This idea that love doesn't hurt is off. You can't love someone perfectly as an imperfect being if you're being realistic. Even the best husband and wife in the world can point out things in their spouse they do not yet love and can find things that their mate have done to them that hurt them. Many people give up on serious relationships and marriages because of this idea. We want to be loved perfectly but ourselves we can't love anyone perfectly. Till death tear us apart nowadays is till you hurt me and I can't stand you anymore. We say a perfect love story comes with no pain yet us and God have the perfect love story and we break his heart countless times. He is the perfect image of love, look how many times he endure through anything for us and love us pass our worst. That's perfect love. Merry Christmas Everyone

A Professor was teaching about Proverbs
15:1. He asked his students, 'why do we
shout in anger? Why do people shout at each
other when they are upset?' The students
thought for awhile. One said, because we
lose our calm. But why shout when the other
person is just next to you,' asked the
professor? Isn't it possible to speak to him
or her with a soft voice? Why do you shout
at a person when you are angry? The
students gave some answers but none
satisfied the Professor. Finally he explained,
'when two people are angry at each other,
there is a distance in their hearts
psychologically. To cover the distance, they
must shout to be able to hear each other.
The angrier they are,the stronger they will
shout to hear each other through that great
distance. Then the Professor asked, 'What
happens when two people fall in love? They
don't shout at each other but talk softly.
Why?Because their hearts are psychologically
close. The distance between them is very
close. The Professor continued, 'When they
love each other even more, what happens?
They don't speak, only whisper and they
even get closer to each other in their love.
Finally they even need not whisper, they only
look at each other and that's all.....So next
time you shout on a loved one, know that
you are creating distance between your
heart and that person’s heart. Proverbs 15:1
says a gentle answer turns away wrath, but
a harsh word stirs up anger.

Humans are incapable of perfect love.