tpia@:
find another church to attend if you are annoyed.
and stop generalizing, thanks.
how old is the pastor in question? In some cultures [eg yoruba], you are expected to show respect if people are 30+ years your senior.
In any case, address people the way they want to be addressed.
you are even female- when you start having problems with your fiance/husband, it is these same pastors you'll call to come and put mouth, not remembering how you abused them before.

fijiano202: Am disappointed in you,i would have expected you to ask if pastor abcd has change his name to Pastor Daddy,i can call any pastor any name i like or want it may be Mr,Daddy or pastor abcd,i will never call a pastor wife mummy,i always refer to them as pastor wife but if she insulted me the way she insulted you i would honestly call her by her full name without any respect included

Adeoba10: Nxt time, jux say ''Is daddy wa around?''

specialguest: Tpia@ This woman who invited you here? I see you all over people"s threads on Nairaland making noise and constituting a nuisance all the time. That thing you are spewing out of your mouth is unsolicited right here, go find some other thread to derail.

While you are at it, stay clear my path.

specialguest: As I type this right now I am literally boiling with Anger.

tpia@:


Madam, save your issues and nasty character for your so-called fiance, thanks.

I just went through your posts and discovered you have a witch nature, good for you.

Your thread is nothing more than the usual satanic attacks on christians and christianity, like I said, if you are not happy with your pastor or his wife, find somewhere else t go or sit your cranky behind at home, na by force? Just thank seun for giving you a mouth.

tpia@:


Save your anger for your future hubby dear, he's the one who will be in your vicinity.

Oshi pelu iranu.

Woged2005: It's Ok to respect people. However, respect is earned and not forced on people. My Rev Fr once said "if someone have to remind you he is a Christian, he's probably not, because Christianity is seen in your style of living. Like a lamp, you cannot light it and put it under the table. It shows people the way to life"

At no point in life should someone give up power over him/herself to someone else be it a Governor, pastor, or bishop. You can only have respect for the position they occupy. Over the years human beings have shown they are untrustworthy, selfish and unreliable. Most couple who allowed pastors to meddle in their marriage are divorced today. Start now to avoid that. The next thing they tell you you must 'Obey your Daddy and Mummy'. He is not your 'Daddy', he is your pastor. Period!

Mamacita007: Looooool maybe you looked so beautiful so she wanna protect her husband. if i were u, i will stay there & see that pastor daddy g.o. let her go & die if she wants to looool

specialguest: As I type this right now I am literally boiling with Anger. Imagine! I and my partner went to see the pastor today regarding our marriage plans and we met his absence.

Adeoba10: Nxt time, jux say ''Is daddy wa around?''

soul_glo:

Daddy who? For what? The idea of calling another man "daddy" besides the man who fathered and made the sacrifices he made for me is beyond what I can imagine. Especially when they feel they can impose it on you. I even it find disrespectful to my father. Who the hell is he to want to be called "daddy" by someone who just happens to go to the church he pastors. If someone over time forms a bond with this man and sees him as a father figure then he or she can choose on their own to refer to the person as daddy. The humility part of the scriptures just fly over these so called Christian's head. Typical Nigerian mentality. Lets just give people rewards that they did not earn. People are not appointing themselves as daddies and mommies to other people LOL. Ridiculous.

tpia@:
find another church to attend if you are annoyed.

and stop generalizing, thanks.

how old is the pastor in question? In some cultures [eg yoruba], you are expected to show respect if people are 30+ years your senior.

In any case, address people the way they want to be addressed.

you are even female- when you start having problems with your fiance/husband, it is these same pastors you'll call to come and put mouth, not remembering how you abused them before.

tpia@:
find another church to attend if you are annoyed.

and stop generalizing, thanks.

how old is the pastor in question? In some cultures [eg yoruba], you are expected to show respect if people are 30+ years your senior.

In any case, address people the way they want to be addressed.

you are even female- when you start having problems with your fiance/husband, it is these same pastors you'll call to come and put mouth, not remembering how you abused them before.

ketoprofen:

so in Yoruba culture, saying pastor abcd is not enuf?
@op, the pastors wife goofed.
Y can't they follow the lives of Paul, who preached this same gospel without strings aytached.?

Efemena_xy:

You deserve a e hi-5 for this! Couldn't have put it any better.

In summary, it's all about forced servitude and making gullible weak people cower before them. I will never call such people mummy or daddy.

What arrant nonesense!

soul_glo:

Daddy who? For what? The idea of calling another man "daddy" besides the man who fathered and made the sacrifices he made for me is beyond what I can imagine. Especially when they feel they can impose it on you. I even it find disrespectful to my father. Who the hell is he to want to be called "daddy" by someone who just happens to go to the church he pastors. If someone over time forms a bond with this man and sees him as a father figure then he or she can choose on their own to refer to the person as daddy. The humility part of the scriptures just fly over these so called Christian's head. Typical Nigerian mentality. Lets just give people rewards that they did not earn. People are not appointing themselves as daddies and mommies to other people LOL. Ridiculous.

Efemena_xy:

You deserve a e hi-5 for this! Couldn't have put it any better.

In summary, it's all about forced servitude and making gullible weak people cower before them. I will never call such people mummy or daddy.
What arrant nonesense!