Probably ur frnd has overblown her feelins, makin it so obvious 4 d guy to notice dat is y it is takin him a longa tym to approach urfrnd. She shud tak it easy if d guy truly is interestd too fate will bring dem togeda. Abi na u sef, no offence

If she wants to fold her arms and wait for d guy to approach her first den she must be sleepin on a movin bicycle.... Dat someone is destined for you does nt mean he wld be the one to approach you first.... Its obvious the guy is a shy type, so I guess d ryt tin to do is jst for her to take the bull by the horn and talk to him stylishly... E.g, wen the guy is on a good outfit, she myt start wit, I love ur outfit, its really nice or I love the smell of ur pef..... Dats is enough to get into talkin terms.... I hope this helps

Find a way to sit next to him in church and start a bible conversation or comment on something the pastor said ! Then try hard to laugh at his dry jokes ! Guys love girls that laugh at their jokes !