Mayflowa:

Didn't you noticed he was like this before you married him. Anyway, I have an info for you: he would remain lke this. Such people arenot a good candidate for marriage. You need to divorce him to be happy. Sorry! But this is the hard truth.

coolest01: eeya,i dont even knw what to say...it must be unbearable for u...and to think u have like a lifetime to cope with this ...choi...didnt u notice this before u married him?

elobyobi:
My dear, he has a psychological disorder, and needs to see a doctor. Don't take it lightly. OCD can devastate families. I have seen it before.
And remind me not to marry a deeper lifer

Incrizz: What I love about you is how you're finding the whole OCD thing with him both funny and not funny hahaha..

Mayflowa:

Didn't you noticed he was like this before you married him. Anyway, I have an info for you: he would remain lke this. Such people arenot a good candidate for marriage. You need to divorce him to be happy. Sorry! But this is the hard truth.

thegeorgy:
thank you,i just pray he changes as he grows older,i've complained to his family members they keep saying to ignore him that he's always been like that.its not easy though.sometimes i try to ignore by playing music or surfing the net when dis madness starts,at times it works but other times i still find myself getting angry.if to say na boyfriend now,i for don carry my baggage my papa was so the opposite .never seen a man that cleans like this.my brothers are clean but they're not this crazy.phew!

thegeorgy:
oh i forgot to mention when am in the kitchen,as i'm doing this he is clearing up,even things that i might want to use again,he has cleared and washed back,soup spoon too,he cleans it up.i will be like which kind wahala i marry for myself like this (yea i know we did not date for long)as deeper life chic now,i did not live with him ...so must of these i did not see.he's even always at home.i'll be like go out now and visit your friends at least that way i'ld have some space and he wont see anything to clean.but he doesn't like to go out cos he doesn't wanna see any mess.at his work place,he uses handkerchief or paper towel to pick the fone.God have mercy.evrywhere for my house na hand sanitizer.he will come back from work,my 2 year old wants to give daddy a hug but no oooo.he will have to take his work cloths off,bath before he carries baby or hug me claiming so many people came by the office he doesn't wanna spread germs.at times i no dey gree o,i'ld be like i must hug u today and if i do,oga will ask me to come bath.its hard i must say.

Mayflowa:

Didn't you noticed he was like this before you married him. Anyway, I have an info for you: he would remain lke this. Such people arenot a good candidate for marriage. You need to divorce him to be happy. Sorry! But this is the hard truth.

Pinopinoguy:

leye@luv:
my sign and open his white eyes when asleep very annoying

zeb04: I think I can relate to some things here. Smone said smtin abt *his particular side of the bed* my ex use 2 ve a particular side of the bed,u dere not sleep there oh. Even if it by 2am,he wld wake u up. Wenever he makes me angry I purposely sleep on that side of the bed. He won't b able 2 sleep all thru d night until he apologise.

klear:

So as she is now married to her 'bad' candidate of a husband, she should divorce him if she wants to be happy? people that think like you ought to be avoided at all cost. The man is not abusive, he is a good husband & father & just cos he has this issue you are advocating divorce. smh...if you can't offer words of encouragement & empathy, then don't sow seeds of discord in another woman's marriage.

@thegeorgy my dear, his issue can be managed & subsequently brought under control so don't lose hope. Happy that you can see the funny side of life in this. Nobody is perfect, it is our imperfections that make us unique.

Adaobi12: I hate nothing about him,but he hates alot about me. He hates my job, mode of dressing. Above all,he says i too dy economize. Anyway all na past nw. Already adjusting well 2 singlehood

Danhumprey: You don't mean it.

thegeorgy:
oh i forgot to mention when am in the kitchen,as i'm doing this he is clearing up,even things that i might want to use again,he has cleared and washed back,soup spoon too,he cleans it up.i will be like which kind wahala i marry for myself like this (yea i know we did not date for long)as deeper life chic now,i did not live with him ...so must of these i did not see.he's even always at home.i'll be like go out now and visit your friends at least that way i'ld have some space and he wont see anything to clean.but he doesn't like to go out cos he doesn't wanna see any mess.at his work place,he uses handkerchief or paper towel to pick the fone.God have mercy.evrywhere for my house na hand sanitizer.he will come back from work,my 2 year old wants to give daddy a hug but no oooo.he will have to take his work cloths off,bath before he carries baby or hug me claiming so many people came by the office he doesn't wanna spread germs.at times i no dey gree o,i'ld be like i must hug u today and if i do,oga will ask me to come bath.its hard i must say.

Adaobi12: I hate nothing about him,but he hates alot about me. He hates my job, mode of dressing. Above all,he says i too dy economize. Anyway all na past nw. Already adjusting well 2 singlehood

balispecial: Wat's d meaning of OCD plz?

Seun: Good choice! Learn the warning signs that you ignored in this relationship and heed them in the next one. You will surely get a better match!

thegeorgy:
my sister,it's not easy o...we almost broke up because of it.it's just encourgement from friend and family and resources from the internet.if not we for don divorce o.thats how bad.he cleans 24/7 bath babies every now and then,the dishes sef,he's always looking.and i'll be like chill now whats your problem.our bathroom gets washes everytime he wants to have a bath.the list is long.sometimes i just wanna run away and go spend my day somewhere else cos its crazy ..he even wants to wash my feet before i enter bed,in the name of i saw you walk barefeet a few minutes ago.in a house we mop almost evryday o.
@bxcode...answered prayers keh?husband should help wife but my case is just over the top,and it makes me feel like am not doing enough.
@Dutchess,hmmmmm is good to clean but when its to the extreme,it makes others uncomfortable.sometimes my friends dont wanna come visit me,they think my house is too perfect,expecially a house where there's a two year old.it feels like its just me and my husband.not like am messy but i still want my baby to be a baby and litter sometimes.but my oga at the top keeps cleaning as baby plays.and i have only been married for 3 years.God help me as i have a long time to cope with this craze.



Is it dat u dint notice ds during ur dating days or u chose to ignore cos am confused! abi na suprise matchmaking una do??

wizean: My baby can so watch movies . . . . . I atimes feel like smashing d laptop on her head !

Seun: Good choice! Learn the warning signs that you ignored in this relationship and heed them in the next one. You will surely get a better match!

thegeorgy:
oh i forgot to mention when am in the kitchen,as i'm doing this he is clearing up,even things that i might want to use again,he has cleared and washed back,soup spoon too,he cleans it up.i will be like which kind wahala i marry for myself like this (yea i know we did not date for long)as deeper life chic now,i did not live with him ...so must of these i did not see.he's even always at home.i'll be like go out now and visit your friends at least that way i'ld have some space and he wont see anything to clean.but he doesn't like to go out cos he doesn't wanna see any mess.at his work place,he uses handkerchief or paper towel to pick the fone.God have mercy.evrywhere for my house na hand sanitizer.he will come back from work,my 2 year old wants to give daddy a hug but no oooo.he will have to take his work cloths off,bath before he carries baby or hug me claiming so many people came by the office he doesn't wanna spread germs.at times i no dey gree o,i'ld be like i must hug u today and if i do,oga will ask me to come bath.its hard i must say.

Pimples:
I noticed that you are always in support of breaking of relationships, divorce, seperation... Etc
Whatever happened to for better for worse
Whenever challenges crop up in a relationship effort should be made in managing the situation...hoping that in time things will improve.
Instead of having this mindset that you can always leave at the slightest discomfort.
Lack of real commitment is bad for relationship

klear:

So as she is now married to her 'bad' candidate of a husband, she should divorce him if she wants to be happy? people that think like you ought to be avoided at all cost. The man is not abusive, he is a good husband & father & just cos he has this issue you are advocating divorce. smh...if you can't offer words of encouragement & empathy, then don't sow seeds of discord in another woman's marriage.

@thegeorgy my dear, his issue can be managed & subsequently brought under control so don't lose hope. Happy that you can see the funny side of life in this. Nobody is perfect, it is our imperfections that make us unique.

Seun: That's OCD. It's funny in small doses or when you're talking about it like this, but experiencing it every day is probably frustrating. Read this.
thanks Oga Seun.sounds funny when its talked about but experiencing,is a hard pill to swallow.i read the link.makes some sense.
[quote author=So hot]

I feel ur pain. U can help urselves by seeing either a psychologist or a psychiatrist. They may b able to work on him a bit to give u some relief....cheers

So hot:
thankz so hot,when next when next it causes disagreement,i shall talk about that with him.
[quote author=Mekyno]
hmmm...no b small tin ooo. I hope he uses jik + ariel + warm water + oda chemicals to clean d punnany b4 he chop d food ooo?....hahaha...pls na joke oo.

Sarah a: Am learing a lot from this thread God bless the Op