A man is expected to fend for himself and his family, but circumstances may force a man to consider doing away with the norm. For instance, in some cultures, it is considered wrong for a man to live in a house built by his in-laws. However, some people think it is not a big deal; besides, circumstances may require in-laws to lend a helping hand to their daughter’s family.
What is you take or opinion on this. Is it right for a man to live in a house built by his in-laws?

his wife and children can... BT himself abomicountry ni o... he should look 4 a friend to stay with

It is totaly rubish n nonsense 4 a guy doin d@, though I av a broda doin it bt bcoz of d@, I jus av 2 disown him jus 4 d@ crazy doin. My gues is mayb hez bin charm

unuane1: A man is expected to fend for himself and his family, but circumstances may force a man to consider doing away with the norm. For instance, in some cultures, it is considered wrong for a man to live in a house built by his in-laws. However, some people think it is not a big deal; besides, circumstances may require in-laws to lend a helping hand to their daughter’s family.
What is you take or opinion on this. Is it right for a man to live in a house built by his in-laws?

mtschew....why dont he open a Bank account with them also..its better the man sleeps in churches or under a bridge than to live in his inlaw house,its better for his wife and kids to live there alone

No!

A house built by his inlaw, like a tenant? Does he pay rent? If yes, nothing wrong. If No, I think it would just be a temporary arrangement till he gets back on his feet

unuane1: A man is expected to fend for himself and his family, but circumstances may force a man to consider doing away with the norm. For instance, in some cultures, it is considered wrong for a man to live in a house built by his in-laws. However, some people think it is not a big deal; besides, circumstances may require in-laws to lend a helping hand to their daughter’s family.
What is you take or opinion on this. Is it right for a man to live in a house built by his in-laws?

Same complex (compound) No
Different place Yes
You don't want your in-law in your business
If you live in the same complex all your business will be out there

No he should not!

Common with peeps from the SW.

Gboliwe: A house built by his inlaw, like a tenant? Does he pay rent? If yes, nothing wrong. If No, I think it would just be a temporary arrangement till he gets back on his feet

I second

I pity dat man
D wife go turn nokia phone reminder

no!no !no !!!!!!!!!disaster in d making!! especially in a country like naija Dats extremely religious n superstitious n intolerant!! dat couple wil jst die of frustration!! ps: deres ntin wrong wit it...but in Nigeria it iss !!!

To me I don't see anything wrong in it but since we Africans had seen it as a crime, every man should strive n build his home rather than leaving in his in-laws house; so many fins r involved

in yorubaland,such man if he dies in the house,wont be taken through the door,but the window,cos it is assume only a lazy man dies in his inlaw's house..its a custom used to discourage any form of lazziness on the man's part.
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See kweshion o. Y ever not?

U will forever be under the authority of ur in-law


Welcome to nigerian

Lol! Are you for real?

Yomieluv: in yorubaland,such man if he dies in the house,wont be taken through the door,but the window,cos it is assume only a lazy man dies in his inlaw's house.
Have i answered your question?

Yes of course, there's nothing there. .

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Syenite: Common with peeps from the SW.

Like ur father did abi Arindin

It is not wrong cos there is need for it.Is lyk is only de man go live for d house?D wife n kids r also living in d house

amazing2013: Lol! Are you for real?

True talk. Its called tradition.

Syenite:

Common with peeps from the SW.

Wetin this one dey talk?

is it also good for a man to marry and give birth to all his children in his fathers HOUSE. staying with his parents?

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NO!!!

In my opinion a man should not live in any house in the first place.

REAL MEN live in the BUSH.

Yomieluv: in yorubaland,such man if he dies in the house,wont be taken through the door,but the window,cos it is assume only a lazy man dies in his inlaw's house.
Have i answered your question?

Syenite: Common with peeps from the SW.

For any man that allows that,'oti di gbewu dani' and every soon,he will be put to shame.

Yomieluv: in yorubaland,such man if he dies in the house,wont be taken through the door,but the window,cos it is assume only a lazy man dies in his inlaw's house.
Have i answered your question?

Pagan 9ja..... Is always meaningless in its post

Hell NO ... A man should never live in he's in laws house...he's wife n kids yes but him no...if he doesn't want his business to be their business and they will be lookin down on him like nobody...