what will you do if you find out that your spouse have another childen out side after thirty(30) years of marriage.

its a very hard call to make, but she has to go.
no compromise about such matters, but first carry ur own personal kids and go for dna testing.
they might also not be urss.

30 years and you had no clue that the children existed at all?
or have they always been introduced to you as someone other than your husbands/ wife's children?

I'm a bit confused here.

or have you all been living in separate countries?

AMAKAONE:

30 years and you had no clue that the children existed at all?
or have they always been introduced to you as someone other than your husbands/ wife's children?

I'm a bit confused here.

or have you all been living in separate countries

Well if the man is a business man who constantly travels out,
his oda family might b in some oda states where he travels 2 to get " goods".
Many women have actually found out afta many yrs of marriage that they are not their husbands only wife 

@ Topic

i will definately file for divorce,
there iz no way i am stayin afta he has disrespected, me n ma kids
( if we have any) 4 that long

after 30 years, where are u divorcing to.

well, ill probably run mad, leave the house for a while to cool down.

30 years no be joke o. forgive and live with him. its not like he has another family somewhere else.

i totally agree with deept,though it wont be easy,just forgive and move on.