I caught my ex-boyfriend with another girl after 6 years of relationship and because of the i broke up with him, but after some time he started calling and begging me to forgive him and come back to him, infact he is now asking my hand in marriage.
But the problem now is that iam in love with another guy who has already proposed marriage to me, and now i don't know whom to marry.
Should i go ahead and marry my ex-lover whom i have known for years or to marry the new guy?
WHAT DO YOU THINKS?

He cheated on you once, he would do it again. choose the one you trust most.

DAISYBABY:

I caught my ex-boyfriend with another girl after 6 years of relationship and because of the i broke up with him, but after some time he started calling and begging me to forgive him and come back to him, infact he is now asking my hand in marriage.
But the problem now is that iam in love with another guy who has already proposed marriage to me, and now i don't know whom to marry.
[b]Should i go ahead and marry my ex-lover whom i have known for years or to marry the new guy?[/b]WHAT DO YOU THINKS?

Hmmn . . . let me look into my crystal ball

Oh . . . let's see, choose the ex-lover . . . No questions, the oracle has spoken
Shioor

i am in love with another guy who has already proposed marriage to me,

Need I say more?

Marry the one you're in love with, but make sure you love him. Take your time dear.

, Frm the tone of ur post one can tell ur still in love with him  
Forgive him and go back to him, ;Dthe devil u know is better than the angel u dnt know, besides what makes u think ur new guy wouldnt cheat on u. Am sure ur ex has realised his mistakes by now.

We women set ourselves up for downfall sometimes. Marry the new guy.

@ Poster, I'm pissed off.

I will be harsh. So take my words for it. Strictly speaking, you are one of the reasons why some guys just want to use and dump girls.
You are not considering the position of your new love isnt it? how do you want him to feel if you break up with him for some mundane reason? Your EX is your EX, and that was history. You are in a new relationship now, and thats what should matter to you, and how to make it work out. You should break off communication with your EX. Dont forget that if you chase two rats, you will kill none.

This just goes to show that sometimes, a girls Ex still has some influence on her. hence the reason i don't support people getting in touch with their EXes. My two kobo.

@ Lonely pal.

Dont think you are right. Cos if you really think about it, the devil itself was once angel, and with time it became the devil. So if you give the angel time, it will soon become the devil you know.

Yeah man, let em know what's good!

2 u wht i think u should is dat u have 2 follow ur heart cos sum time heart rlly work 4 us.Dat wht i think about it

Tough situations, i feel u
Pray and ask God to give u the wisdom of making the right choice
He wont give u what is not ur's
Goodluck

Once a cheat always a cheat. I would never ever go back to a man after cheating. I did it once and of course 3 years later he bleeped up again. I spent 3 extra years of my life in a r/s that should have ended the minute he cheated.

@Poster take your time and be a little patient, follow yor heart and make your decision when you are more calm than now

@ poster

How old are you?

Studentet:

@ Poster, I'm pissed off.

I will be harsh. So take my words for it. Strictly speaking, you are one of the reasons why some guys just want to use and dump girls.
You are not considering the position of your new love isnt it? how do you want him to feel if you break up with him for some mundane reason? Your EX is your EX, and that was history. You are in a new relationship now, and thats what should matter to you, and how to make it work out. You should break off communication with your EX. Dont forget that if you chase two rats, you will kill none.

This just goes to show that sometimes, a girls Ex still has some influence on her. hence the reason i don't support people getting in touch with their EXes. My two kobo.

@ Lonely pal.

Dont think you are right. Cos if you really think about it, the devil itself was once angel, and with time it became the devil. So if you give the angel time, it will soon become the devil you know.

u may be right, but u must realised that d chemistry is d most important factor here for her to make her decision

perhaps u read ma post once again

Galfriend, i knw how u feel, wit dis tin called Ex,

but den, we must always look at d future 2 wen making sum important decisions such as marriage concern,

n look beyond d seeming chemistry which would probably end once d flesh is satisfied,

take ur time n make a decision, just ensure u dont end up hurting urself in d process?

shine ur eyes

Studentet:

@ Poster,  I'm pissed off.

I will be harsh. So take my words for it.  Strictly speaking, you are one of the reasons why some guys just want to use and dump girls. 
You are not considering the position of your new love isnt it? how do you want him to feel if you break up with him for some mundane reason?  your EX is your EX and that was history.  You are in a new relationship now, and thats what should matter to you, and how to make it work out.  You should break off communication with your EX.  Dont forget that if you chase two rats, you will kill none.

This just goes to show that sometimes, a girls Ex still has some influence on her. hence the reason i don't support people getting in touch with their EXes.    My two kobo.

@ Lonely pal.

Dont think you are right.   Cos if you really think about it, the devil itself was once angel, and with time it became the devil. So if you give the angel time, it will soon become the devil you know. 

Very true.

Bhut poster,it realli depends alot on wat led to yhur breaking up.
If d fault was frm yhu den yhu've got sm serious thinkin to do
if on d contrary,den MAYBE yhu shud remain wit d present one.

Its take you six good yrs to studied and grab the fact about ex-man, only God knows how many years it will take you discover your new man. Let give a kudos to man who say sorry to a lady cos hard a little bit to offer. Now you'd discover what he can do ,then it is your responsibility to amend him his xter( it could by caring, praying, listing even sexing and romance) .KNOWN DEVIL IS MORE BETTER THAN UNKNOWN SAINT. Follow ur heart.

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DAISYBABY:
I caught my ex-boyfriend with another girl after 6 years of relationship and because of the i broke up with him, but after some time he started calling and begging me to forgive him and come back to him, infact he is now asking my hand in marriage.
But the problem now is that iam in love with another guy who has already proposed marriage to me, and now i don't know whom to marry.
Should i go ahead and marry my ex-lover whom i have known for years or to marry the new guy?
WHAT DO YOU THINKS?

was tempted to say you are a dummy but on the other hand i realized that matters of the heart are complicated,he cheated before he would cheat again.People dont change