmmm im still on track.

Great!

True but guys also do same naw. Do me I do you which is bad. Treat me like a crap and I will treat you like sh.it. But treat me like a queen and I will treat you like my beloved kingdom.

Agybabe: True but guys also do same naw. Do me I do you which is bad. Treat me like a crap and I will treat you like sh.it. But treat me like a queen and I will treat you like my beloved kingdom.

Yes I agree, but I have noticed a lack of effort from most African women and that's why I started this thread. They always want, want, want all the time. How about start giving?

Agybabe: True but guys also do same naw. Do me I do you which is bad. Treat me like a crap and I will treat you like sh.it. But treat me like a queen and I will treat you like my beloved kingdom.

Aint we treating you like queen before you call us ''mugu''?

...I am 2000% convinced that Hisrib is ONILA!!!!

i need to first find a man before i pamper him, abi no be so?

-Mr Cork-:
...I am 2000% convinced that Hisrib is ONILA!!!!

Who?

Why must she?

Hmm. Ok

CocoLoca: i need to first find a man before i pamper him, abi no be so?

Lol! If you don't have a man, this clearly doesn't directly apply to you. But, it's great to keep this mind for when you finally meet "Mr. Right.'

CocoLoca: i need to first find a man before i pamper him, abi no be so?

na so o

am i pampers?? dnt pamper me, just take care of me.

Thanks for hit.......... @OP

Enegod: Nigerian girls still have a long way to go....they f**** not treating us like kings that we are
front page plsss

C dis learner o, like how u dey treat dem like the queens they are right ? don't let me call u big head o

This OP is on fire. Keep preaching the truth, girl.

Nne God bless you!

Abeg na Nigerian man you wan pamper?



Make I go laugh come....

Na iron hand fit them

shout out to my beautiful,light skin,chubby,gorgeous princess,lik marijuana u jst dey high me any how.

@op 9c one, but for me; it is pamper me I pamper u. Either God or man no go vex.

Dem guys go like thread God has used op to answer deir prayer, hian

You better start treating mii like a god because 'OKO WON LODE O'..