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Re: . by Abali1(m): 4:58am On Dec 28, 2013 |
flying dutchman: Please Op get in touch with me ASAP!!! I feel you. I have made an extensive research on the ISSUE. My information is free and should be spread around for everyone to see. There are three main methods of not having an SS child- (1) \when you are pregnant, there is a thing as PRENATAL GENOTYPE TEST-- It enables you to determine the genotype of the child you're carrying. ALTHOUGH, I DON'T SUBSCRIBE TO ABORTING IT, but its an option.Of course you don't subscribe to aborting it, but really what are other options are left for the couple if not either aborting the foetus or having a SS? Oga some of has actually done our research also. If Prenatal Genotype Testing was the escape route, will we all be here asking the Op not to go ahead with 'happiness'? flying dutchman:Again, you fail to mention that this method is not 100% accurate. Also I noticed that you didn't bother the cost implication of going to INDIA or GREECE anytime the couples have a need to have a baby. Or, you think that if this method were the best AS/AS intending couples will be frowned upon by many including some churches? NB You never stated the third method. 1 Like |
Re: . by Nobody: 5:59am On Dec 28, 2013 |
IVF/PGD Cost a fortune :Aprox $7000 / procedure. |
Re: . by Nobody: 10:33am On Dec 28, 2013 |
Now playing 'Money money money - ABBA' |
Re: . by flyingdutchman(m): 3:16pm On Dec 28, 2013 |
look, we are here to help. If you're going to shoot down every idea, then u don't have the OP's interest at heart. DO YOU HAVE A BETTER IDEA? If they can afford $7,000 why not go for it. ALL U PEOPLE HAVE BEEN OFFERING IS ADVICE OF BREAKING UP. THEY HAVE A RIGHT TO STICK TOGETHER. ITS THERE LIFE. With $8,000 they can turn it into a sort of honeymoon retreat while undergoing the procedure. Why are yo'all so sure that they can't afford it ![]() 1 Like |
Re: . by EfemenaXY: 3:23pm On Dec 28, 2013 |
^^ Ever heard the saying: Prevention is better than cure? Why spend money seeking the cure to an ailment when you can prevent it from happening in the first place? 1 Like |
Re: . by baralatie(m): 3:49pm On Dec 28, 2013 |
@dutchman! Imagine the op has money like dangote.do u tink it is enouf to buy him sleep if the child has to battle for life wen 'crises' start. Anytim u see a grown person above 30yrs.wen they tel u dat u cannot understand what their eye saw.just take it like that. Beta safe than sorry! |
Re: . by Abali1(m): 7:05pm On Dec 28, 2013 |
flying dutchman: Abali1:*********************** Abali1:. . NB The above was my first and second posts on this thread. Like the second post stated "I think and believe its high time some people educate themselves from either learning from others or allowed to have the experience themselves". Talk is cheap. Op, you now have enough view points to make a decision. Do what you think best. But, you are solely responsible for any action you take. 1 Like |
Re: . by flyingdutchman(m): 3:31am On Dec 29, 2013 |
If the OP have the means of doing the procedure, by all means, allow them to. Its their money, not yours. How many of you have been in that situation before ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: . by Nobody: 7:03am On Dec 29, 2013 |
flying dutchman: If the OP have the means of doing the procedure, by all means, allow them to. Its their money, not yours. How many of you have been in that situation before No need generalising Sir because some people have posted the possibility of other options. Go through the thread if you can spare some time. One more thing, I've observed some AS couples make less SS offspring than others. I see a research topic here ![]() 1 Like |
Re: . by baralatie(m): 7:16am On Dec 29, 2013 |
Abali is right. TALK IS CHEAP! |
Re: . by Rubyrose: 1:47am On Dec 30, 2013 |
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Re: . by born2lead01: 2:34pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
@OP,i have seen pastors and their wives weep,i have seen wives cursed their husbands when the stress of caring for SS kids became unbearable. Love can take you to the alter and get you that golden or diamond ring but is not enough to sustain you thru when the trial comes. The National Sickle cell centre in Lagos runs a test on foetus and it's above 200k to determine the genotype of the child invitro. Also,Nigerian teaching hospitals are now doing bone marrow transplants which cost like #5million in University of Benin Teaching Hospital. You really need to weigh your options from having to cough out 200k while you're pregnant just to determine the genotype with the associated pain of needle insertion into your opening to having to part with #5million in the name of bone marrow transplant which may fail. If you can endure the pain and do the "needful" and you think your love for both can see you thru despite having to cough out a fortune-(maybe/maybe not) then go ahead and walk with him to the alter but if not; please use Usian Bolt style. But i must warn you not to be blinded by love and hide under religion and bring avoidable suffering to your unborn children. My two cent. |
Re: . by Oluwajobalayemi: 10:55am On Jan 03, 2014 |
Do not be decieved by the formula's or ratio or probability of 1 in 4 would be SS or other stuff. Someone I know has 4 I repeat FOUR 4 SS children. Now the husband has left her and remarried. The ball is in your court you would be the one to suffer the consequences if you have a child who is SS or children sef having 1 SS child is not fun at all and if you are lucky you dont have any SS child you would be the one to enjoy your home so make your decision on your own. |
Re: . by Nobody: 11:45am On Aug 25, 2014 |
Kindly follow back rubyrose |
Re: . by Rubyrose: 12:28pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
Follow back to where ![]() |
Re: . by Nobody: 12:29pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
As in follow back on nairaland Rubyrose: Follow back to where |
Re: . by moski5(m): 12:38pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
just curious how did it go with yu guys did yu brave it out? |
Re: . by Estimable(m): 10:17pm On Oct 25, 2016 |
Rubyrose:Rubyrose, longest time how r u doing? |
Re: . by Rubyrose: 10:14am On Oct 27, 2016 |
🥳🥳🥳 4 Likes |
Re: . by Rubyrose: 10:16am On Oct 27, 2016 |
Estimable: I'm doing great dearie. How about you? |
Re: . by Estimable(m): 10:59am On Oct 27, 2016 |
Rubyrose:I'm fine, thanks 1 Like |
Re: . by sisisioge: 11:20am On Oct 27, 2016 |
I love happy endings @OP. 1 Like |
Re: . by LoveJesus87(m): 1:33pm On Jan 19, 2017 |
Rubyrose:Hello dear ![]() |
Re: . by Rubyrose: 3:03pm On Jan 19, 2017 |
LoveJesus87:Hi |
Re: . by LoveJesus87(m): 3:07pm On Jan 19, 2017 |
Re: . by Rubyrose: 3:17pm On Jan 19, 2017 |
Alright. Please go ahead... |
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