Popular Lagos pastor, Tony Rapu of the
Present House Church Lagos, took to his
Twitter account to give profound advise to
married men. It's a must read! See more
messages after the cut...

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Hear hear

Hehehe... the married ladies are sure gonna love this

Nice

What about the powerful messages for married women?

feedthenation: What about the powerful messages for married women?

...just the one; "summit' to ya oga"


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feedthenation: What about the powerful messages for married women?

I would be surprised if he (the pastor) comes up with one for women.
Most of these new generation pastors are very woman-friendly, no offence meant but they like women no be small.

I can just imagine ladies chanting 'ride on pastor' from the audience when he preaches.

Now this is a real man talking.

Not the rofo rofos parading everywhere these days.
Dem no go even read am, ba to carry nose up dem sabi.

Let he who has ears,..

And these are some of the comments I read from differents blogs since the message was sent out.

guess there'll be a Part 2 of this - for married women. Cos the worst thing a man can do is marry the wrong woman. Even if u do all these things Rapu has said and more, she will still push u to the edge of insanity. A man's tendency to do all these things is to an extent, a function of his wife and the environment she's created in the home.

Most men will read these and assume he is writing in Swahili. Men, the best way to enjoy your home is to treat your wife as you would your best friend. You may fight, quarrel or exchange angry words but it dose remove from the fact that you don't only love her, you actually like her- bad habits and all. Don't be her boss, be her friend.

the truth is it doesn't cost you anything to do all this u will feel more at peace in doing all the problem with our men is pride if I do all that she will not respect me,just try it u spend ur eternity together happy.

These are d type of pastors dat makes ladies tink these qualities are achievable. Let us be practical as pastors and tel women dat submission and tolerance plus d luv of God is d tonic needed to make a home work

Women never show u anything this man, hoes aint loyal, its always about them, u r always about her n she is always about hers, na wa o, so what happens to d guys r dey not suppose to listen to us too?

If you are surrounded by Nigerian men with no sense of direction, unforgiving and lack the holy spirit, lady, You need to change your location. If you are stuck with one, pray for him. No need to generalised

Ladies favourite shaa,i believe it has conditions. When u dont treat ur hubby well,pls dnt expect much.when u treat him like a king,u'll be treated like the queen. This is only for the good n Godly wife,no be agbero wife.

Very funny responses,and I know Nairaland will not deceive me.

Waiting patiently

Chillisauce: Now this is a real man talking.

Not the rofo rofos parading everywhere these days.
Dem no go even read am, ba to carry nose up dem sabi.

Let he who has ears,..

Show it to your own husband, let him read it and learn from it.
You should not be concerned what the 'rofo rofos' will do or say in response to the tweets...they're not the ones you married.

crackhaus:
Show it to your own husband, let him read it and learn from it.
You should not be concerned what the 'rofo rofos' will do or say in response to the tweets...they're not the ones you married.

Stop calling my husband . He is not your mate. Learn to stick to the topic or talk to me if you have any problem . Now what is your problem? are you one of the rofo rofo?

That's all we hear.
At least let the men be addressed for once.

feedthenation: What about the powerful messages for married women?

I'm sure he must have been preaching to the women for long.
All the pastors do.
Everyone has 15 rules for women to be good wives

Nobody ever has one for guys who want to be good husbands
Everyone remembers wives should submit
No one remembers that husbands should HONOR their wives.

You see?

crackhaus:
I would be surprised if he (the pastor) comes up with one for women.
Most of these new generation pastors are very woman-friendly, no offence meant but they like women no be small.

I can just imagine ladies chanting 'ride on pastor' from the audience when he preaches.

feedthenation: What about the powerful messages for married women?

What do you want them to hear that they have not heard all their lives

@Tony Rapu, keep the good work going. We have too many over trained women with clueless/untrained men

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edwife: And these are some of the comments I read from differents blogs since the message was sent out.

Very funny responses,and I know Nairaland will not deceive me.

Waiting patiently

Extremely funny

Some wise men will read quietly and learn from it

bukatyne:

Extremely funny

Some wise men will read quietly and learn from it

I tell you

edwife:

I tell you

I went to one bookstore and saw a book "The Proverbs 31 man" and I was like really?

The author was trying to explain that only the Proverbs 31 man can bring out the Proverbs 31 woman

Most Nigerian Churches are very very guilty of teaching only women like they are living with ghosts. Women convention; women conference; Women seminar etc. with teaching the men and they are wondering why their marriages are same old same old

Chillisauce:

Stop calling my husband . He is not your mate. Learn to stick to the topic or talk to me if you have any problem . Now what is your problem? are you one of the rofo rofo?

Yet other people's husbands are ur mate and also rofo rofo while urs isn't. Bunch of egoistic and useless hypocrites called Nigerians. Everybody else is a devil while we and ours are saints.

bukatyne:

I went to one bookstore and saw a book "The Proverbs 31 man" and I was like really?

The author was trying to explain that only the Proverbs 31 man can bring out the Proverbs 31 woman

Most Nigerian Churches are very very guilty of teaching only women like they are living with ghosts. Women convention; women conference; Women seminar etc. with teaching the men and they are wondering why their marriages are same old same old

That is what is needed in today society,the church as well as parents need to teach both women and men about marriage.They both have the same contribution to make in order to have a successful union.

It is simple,give and receive.

Any man who has to depend on others to tell him before he knows and practices the biblical standard of marriage which essentially states love your neighbour as yourself, will soon know what's up.

Good points...good men learn.
A woman will easily submit for the man who is willing to make that sacrifice for her.

Chillisauce:

Stop calling my husband . He is not your mate. Learn to stick to the topic or talk to me if you have any problem . Now what is your problem? are you one of the rofo rofo?

Why the irritation? And you want to teach me how to stick to topic, you of all monikers? woman you funny..

Well I do believe the purpose for my initial comment has been aptly served seeing the way it got to you

Cheers...

tpia1: Any man who has to depend on others to tell him before he knows and practices the biblical standard of marriage which essentially states love your neighbour as yourself, will soon know what's up.

sometimes people need to be taught.You know faith commeth by hearing.

Gaggi:

Yet other people's husbands are ur mate and also rofo rofo while urs isn't. Bunch of egoistic and useless hypocrites called Nigerians. Everybody else is a devil while we and ours are saints.

Where did this cockroach come out from?

Learn to speak when you are spoken to. Right now Go and sit down one place. When I have your time I come for you. Till then, wait in the gaddam line for your turn.

Fvcking rofo rofo.

crackhaus:
Why the irritation? And you want to teach me how to stick to topic, you of all monikers? woman you funny..

Well I do believe the purpose for my initial comment has been aptly served seeing the way it got to you

Cheers...

What the purpose again? You mind telling me.? I asked again, are you the rofo rofo?

Gaggi:

Yet other people's husbands are ur mate and also rofo rofo while urs isn't. Bunch of egoistic and useless hypocrites called Nigerians. Everybody else is a devil while we and ours are saints.

Do you know I was actually planning to go this route in my reply? I had typed something like this, but deleted it cos I believe that if she's intelligent, she would already get the point I was making...so there was no need to add spice to the already scented stew.