Aggrippa: you can say that again....lol at bolded, so true, some peeps are artisists when it come to these activities! all manner of bedacrobactics

Its not funny but a very serious matter. A lot of men have led promiscuous lives, before marriage and have slept with all manner of ashawos and runz girls hence they expect their wives to act like porn stars. If such men become Christians I strongly recommend that they go for a thorough deliverance BEFORE marriage so as too keep the matrimonial bed undefiled.

@babaGnoni, tensor and D'Governor a.k.a agrippa. Hmmm, what else can i say, you guys hv made up ur minds and ntn can change that anyway i dnt expect anytin 2 do so afteral its nt wrng neither is it a sin what you are saying. And one prayer i blv u shld pray even as u remain resolute is "lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil". And one scripture that you must put to mind always shld b "judge not so that you would not be judged, for whatever measure you use shall be you for you" i paraphrased it thus; 'dnt set the bar so high for people so that you wnt fal short when its your turn and people can reason with you because the rules you set for others wil b used to judge you'.
Now lastly on this note, please i beseech you with the mercies of God.

1. Search the scriptures deligently until truth has been revealed to you, just like the Berean Church dnt always folow M. O. Gs or tradiction, the later put d pharisees as hypocrites and un reachable by the word of God.

2. Please, love the brethren for your own sake, ur stand is ur stand you dnt see it on people's face the kind of sex dy have. I realy wished dr was a letter by Jesus or D Apostles concernin sex and unfortunately the african church shy away from it. Dnt carry a wrng heart thnkin u r ryt. Infact Jesus said i cme 2 cal sinners 2 repentance nt d 'healthy'.

3. Put ursef in Christ shoe, what would he do if he was the one and how would he react to married people that are not stickn 2 d normal way and are adventurous. He would stil love them. So if u hate the anybody cos of this, is goin 2 hell usin nigeria railway system it myt b slow but u wl get dr. God 4bid 4 u guys.

Finally, Rom 14:1-16 infact to the end i wish i culd type al here but jst a verse. Verse 3: "Let not him that eateth despise him that eateth not, and let not him whch eateth not judge him that eateth: FOR GOD HATH RECIEVED HIM." God bles you.

(sorry if the writeup wasn't organised well kind of busy)

Permit me to act like Apostle Paul who gave his credential in 2 Corinthians, Galatians and Ephesian.
I'm Ebenezer, never had any form of sex, never kissed a lady, don't masturbate nor watch porn, don't fancy most of the sexual 'technical-know how'. Baptised of water and the Holy Ghost runing into the 6th or 7th year, a teacher of the word, best student of WOFBI, respected and honour what al kinds of pastorial names e.t.c mehn my own won pas Paul own sef. Lol, jst kiddin. I dnt write this 2 boast cos i am what i am only by the grace of God. I had oportunities 2 b bad but God gav me grace so dnt think it because am in2 mouthaction that's why am suporting. I jst choose 2 stand 4 d truth that i knw.

Cme sef, why is it that its only guys that are talkin since the subjected, opresed and dominated gender, that is even suferin this things are not talkin. To my Boss thats talkin abt wife been toy or rag, go and ax aw many ladies want to b pastor's wife? Go n do mariage counseling and see which of the partner is suferin sexualy d most? Men are mst tyms insensitve whether she s in d mood or nt, on her period or nt, pregnant or nt u just want 2 do. Haba dog bite una? Whereas Scriptures are not folowed. 1 corin. 7:3-5. And we are claimin one nonsense head. Mtchew.

Cme sef, why is it that its only guys that are talkin since the subjected, opresed and dominated gender, that is even suferin this things are not talkin. To my Boss thats talkin abt wife been toy or rag, go and ax aw many ladies want to b pastor's wife? Go n do mariage counseling and see which of the partner is suferin sexualy d most? Men are mst tyms insensitve whether she s in d mood or nt, on her period or nt, pregnant or nt u just want 2 do. Haba dog bite una? Whereas Scriptures are not folowed. 1 corin. 7:3-5. And we are claimin one nonsense head. Mtchew. If only they will 2 a large extent treat each other as equal, and if only d woman can speak and make d decisions as partain s'e'x, mehn u go shork

Adeebiwa09:

i believe you are not married yet when you are, you will know the truth.

God forbid, there are issues that are dangerous to ones marriage, for example, weak erection, quick ejaculation, low sperm count, longevity, different sexual appetite, heavenly feeling, pleasuring your partner, fore play e.t.c.

When all these comes to your mind you will see a need to do what God has given you access to do provided u agree.

I wish to explain further but this is the best i can do for now

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sD6kcfsGLJg

That's All I'm Giving Yah
admit, it is because your body's tired, your body's changing
you're weak and weary, you're getting old,
you can't do it like you used to, your shit is fast etcetera etcetera
- Bernie Mac RIP