This is for the young ones who are in relationships or those planning on getting married. What ever you do, marry who you are totally in love with and who loves you back in return. Some people do not believe in the 50-50 kind of love, some think the man has to love more or the woman has to love more. But the truth is, it exists, where the couple love each other equally. Look for that.

For those that do not believe that true love, exist, duh!!!! and you have not gotten over some girl/guy you met randomly for the past 10 years, some men and even women get married, and their heart is some where else, not that they chose to, but the heart loves who it loves. You can't help it. So true love exist. If you have not felt it, trust that it is coming your way, even if it is going to be in your 60 or 70 years of age. It won't be fair for some to have the experience and others don't. Our God is a Fair God.

For guys looking for miss sexy (there is nothing wrong in that), but please i hope she is the one you are truly in love with. Babes, i don't even want to start with the vanity i see this days, and i have received numerous letters, on women who claim that they do not 'love' their husbands and vice-versa. But, do i blame them? They have ventured into marriage for the wrong reasons and with the wrong mentality and that has stung them in return. Marriage is a reality field. Think of it this way, after marriage then what?

Every other thing is an illusion, only love is real. Hold on to that lady or man, irrespective of what they do, help each other grow, what makes love beautiful in itself, is the story it tells, we all have unique love stories, write yours and act it out. God bless.


PS: for those who do not want to share their inner-most feeling and trouble with the world for the fear of insults and criticisms, feel free to send messages to this email addy:toyin.letstalkabout@gmail.com. This is free, doing it out of love. We need to help each other grow.