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Re: Yes! I Told Him Openly That I Like It by JANK23H(m): 7:50pm On Jan 10, 2014
Aphrodite4:

For u guys judging about how she's born again but likes to "Do it".. My question to you is this - should one's faith diminish one's normal sexu@l desires? Isn't the purpose of faith be to make one get satisfied legitimately on a matrimonial bed? She admitted to liking s.ex albeit to a guy she's dating.. Is it your opinion that couples not talk about it because they're Christians?

Now I don't know what her intentions are but I'm just going with what the o.p shared..
Read properly,she said she likes it and want to do it.There is nothing wrong with liking it,afterall as humans we are sexual creatures bornagain or no bornagain,but to mention premarital sex and born again in the same sentence is absolutely hypocritical.

If she hadn't said she was born again I don't think she would have been attacked by almost everybody.

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Re: Yes! I Told Him Openly That I Like It by Emodeee: 7:51pm On Jan 10, 2014
oh she made front page....dats initially her AIM ......
Re: Yes! I Told Him Openly That I Like It by Polio: 7:54pm On Jan 10, 2014
KeleBaby: Hi Nlanders I have been dating my bf for six months now. We a very open couple, we talk about almost everything. I am a christian, infact i am born again. Before we started off with the relationship, i told him what i want from a man and i want a serious relationship and thats what he wants also. Through out the relationship he asked me if we are gona do it. Am a very honest person , so i told him yes and i like doing it. But its not like i bleep very guy that comes my way. Will i loose his respect for me after telling him that i like sex ?

Get that di..ck you little born again freak pot!

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Re: Yes! I Told Him Openly That I Like It by bamto(m): 7:56pm On Jan 10, 2014
You are either a confused naïve girl or an unrepentant attention seeker. You either don't know what it means to be born again or you were born of the CORRUPTIBLE seed. You need to go seek out Jesus before it is too late...Nairaland will bear me witness on the Last day that I gave you my two cents!
Re: Yes! I Told Him Openly That I Like It by Eberex(m): 8:01pm On Jan 10, 2014
I like your type. Open and blunt

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Re: Yes! I Told Him Openly That I Like It by andyanders: 8:02pm On Jan 10, 2014
KeleBaby:
and what has age got to do with this ?

Someone asked you a very intelligent question " How old are you" and you are asking what has age got to do with this.

You messed up telling a guy that you love sex so much and at the same time calling yourself a born again.

Listen, you are not a born again but a born against and maybe a nympho. How can you be contradicting yourself.

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Re: Yes! I Told Him Openly That I Like It by Waspy(m): 8:03pm On Jan 10, 2014
GustavoFring: This is the 21st century jor...

You can be born again AND having pre-marital sex...

If Jesus was around now, he would probably giving it to Mary Magdalene while cruising above Paris in his G-6 cool
undecided angry
Re: Yes! I Told Him Openly That I Like It by Nobody: 8:05pm On Jan 10, 2014
KeleBaby: Hi Nlanders I have been dating my bf for six months now. We a very open couple, we talk about almost everything. I am a christian, infact i am born again. Before we started off with the relationship, i told him what i want from a man and i want a serious relationship and thats what he wants also. Through out the relationship he asked me if we are gona do it. Am a very honest person , so i told him yes and i like doing it. But its not like i bleep very guy that comes my way. Will i loose his respect for me after telling him that i like sex ?

That will tighten d respect...60% of claimed born-agains are born-against.They fuwadu like mad and always quarrel if u didn't go to church or its vigils.I just tire, my new babe goes to church always and said her bf wants fuwadu more often.That is why she wants out.I asked d last time she had it with him-last month,she said.SHE STILL WANTS ME TO SEE HER AS A BORN-AGAIN OH.Funny huh!
Re: Yes! I Told Him Openly That I Like It by windowxp: 8:07pm On Jan 10, 2014
permit me to point this out to you and others reading

1. Admitting to like sex is never bad because everybody likes sex, nobody hates sex, that is how God made the flesh. So for every couple who abstains from it until their wedding night only inculcated the fear of God into the relationship, they never hated it.

2. from your statement sadBut its not like i bleep very guy that comes my way) it shows you do or have gone in with some.

3. been born again simply means living the Christ kind of life and teachings. because it a different thing to be born again who sometimes falls into temptation and one who craves for lust of flesh.

Advice: you either position yourself as a born again you claimed because nobody has the power to judge you or you either start seeing yourself has born against (Matt 12:30, mark 9:38-40) so that you'll know the point to start seeking salvation.

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Re: Yes! I Told Him Openly That I Like It by chikis(m): 8:08pm On Jan 10, 2014
KeleBaby: No, he will not have it like food.
You no serious self!
Re: Yes! I Told Him Openly That I Like It by Aphrodite4(f): 8:09pm On Jan 10, 2014
JANK23H:
Read properly,she said she likes it and want to do it.There is nothing wrong with liking it,afterall as humans we are sexual creatures bornagain or no bornagain,but to mention premarital sex and born again in the same sentence is absolutely hypocritical.

If she hadn't said she was born again I don't think she would have been attacked by almost everybody.

Just read it again.. I stand corrected..

Bad o.p! Bad o.p
Re: Yes! I Told Him Openly That I Like It by cr7lomo: 8:16pm On Jan 10, 2014
GustavoFring: This is the 21st century jor...

You can be born again AND having pre-marital sex...

If Jesus was around now, he would probably giving it to Mary Magdalene while cruising above Paris in his G-6 cool

Sorry, I don't get it. I hope it's not wot am thinking
Re: Yes! I Told Him Openly That I Like It by chikis(m): 8:17pm On Jan 10, 2014
KeleBaby: Ooh! Maybe i shouldnt have said am a born again. Ooh well, you can call me names for all i care i am not moved. I asked a simple question, i didnt ask for a sermon. Anyway i know what i am doing and i know what i want out of this relationship.
What do you want out of the relationship? Marriage or enjoyment for fvuuking things?
Re: Yes! I Told Him Openly That I Like It by babyray(f): 8:20pm On Jan 10, 2014
GustavoFring: This is the 21st century jor...

You can be born again AND having pre-marital sex...

If Jesus was around now, he would probably giving it to Mary Magdalene while cruising above Paris in his G-6 cool
may God forgive u smh for u
Re: Yes! I Told Him Openly That I Like It by phemocheee(m): 8:21pm On Jan 10, 2014
R.I.P English cheesy
Danhumprey: If there is anybody you should have directed this statement you made "self righteous b.itch",it shouldn't have been Zeemoore. What did she said to warrant that from you?undecided
Re: Yes! I Told Him Openly That I Like It by AmazingZeus(m): 8:22pm On Jan 10, 2014
Has op made her choice,can i contribute
Re: Yes! I Told Him Openly That I Like It by mojeer678: 8:25pm On Jan 10, 2014
adexsimply: I love this.."Born-again Christian" and "love Pre-marital sex" in the same sentence
God is great!!
grin grin grin

[b][/b]COZA!!!
Re: Yes! I Told Him Openly That I Like It by bunmit(m): 8:26pm On Jan 10, 2014
whats born-again turning to ds days, didnt d bible says bed must remain undefiled? God take preeminence oooooo
Re: Yes! I Told Him Openly That I Like It by burningspear(m): 8:30pm On Jan 10, 2014
don buchi: young lady, I find these statements of your contradictory: I am a christian, infact i am born again. Will i loose his respect for me after telling him that i like sex ?

BTW: How old are you guys?

Got me thinking also. How can a born-again christian be in such a sorry state like this OP? No wonder we have so many churches and less righteousness. An attempt to lower the standard of christian living! Verdict: The OP has never been born-again before.

So worrisome that what most of our youths talk about these days are sex, money and dance hall. No inventive minds anymore (except the likes of the rare innovative guy in the earlier post who was trying to construct a heli).
Re: Yes! I Told Him Openly That I Like It by burningspear(m): 8:40pm On Jan 10, 2014
KeleBaby: Ooh! Maybe i shouldnt have said am a born again. Ooh well, you can call me names for all i care[b] i am not moved[/b]. I asked a simple question, i didnt ask for a sermon. Anyway i know what i am doing and i know what i want out of this relationship.

When you know all these, why come here to ask?
Re: Yes! I Told Him Openly That I Like It by mabeni(m): 8:43pm On Jan 10, 2014
Who told u she has not done it before or he s a virgin ؟‎ go knak akpako sister, body no be stone. ‎
Re: Yes! I Told Him Openly That I Like It by Opengates(m): 8:45pm On Jan 10, 2014
KeleBaby: Ooh! Maybe i shouldnt have said am a born again. Ooh well, you can call me names for all i care i am not moved. I asked a simple question, i didnt ask for a sermon. Anyway i know what i am doing and i know what i want out of this relationship.

Unrepentant deceiver, you will soon discover that you are deceiving yourself and not ányone.

Black sheep of God's family. That is if you are even a born again in the first place!

I pity your type, better repent!
Re: Yes! I Told Him Openly That I Like It by ferociouz(m): 8:47pm On Jan 10, 2014
I marvel at the way people just throw the 'born-again' thing around as if it is like a new trend in fashion that they must be known for! For Pete's sake, isn't it ironic or rather nonsensical that you would want to do what your self-professed belief is unequivocally against?!

Guess you're just out of sorts!

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Re: Yes! I Told Him Openly That I Like It by Negation: 8:53pm On Jan 10, 2014
Chei!! See warfare on a ketro level. I love my Nl peeps... smiley

OP, tough question. If he's born again and he likes sex AND he's not a hypocrite, then you should be good. But if he's a learner and you start with some advanced 'moves' the guy might release in 20 seconds and start caling you a sinner to hide his embarrassment.

At the same time, these guys have a point; no one here is your mum or dad, but if you've decided to take that walk with Jesus....maybe you guys should wait till marriage. Good luck!

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Re: Yes! I Told Him Openly That I Like It by eniorisha(m): 8:54pm On Jan 10, 2014
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u con run away 4rm us abi? while u con visit d sin of d father over we his children by steer clear of ur tread o, i particularlly miss ur sisterlly contribution.
Re: Yes! I Told Him Openly That I Like It by Fostercat(m): 9:00pm On Jan 10, 2014
KeleBaby: Ooh! Maybe i shouldnt have said am a born again. Ooh well, you can call me names for all i care i am not moved. I asked a simple question, i didnt ask for a sermon. Anyway i know what i am doing and i know what i want out of this relationship.

No body is giving u sermon.na ur toto,use it as u care nd I know u have started fuckkking the guy!no qualms abt dat.it good to do it.enjoy while it last.But one thing I must tell u my dear sister,U are not a Christian,talk more of being born again. the mere thought abt it is a sin,talk more tellin ur partner nd even the general public.pls tell ur pastor too.and as some one said,make u get pregnant.

Ashewo No work!!!
Re: Yes! I Told Him Openly That I Like It by Sike(m): 9:01pm On Jan 10, 2014
zeb04: Christian?bornagain? Having sex?.....I just don't gerrit,mayb someone shld put me thru?
you're through already!
Re: Yes! I Told Him Openly That I Like It by teemy(m): 9:01pm On Jan 10, 2014
KeleBaby: Hi Nlanders I have been dating my bf for six months now. We a very open couple, we talk about almost everything. I am a christian, infact i am born again. Before we started off with the relationship, i told him what i want from a man and i want a serious relationship and thats what he wants also. Through out the relationship he asked me if we are gona do it. Am a very honest person , so i told him yes and i like doing it. But its not like i bleep very guy that comes my way. Will i loose his respect for me after telling him that i like sex ?

Thanks dear for being truthful to yourself of saying you like sex. A good number of christians are at one point of the other at boiling point for when they will explode and express themselves to the fullest.

However for everything there is a time and a place. In the Old Testament of the bible, the temple had various compartments for people to stay in during worship. The general populace stayed outside and in the open courtyard, the other priests and Levites allowed in the first sanctuary while the High Priest was the only one allowed into the Holy of Holies.


Heb 9:2 For there was a tabernacle prepared, the first, wherein were the candlestick, and the table, and the showbread; which is called the Holy place.
Heb 9:3 And after the second veil, the tabernacle which is called the Holy of holies;
Heb 9:7 but into the second the high priest alone, once in the year, not without blood, which he offereth for himself, and for the errors of the people:

Your body is a temple


2Co 6:16 And what agreement does a temple of God have with idols? For you are the temple of the living God, as God has said, "I will dwell in them and walk among them; and I will be their God, and they shall be My people."

In relationships, you have those that are aquaintances that fall in the "hello, hi" category. then comes the close friends and lastly the intimate one. Just as the High priest was the only one permitted into the Holy of Holies, it is also 'your' High priest who is the intimate one that should enter into your Holy of Holies. The High priest was not allowed by God to carry in any sin of any form or would be slain right there by divine judgement and similarly your high priest is not to carry any impurity or diseases into your H of H. This is mostly guaranteed if the high priest lives uprightly and avoids any form of defilement.

I understand what you going through but God's laws are God's laws and I am sure he does not bend it for anyone. Issiah puts God as saying "I talk say make you no worship idols, you no gree. Wahala come gas you dey call my name. Fa fa fa foul". Meaning you can't live in sin and expect grace to abound.

Apostle paul said


1Co 7:1 Now concerning what you wrote to me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.
1Co 7:2 But, because of the fornications, let each have his own wife, and let each have her own husband.
1Co 7:3 Let the husband give to the wife proper kindness, and likewise the wife also to the husband.
1Co 7:4 The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband. And likewise also the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife.
1Co 7:5 Do not deprive one another, unless it is with consent for a time, so that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer. And come together again so that Satan does not tempt you for your incontinence.
1Co 7:6 But I speak this according to permission, not according to commandment.
1Co 7:7 For I would that all men were even as I myself am. But each has his proper gift from God, one according to this manner and another according to that.
1Co 7:8 I say therefore to the unmarried and the widows, It is good for them if they remain even as I.
1Co 7:9 But if they do not have self-control, let them marry; for it is better to marry than to burn.

Plain and simple. Konji levels get married and do the do wella. Imagine telling your ceremoniusly ordained High Priest that you love sex. Would he lower his esteem for you or hearing that would turn him on aand make him thank his stars that all izz well. The right question for the right person. Abegi just make the wait even though things could be though if you have tasted before.

Managing the pressure

Avoid passionate moments or places (na from kiss e dey start), keep off porn, take cold showers if turned on, avoid idleness (channel your excess energy to getting plans done) and pray.

Be honest with yourself to undergo this therapy as if indeed you are a lover of God, you would desire to make him proud of you and your dealings.

P.S When the right time comes make sure you perform up to expectation and express yourself to the fullest. Cheers

Wishing you well my dear - Teemy

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Re: Yes! I Told Him Openly That I Like It by Riel99: 9:03pm On Jan 10, 2014
Kelebaby ,I lyk ur way. Na ur mind u talk . Anytin wey come, na only U go carry ur CROSS. Just as u say na christian u Be Now. Carry Go..................reach River Benue No b 4 Calvary oooh.
Re: Yes! I Told Him Openly That I Like It by felix281(m): 9:06pm On Jan 10, 2014
TR0UBLeMaKeR: for what??
maybe she wanna nak u akpako unto les way.. tongue
TR0UBLeMaKeR: for what??
maybe she wanna nak u akpako unto les way..
Re: Yes! I Told Him Openly That I Like It by Ukutsgp(m): 9:07pm On Jan 10, 2014
The born again spoilt everything. U shud hv waited till u get married. Ok.
Re: Yes! I Told Him Openly That I Like It by Joshthefirst(m): 9:10pm On Jan 10, 2014
A born-again christian enjoys commiting fornication?
Mogbe.
People don't know who God is.


Op. You don't know what born-again is. It means saved from sin. You can't be saved from sin and still enjoy living with it. You're not born-again, or there's no such thing as christianity, its just a fortitude of the mind. I don't think so.

Op, you need to be born again.

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