I don't get this at all. I hate cooking and my mum always says that I have to learn how to cook because I'm african. As if I even want to get married!

She doesn't even tell my brother to cook. Is it a taboo for African guys to cook?

Girls do you find this with your mums as well?

Well I like cooking. Who says it's by force anyway?

because you know the thing about cooking for your husband and all that crap. And am only 16.

It may come handy in future; at least for you and your children

I'm so not having children! Thats what I keep telling my mum.

woww i sometimes tell ma mum that i wont get married and she gets really mad b kids i love dem soo much svs dont you know dat good cooking is also a path into a mans heartcuz some guys are greedy

c i no this is weird,but i dont think am gonna get married either!i think its bondage

ah svs its not bondage its just thst some guys think they own us u ' ll d re the man to think that he owns me :Pi 'll teach him a lesson, cuz marriage is all bout love,respect and understanding and not master n slave, those days are long gone

thats how it is, if u cant cook u re narrowing down ur chances of getting ur true love, its not just an African thing men still have other responsibilities

hmmmmmmm see svs i told you some guys are greedy

its necessary that a woman should learn how to cook.its actually their duty in the home.i dont think its greediness mukina

as far as u are an afican,u should learn how 2 cook.ve u ever wondered y some husbands have affairs outside the marital home cos the wife doesnt cook well,so he goes outside in search of someone who can cook wel.am sure u are goin 2 get married,its jst a matter of time,u r goin 2 change ur mind.learn how 2 cook.its necessary.

YEAH MITHCY ITS NOT GREEDINESS BUT MOST MEN LIKE EATING TOO MUCH

Mukina,
well, that ur opinion, maybe u r fortunate or unfortunate enuf to meet only gluttons as frds

and Svs,
it's so unfortunate that u are already tinkin like this at ur age, maybe it's owing to ur environment, such tots maybe not help u,
u r african, mind u, u have a culture and tradition

baby girl,u have to learn how to cookk,cos that's the way out of so many ways u can to ur husband's heart.and don't  tell me  when u get married u and ur husband,with the kids will be going to fast food joints all the time.ur husband will get tired of it  and u might as well lose ur marriage at the end. so be wise girl and listen to ur mum  

well Edatika i was just making a point to svs that food is one of the paths to a man's heart, cuz an hungry man is an angry man,

Listen to your mum, cook and cook well. Its the beginning of wisdom.

As you are only sixteen, you will soon find out. Dont be in a hurry. Some wisdom come with age and hmmm experience.

Svs,

It's ok to feel the way you do. I would feel the same way if I am 16, and live next door to Barney. Also, you live in Ireland where they should be a fastfood joint or affordable restaurant at every nook and cranny.

At this age, marriage is a dream or better still a hallucination.

However,

If you ever forsee yourself coming to live in Nigeria, then learn to cook. It's for your own good. McDonalds, Starbucks & KFC are seen in magazines here. Ever gone on Mr Biggs for a month? Doesn't sound like fun, if you ask me. Do you know the best place to get a healthy dosage of typhiod,

Learn to cook. Same goes for all the ladies in the house. I'm glad I know how to. It has demystified the feminine domination of the kitchen in 'my world'.

I can cook and clean  


SVS you better learn to cook and clean just like me if you don't want to cry

y do i ave to cry

Rhea:

Svs,

It's ok to feel the way you do. I would feel the same way if I am 16, and live next door to Barney. Also, you live in Ireland where they should be a fastfood joint or affordable restaurant at every nook and cranny.

At this age, marriage is a dream or better still a hallucination.

However,

If you ever forsee yourself coming to live in Nigeria, then learn to cook. It's for your own good. McDonalds, Starbucks & KFC are seen in magazines here. Ever gone on Mr Biggs for a month? Doesn't sound like fun, if you ask me. Do you know the best place to get a healthy dosage of typhiod,

Learn to cook. Same goes for all the ladies in the house. I'm glad I know how to. It has demystified the feminine domination of the kitchen in 'my world'.

awwh i love barney, but anywayz,i just dont feel that women shud be stuck in the kitchen

kellygirl:

baby girl,u have to learn how to cookk,because that's the way out of so many ways u can to your husband's heart.and don't  tell me  when u get married u and your husband,with the kids will be going to fast food joints all the time.your husband will get tired of it  and u might as well lose your marriage at the end. so be wise girl and listen to your mum  

am not getting married,does anyone get thet

i get that wish you a happy spinsterhood

thank you.thats the free life!hu cares about setling down wen u can be freeeeeeeeeeeee.that dosent mean i cant have sex tho

but sex with whom differnt guys or one guys

I LoVE CoOkInG

i'm from scotland and my bf is nigerian he does all the cooking as i only cook "british" food but he has taught me to cook stew and pepper soup (wow its yummy) so i'm learning to cook and i'm 23 so still plenty of time to learn

mukina2:

but sex with whom differnt guys or one guys

no with one guy

Svs well its Ok if u decide nt 2 get married but it is essencial u know hw 2 cook. U can't eat juncks 4 d rest of ur life u know

Girls don't have to cook, its very optional. Just find a man like me that does not like food. Its a free world sys, you must not get married but then there will be no license to having sex.

I like food, I like good food, I like good home cooked food, I like a woman that can cook good home cooked food, I like a woman that is creative with her good home cooked food, I can cook some good food, but I'm lazy and not creative, my specialty is making money to support the woman that can cook good food after she gets back from work (if she decides to work at all), ,

Ladies please learn to cook good food for your men. It will keep them at home in the sense that they will not be galivanting around town lookin for whose house to chop from today, it could be his friend's wife is the better cook and as a result u dont see ur own husband during the crucial time of the day, then argument starts when oga returns home.