mine was like that of Peter of p-square,age difference is as wide as the pitch.nevertheless, it was a factor but due to less competiveness,I was an overcomer.
I don't know there are the like of me out there who were successful in that kind of relationship but it was challenging because it was obvious to the public anytime we do outing.
if u had wore the same shoe with me,how was ur experience like?

I felt just the same way I would feel if I was dating my age mate.

Vessi: I felt just the same way I would feel if I was dating my age mate.

often there are times when ur partner occasionally reminds u of the age difference & coping with ur friends view & critics ain't easy.
have u ever being in DAT shoe b4?

Mine is a year difference and I've never had issues with it. She sometimes reminds me of it (though jocularly)

Its an experience I'd like to have

sakaguchi: Mine is a year difference and I've never had issues with it. She sometimes reminds me of it (though jocularly)

bro,I am referring to a relationship where the female is Older than the Male at least 4years.
mine was 8 yrs.

bknight: Its an experience I'd like to have

why would u wish for that?
although the chemistry of love is no respecter of person and Age,it just happen!

if u are a lady who has being in that kind of relationship whereby u r much older than ur guy,kindly share ur experience, probably the advantages and disadvantages of such relationship when compared to a "Regular relationship".

Also,does a person's age synonymous to being responsible in a relationship?

Mine was 6years gap...she wasnt rich but she was not asking me for thousands and millions just recharge card money...she even helped me complete my house rent in 2009 during my IT.
She had a BF but she just loved me for being too close.
Infact she is one of the most wonderful people i have ever met...we are still the best of friends now but s3x is outta of it.

#very caring damsel she was

Buddah Monk: Mine was 6years gap...she wasnt rich but she was not asking me for thousands and millions just recharge card money...she even helped me complete my house rent in 2009 during my IT.
She had a BF but she just loved me for being too close.
Infact she is one of the most wonderful people i have ever met...we are still the best of friends now but s3x is outta of it.

#very caring damsel she was

U were the Attention she seek when her man wasnt around.
that was ur advantage!

Buddah Monk: Mine was 6years gap...she wasnt rich but she was not asking me for thousands and millions just recharge card money...she even helped me complete my house rent in 2009 during my IT.
She had a BF but she just loved me for being too close.
Infact she is one of the most wonderful people i have ever met...we are still the best of friends now but s3x is outta of it.

#very caring damsel she was

U were the Attention she seek when her man was Far
that was ur advantage!

Hmmm guys gone wild, comment reserved!

Ola def2: Hmmm guys gone wild, comment reserved!

I disagree

Mine was 3 years older. She never knew sha. The relationship went on fine but later hit an iceberg few months later due to my own urges.

Next best thing since slice bread.

oselenkejoor: Mine was 3 years older. She never knew sha. The relationship went on fine but later hit an iceberg few months later due to my own urges.

what kind of urges were u referring to?
also is it appropriate to tell lie about ones actual age to his/her partner?

Tyche: Next best thing since slice bread.

is this parable,idiom or proverb?

Matured ladies to me are the best in any relationships.. Let's demands and more understndings...

I hate wasting my time; energy; and resources with taata childish younger ladies

the funny thing about my life is that all my relationship is usually with older ladies.
perhaps in the future I might get married to such

buJu-234:
Matured ladies to me are the best in any relationships.. Let's demands and more understndings...

I hate wasting my time; energy; and resources with taata childish younger ladies

seconded