vickyO: Nice post @ op


Abstinence is still the best form of playing safe.
Jeez, I rather abstain than bother myself with all these control methods, what if I forget to use it? what if the mood gets so intense and we lose control?
Any thing can happen when you're having sex. And the fact that it is done premaritally makes it a more delicate situation.


And as for the gullible 15 year olds, theirs is more like a sorry case.
How can a 30 year old man ask you for sex and you go ahead?

Any ways, I believe upbringing differs and exposure matters.

Just abstain from sex and you'll have no cause to worry about STDs.

idakwojimathias: Girls beware of pre- marital sex. It is a journey that one will embark
without going back because of the pleasure in it. always be in prayer
with your partner. May God help us

quivah:
Yes true!... more "kind of" girls..

They know themselves..

rigarmortis: yes OP...abortion is a proof of love.

if a girl loves a guy and "mistakenly" got preggy for the same guy....

if the guy is not ready to settle down...due to some reasons.......(working on a project that requires full attention, masters degree, has not built his house etc,) then the girl should be able to prove her love and abort the foetus before it becomes a baby.

yes.....its a proof of love.

Adaeze003:

I guess girls brought such coments upon themselves. SMH. This is why I encourage girls to learn to be independent! May no guy ever talk about me like this!

Adaeze003:

We're trying to see that that 'mistake' does not happen in the first place. 2ndly, after prooving her love how do you repay her? By dumping her behind when its time for marriage rii? SMH

Adaeze003:

We're trying to see that that 'mistake' does not happen in the first place. 2ndly, after prooving her love how do you repay her? By dumping her behind when its time for marriage rii? SMH

Adaeze003:
I guess girls brought such coments upon themselves. SMH. This is why I encourage girls to learn to be independent! May no guy ever talk about me like this!

Adaeze003:

We're trying to see that that 'mistake' does not happen in the first place. 2ndly, after prooving her love how do you repay her? By dumping her behind when its time for marriage rii? SMH

lomaxx:

Nobody forced her to prove "her love". It was her choice.

So if he decide to 'wife' someone else, he's making his choice too. He doesn't need to be forced/compelled.

Anyone who doesn't like the terms is free to walk.

rigarmortis:

why all this victim mentality by girls nowadays.

he takes care of bills and stuff.

you fall in love.

you both do "it"

infact it is scientifically proven that you enjoy it more.

he takes you out again.

and you "take in"

and you want him to "take you as you are"....even though you know he is not ready.


puh-lease......park well

there is no mad person on the streets on moscow

Adaeze003:

Hope girls can see this! We need to wise up and take responsibility for our bodies! Your body is yours until you're married so take care of it and do what is best for YOU. Yep, be selfish! Guys don't care even if you die in the process.

rigarmortis:

why all this victim mentality by girls nowadays.

he takes care of bills and stuff.

you fall in love.

you both do "it"

infact it is scientifically proven that you enjoy it more.

he takes you out again.

and you "take in"

and you want him to "take you as you are"....even though you know he is not ready.


puh-lease......park well

there is no mad person on the streets on moscow

rigarmortis:

why all this victim mentality by girls nowadays.

he takes care of bills and stuff.

you fall in love.

you both do "it"

infact it is scientifically proven that you enjoy it more.

he takes you out again.

and you "take in"

and you want him to "take you as you are"....even though you know he is not ready.


puh-lease......park well

there is no mad person on the streets on moscow

Adaeze003:

Hope girls can see this! We need to wise up and take responsibility for our bodies! Your body is yours until you're married so take care of it and do what is best for YOU. Yep, be selfish! Guys don't care even if you die in the process.

Sunshine lady: . Am tellin u, guys/men are naturally heartless, am sori to say. Dey just want pleasure(Xcept dose led by God). Ladies shuld real undastand dis, don't hav sex to 'show him love' or appreciate him. Dere are oda ways to show geniuine lov, if he doesn't want dose den its not real love. Se x and love hav no connection except in marriage. U can love witout sex & u can hav sex witout love

Hahahahahaaaaa...



How is your love life my dear and what kind of animals have you been dating?!

I was so touched by your post I actually cried..

rigarmortis:

why all this victim mentality by girls nowadays.

he takes care of bills and stuff.

you fall in love.

you both do "it"

infact it is scientifically proven that you enjoy it more.

he takes you out again.

and you "take in"

and you want him to "take you as you are"....even though you know he is not ready.


puh-lease......park well

there is no mad person on the streets on moscow

Chomzy19: Me I tire for girls that still get pregnant oon with all d known and available contraceptives, wit d Rich available info on dis particular course. I mean even if you forgot to use a condom n u re not into contraceptives cos of d long term effects what of taking d readily Available POSTINOR 2 after d Act, or d Age long method of taking salty water immediately after the Act to decapitate any present sperm... Seriously I just tire for some girls, anybody who gets preggers is just plain careless n abortion is Evil and sheer wickedness against innocent Babies, I'm sure u wouldn't kill yourself or Mother for him buh you will readily kill your innocent Baby 'For Love' mtcheeeeeWwww

If you no see your period after 2 months, That na Goba.. meaning you don buy fake drugs be that.. Better go see your nearest chemist for Abortion.

Adaeze003:

I get your point but that's the kind of society we have. Sometimes I also wonder why girls make wrong choices. What I'm trying to do is to get rid of the 'use and dump' mentality. Truth is, the girls that cry actually allow themselves to be used.

But what of cases where a girl is an a long term relationship with a guy and he claims to love her? How is she to know that the guy is gon dump her after all is said and done?

bfmconcepts: girls are indirectly demanding for sex when they demand for money from a guy.
don't demand money from a guy and he won't demand sex from you

Chomzy19: Total RUbbish!!! A guy will demand sex from a gir he just met today who hasn't even told him of anything money related... Anybody can demand for what they want from anybody, d Demandee has the power to say YES OR NO to d demandor... You can get me an Iphone 5 n I'll refuse to have sex wit you, its not trade by barter... If you want prostitutes pick them up on d streets