Many women believe that we don't care for that because some guys go for the easy chicks anyway. As a man who have gone for the easy chicks a few times in my lifetime I say it's not true that men don't appreciate it. A woman who walks in confidence and self respect challenges us, some of us don't like the challenge but the mature men will accept the challenge and better their standards. Don't settle ladies, don't downgrade. Compromising doesn't help you or that grown boy of yours. If you've compromised your worth and fell short, get back up and pick the crown..