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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by planetuzor(m): 1:18pm On Dec 15, 2013
xxxtedyxxx:

U need to do a couple of tins.. Here are d tins u need to do.

1) Get her invested. ...don't keep the convo..on just d usual whatsap..do some calls and step dat up. Joke wit her n laf wit her...she wil most like return ur calls too..witing a shor pace

2) U want her to be ur gf ryt?..well don't ask her out.. Just start behaving as her gf... U see d mistake most guys make is asking a girl to be dier gf..wen dat happens u give her d chance to say yes or no..which is bad. Don't forget attraction is emotional..not logical..its d way u make her feel dat will spike up..her attactrion for u. A simple way of acting like her bf alrdy..is start calling her baby... Or let's take for example..u r chatting wit her..use d work bbe, or baby, or sweets..here and dere..its simple...""Hey there babe,ow u doing"..u can also voice it during calls... D basic point is..act like her bf. Sup wit u babe..av u eaten?...how u doing tonite babe...op ur nite is starting out fine...blah blah

3) Don't be desperate. U want her as ur girl before xmas..xmas is alredy here. Don't ask if she has a bf alrdy.. Dat will be going bk to square one. If u do..u myt just be bringing up d picture of anoda guy into her subsconcious

Basically...make her invest..get her to share pics wit u...wen u take genuine interest in a babe..she will definitely open up to u...tell her..."" Its really been nice getting to know u..its fun...I feel like I av known u..for such a long time..I just feel free and open wit u"" she will most likely reciprocate. And become open n free wit u.

4) Get romantic..u can use role play, future projection...etc..I will explain dese concepts for u.

This will make the girl put u in a friend zone na... OP it seems u've not been in a FriendZone before aby cos dis are all the steps to be put in a friendzone... grin grin
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 1:19pm On Dec 15, 2013
Some inner game tips... its all about ur beliefs and how highly you think of yourself.

#

If you are a reactive person, you shoud become non-reactive as from today.

When u are reactive,u seek validation from the world. What people say and think about u..matters more dan what u think about your self. That sucks and u need to change..cos it will only affect your game. That's y u get jealous for no reason even if ur babe is not cheating, and dats y what a girl thinks abt u, matters more than what u think about ur sef.

#..my brother...change is needed.

You must become totally non-reactive to what people say or think about u. Forget about ur ego. Stop seeking validation from outside. Focus on ur self, and forget about ur limiting beliefs. There is a chick out there waiting for. Stop dulling Your self.

U miss everyshot u don't take. Attraction is emotional not logical. U see a girl u like, approach her, forget ur ego, and what ur brain tells u..dats is how u kill anxiety based on approach..or meeting new people.


# mehn..just look everywhere..lots of beautiful hot chicks, check online, fbook,etc...babes yapa.. U r dulling ur sef if u r not meeting a babe today..weda its online- chatting from the comfort of your room..or its one-on-convo..on the street.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by vheeky(m): 1:21pm On Dec 15, 2013
There's this girl i love and i asked her out but she said she likes me so much but cannot date me because she already have a guy she is dating..I tried hard but all to no avail.I later stopped calling her and we lost contact for like 4 month.I saw her in the bus stop recently and we exchanged numbers again..My question is that should i still ask her to date me.Kuz i av only call her 3rice for the past 2months
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by seemylife: 1:21pm On Dec 15, 2013
Nice one Tedy. I love your bits on rapport.

I will chip in some stuff later.

STATE -----> RAPPORT --------> LEADING
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 1:23pm On Dec 15, 2013
planetuzor:

This will make the girl put u in a friend zone na... OP it seems u've not been in a FriendZone before aby cos dis are all the steps to be put in a friendzone... grin grin

Lols..no bro..getting a girl invested in U, and u acting like a boyfriend material..will never make a girl friendzone. U....girls friendzone guys wen the guy doesn't make her feel attraction. In other words..the guy is just like one of her female friends. There is a difference. No real chick wants to be considered cheap..so ur game and ow u package ur sef matters.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nobody: 1:26pm On Dec 15, 2013
Op my problem is I'm dam shy. Talking to guys na wahala not to talk of girls. How can i stop being shy?
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 1:29pm On Dec 15, 2013
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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Gbajabiamila1: 1:37pm On Dec 15, 2013
Sylvarresta: . Tanx bro. Nw am happy. God bless u
Nice posts, I pray my gf isn't seeing this post... She go just dey laugh me when I dey throw her d stunts I don learn here. Nice one OP.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by seemylife: 1:38pm On Dec 15, 2013
Weselion: Op my problem is I'm dam shy. Talking to guys na wahala not to talk of girls. How can i stop being shy?

Can you give an example of a time you have been shy before?
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by roymary: 1:39pm On Dec 15, 2013
@OP
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by hobson9000(m): 1:44pm On Dec 15, 2013
xxxtedyxxx: So we kick It off wit FMAC....FMAC is an acronym for Find Meet Attract Close.

Find-- dis is basically d part where u av to look for the chick, be it online, or one-on one

Meet- dis is d part where u open the chick.. Or say hi. A simple line I crafted myself dat works all d time is "" hey..hi..I av seen u arnd a few times, but we a avent met...am <insert ur name here>"" #smile...u can move ahead from there. Note its ur dilivery dat matters..u may or may not use d same exact words.u can frame it arnd to sth dat suits you.

Attract -- this is d part where u ease her and make her relax using different methods. Humour,buying temperation,teasing,role play etc

Close- this is d part where u get her contacts or u move the convo to a different location. Closing can also mean s**x too. So it all despends on your time constraints.

Note..u don't av to be Goodlooking...Just be LOooking GOOOD.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by karferguso(m): 1:45pm On Dec 15, 2013
Luvn dix.....dis is a Nigerian setting

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Sylvarresta(m): 1:53pm On Dec 15, 2013
Gbajabiamila1: Nice posts, I pray my gf isn't seeing this post... She go just dey laugh me when I dey throw her d stunts I don learn here. Nice one OP.
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Gbajabiamila1: Nice posts, I pray my gf isn't seeing this post... She go just dey laugh me when I dey throw her d stunts I don learn here. Nice one OP.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nobody: 1:55pm On Dec 15, 2013
THIS IS THE ONLY WAY 2 IMPROVE UR GAME

Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by OmichaelO: 2:03pm On Dec 15, 2013
OP chop knuckle...your head is there

though i disagree with some..but you are o on point grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 2:04pm On Dec 15, 2013
seemylife:

Can you give an example of a time you have been shy before?

U can only stop ur sef from being shy..wen u try. Its all about practice.. U need to start talking to random people..be it guys or girls.. U don't av to be scared. Girls aint monsters and dey surely aint gona eat u op.. We learn wen we make mistakes. So start trying..and use every opportunity to say hi to girl....its easy..just do it for the fun. U will soon begin to notice the improvement.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by udemzyudex(m): 2:15pm On Dec 15, 2013
ifex370: noted...op help me awt... there's this chick i saw on fb,xchanged contacts and text via whatsapp! 17,shes 16 +... am 100+,she js got admitted,am in ESUT,shes in UNILAG,am in engrng,she,acc...wer still in hobbies discussion,shez rili cute,i aint ugly either... how can i step up ma game and have her as my girlfriend before christmas

ask if she have a bf... don't date a girl who is already in a relationship
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Contumely: 2:17pm On Dec 15, 2013
xxxtedyxxx:


Its kinda complicated. But it all boils down to what u want. One tin u need to know is dat girls change. Their attraction, passion and other positive feels wane @ fast rate if u don't strike wen the iron is red hot. Yes her younger sis just got married, dt myt strike some sense of desperation in her, but I will advise u...to go for her. She is alredy free and open wit u. U can't really predict the future. She loves u and u love her. I tink u shud go for her, weda its sex or dating..anyone.. Cos dis chick..myt just change all of a sudden and start giving u funny behaviour.


#####

She asked u what u wanted, cos u were not direct wit her, but like u said, she is in love wit u..and u r in love wit her. Take tins one @ a time. Go for d sex.
Thanks guy.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by udemzyudex(m): 2:22pm On Dec 15, 2013
xxxtedyxxx: Never ever ask a girl if she has a bf.. Becos she alredy knows what u r tryna elicit.. If she is cute n hot..she wil most likely reply wit yes...if if she doesn't av..she will still say yes. No babe wants to be considered a chick without a bf. Assuming she says yes..den what next?..u gona reply..oh...dts cool..which makes u appear weak and not manly. If she says no..she alredy knows u wana propose. Let her bring up d topic her sef..she will most likely bring it wen she is getting attracted to u. And wen she doest..just act like its nothing..ignore it. Or just laf and say..u r not d jealous type. D point is..don't stay on d bf topic. Move to sth else. She is only teling u she has a bf..herself..so u don't think she is cheap or easy. Dats d psychology. The quicker u grrab it..d better.



#Attraction is not Logical. Its Emotional.
its good to always ask a girl if she have a bf..u can ask her in a funny way but not on the first day,week ..

sure u wouldn't want her to double date and won't want to share her with another guy..
don't ask her directly .
and learn how to handle rejection by just walking away..
don't put all ur eggs into one basket..
my opinion
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by tr3y(m): 2:32pm On Dec 15, 2013
xxxtedyxxx: Some inner game tips... its all about ur beliefs and how highly you think of yourself.

#

If you are a reactive person, you shoud become non-reactive as from today.

When u are reactive,u seek validation from the world. What people say and think about u..matters more dan what u think about your self. That sucks and u need to change..cos it will only affect your game. That's y u get jealous for no reason even if ur babe is not cheating, and dats y what a girl thinks abt u, matters more than what u think about ur sef.

#..my brother...change is needed.

You must become totally non-reactive to what people say or think about u. Forget about ur ego. Stop seeking validation from outside. Focus on ur self, and forget about ur limiting beliefs. There is a chick out there waiting for. Stop dulling Your self.

U miss everyshot u don't take. Attraction is emotional not logical. U see a girl u like, approach her, forget ur ego, and what ur brain tells u..dats is how u kill anxiety based on approach..or meeting new people.


# mehn..just look everywhere..lots of beautiful hot chicks, check online, fbook,etc...babes yapa.. U r dulling ur sef if u r not meeting a babe today..weda its online- chatting from the comfort of your room..or its one-on-convo..on the street.


Hmm. Interesting. So you are saying I should ditch my ego coz of a girl!!! That is so not me!!! One thing I know bout girls is that if you put 'em on a pedestal they tend to take you for a ride!!!

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 2:33pm On Dec 15, 2013
udemzy_udex:
its good to always ask a girl if she have a bf..u can ask her in a funny way but not on the first day,week ..

sure u wouldn't want her to double date and won't want to share her with another guy..
don't ask her directly .
and learn how to handle rejection by just walking away..
don't put all ur eggs into one basket..
my opinion

My broda I respect ur views.

but from ma experience..I don't see y shud ask..cute girls my av a bf..and dey myt..so dey dere is not point asking..avnt u s***x a girl..den later she tells u she has a bf?..y didn't she bring it up?..its easy..cos she doesn't want to be held responsible for cheating. It has happend to me manytimes. I don't ask girls if dey av a bf..girls r not dumb..dey alrdy know what u r up.


My opinion tho.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by udemzyudex(m): 2:33pm On Dec 15, 2013
thumb's up op ... I dey feel u like AC.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by udemzyudex(m): 2:34pm On Dec 15, 2013
xxxtedyxxx:

My broda I respect ur views.

but from ma experience..I don't see y shud ask..cute girls my av a bf..and dey myt..so dey dere is not point asking..avnt u s***x a girl..den later she tells u she has a bf?..y didn't she bring it up?..its easy..cos she doesn't want to be held responsible for cheating. It has happend to me manytimes. I don't ask girls if dey av a bf..girls r not dumb..dey alrdy know what u r up.


My opinion tho.


OK bro..
thumbs up
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 2:37pm On Dec 15, 2013
tr3y:

Hmm. Interesting. So you are saying I should ditch my ego coz of a girl!!! That is so not me!!! One thing I know bout girls is that if you put 'em on a pedestal they tend to take you for a ride!!!


U are wrong bro. Wen I say ego..I mean everytin dat puts in ur comfort zone...everytin dat dat makes u feel proud..preventing u from reaching out to new tins and stepping out of ur comfort zone. Dats what d ego means...

#y shud a girl for a ride?...if u know what u want u won't place a girl dat high. Its a matter of investment bro. There is nothing wrong in placing a girl on a pedestral as far as she too is investing..its wen she aint investing...dat she can take u for a ride bro.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Naam22(f): 2:37pm On Dec 15, 2013
Ok!so a friend hooked me up with boyfriend's frnd,knowing am single..and we went out on a date and we click so I thought,we exchanged numbers and guess wat? He didn't call me,am so confuse infact I taya for guys,I feel lyk I shud call him and ask y he didn't call me,lol but I know better,u don't force yourself on people...still single till I find dat person that'll actually call back..he probably couldn't handle my Awesomeness grin

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nobody: 2:40pm On Dec 15, 2013
Op, chop knuckle! cheesy
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by enomasly: 2:44pm On Dec 15, 2013
See tedy i undastand d way u comin from but bak 2 d 1st page u advised ifex to go into d 'guess wat am thinkin chat' n u said d short gown with ur backside.....best advice dat technique wud kill ur chances hw wud u just bring up such randy talk of backside in a chat u maywonder if i ave experience ave done an experiment in d past 3months of my stay in skul n ave had relationships n flings wit 12 girls 'unbeleiveable but its true infact i cud advise anyone who needs help'
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nobody: 2:44pm On Dec 15, 2013
xxxtedyxxx:

U need to do a couple of tins.. Here are d tins u need to do.

1) Get her invested. ...don't keep the convo..on just d usual whatsap..do some calls and step dat up. Joke wit her n laf wit her...she wil most like return ur calls too..witing a shor pace

2) U want her to be ur gf ryt?..well don't ask her out.. Just start behaving as her gf... U see d mistake most guys make is asking a girl to be dier gf..wen dat happens u give her d chance to say yes or no..which is bad. Don't forget attraction is emotional..not logical..its d way u make her feel dat will spike up..her attactrion for u. A simple way of acting like her bf alrdy..is start calling her baby... Or let's take for example..u r chatting wit her..use d work bbe, or baby, or sweets..here and dere..its simple...""Hey there babe,ow u doing"..u can also voice it during calls... D basic point is..act like her bf. Sup wit u babe..av u eaten?...how u doing tonite babe...op ur nite is starting out fine...blah blah

3) Don't be desperate. U want her as ur girl before xmas..xmas is alredy here. Don't ask if she has a bf alrdy.. Dat will be going bk to square one. If u do..u myt just be bringing up d picture of anoda guy into her subsconcious

Basically...make her invest..get her to share pics wit u...wen u take genuine interest in a babe..she will definitely open up to u...tell her..."" Its really been nice getting to know u..its fun...I feel like I av known u..for such a long time..I just feel free and open wit u"" she will most likely reciprocate. And become open n free wit u.

4) Get romantic..u can use role play, future projection...etc..I will explain dese concepts for u.
no offense please, how old are you? You seem to have experienced so much and do u mind sharing some stories with us?
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nobody: 2:45pm On Dec 15, 2013
Naam22: Ok!so a friend hooked me up with boyfriend's frnd,knowing am single..and we went out on a date and we click so I thought,we exchanged numbers and guess wat? He didn't call me,am so confuse infact I taya for guys,I feel lyk I shud call him and ask y he didn't call me,lol but I know better,u don't force yourself on people...still single till I find dat person that'll actually call back..he probably couldn't handle my Awesomeness grin
y don't u give him a call to know wats up with him?
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by enomasly: 2:45pm On Dec 15, 2013
Naam22: Ok!so a friend hooked me up with boyfriend's frnd,knowing am single..and we went out on a date and we click so I thought,we exchanged numbers and guess wat? He didn't call me,am so confuse infact I taya for guys,I feel lyk I shud call him and ask y he didn't call me,lol but I know better,u don't force yourself on people...still single till I find dat person that'll actually call back..he probably couldn't handle my Awesomeness grin
call him just say hi n long time dont nag about his not callin u simple!
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Macjayboy(m): 2:48pm On Dec 15, 2013
xxxtedyxxx: Some few tips friends.

There are always more women out there...so be a challenge...av dis mentality of absolute abundance..and stop kiiling ur sef over one babe. There lots of cute babes out there.

Don't care or give a Bleep what she tinks abt u..just attract her. Simple as abc.. Remove d focus from ur sef and focus ur mental beams on her.
Nice bro
Whatever method u are using, make it look spontaeneous...not pre-meditated.


Its the act dat gets u women..not the act it self....stop thing abt d s***x too much and focus on the little tins dat u will do..to get u there. Focus on the process..Not the outcome.

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