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Happy Sunday Folks , I wanted to introduce you to a
piece my brother wrote after his frustrations of dating
baby mamas . Please remember it ’ s just one man’ s
point of view of why he Avoids Dating Single Mothers
and does not reflect the views of NecoleBitchie. com or
Blogxilla . 13 Good Reasons are under the hood
1) Baby Damage – Birth has a traumatic effect on the
female form . Pregnancy leaves stretch marks, saggy
breasts, and c - section scars . I ’ ve also heard that the
nookie is even stretch out and it isn ’ t the same
anymore . Then there ’ s the weight gain. Most women
NEVER LOSE IT or they never get their former hot shape
back.

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2) “ I Can ’ t Find A Baby Sitter ” – Women will use this as
an excuse to get out of date with you or they may
legitimately can ’ t find a baby sitter . Either case it isn ’ t
your problem and you shouldn ’ t have to deal with it .

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3) Babies Interrupt Sex – I ’ ve had this happen to me . I
was banging a woman and her kid interrupted my sex .
Needless to say I was pissed. If some kid is going to
interrupt the meanest head you ’ ve ever gotten, that kid
should have your last name.

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4) Baby ’s Daddy – When your dealing with a woman
and your getting know her , you shouldn ’ t have to deal
with kid ’ s father . Some guys can ’ t get over the fact that
their ex has moved on . Before he was an un - attentive
jerk and didn’ t give a jolly goddamn about her . Now that
you ’ ve entered into the picture , the dude wants to be the
ideal boyfriend and a “ father of the year , ” nominee . ” The
guy stars stalking her and wants to fight you . Even if the
woman and guy are on good terms, the guy feels as if
he can always smash . He knows her . He knows what
she wants to hear and what makes her happy. The next
know you your having this conversation - “ I ’ ve decided
to try and make it work with Jimmy ’ s dad” . Best way to
avoid the situation is to avoid single moms .

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5) Rent- A -Daddy – Realizing her mistake , realizing that
kids (especially boys need fathers , ) The woman gets
desperate, any and every guy has the potential to be
“ daddy. ” You ’ re out trying to get some , not inherit a
family.

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6) The Kids Are Still Up - This is only a problem if your
trying to pursue something other than a booty call .
Wanting to spend time with you , but not wanting to
bring strange men around her kids, you find yourself
only seeing this female after 10 or 11 PM . You want to
move forward , but she has to make sure your the “ one . ”
This could take months . I suggest dealing with women
that are readily available to hang out .

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7) Double Heart Break - You are with the woman , then
everything falls apart . You not only do you have to deal
with losing the woman , but you ’ ve formed a bond with
lil’ Jimmy . You and Jimmy play HALO together , watch
the Wizards ’ hoop it up , go to the zoo , and things dads
do with sons or daughters . On top of maybe missing the
woman , you miss the kid .

Your Not My Dad . - You hook up with the woman ,
eventually the issue of discipline is going to come up .
Some kids being resentful or just being a bratty prick is
going to eventuallly pull the “ YOU CAN’ T TELL ME
WHAT TO DO !!! YOUR NOT MY DAD !!!” card. Personally
if I did date single mothers and some dumba $$ kid
pulled that stunt on me , I would say , “ Your right . I ’ m not
your father . Since I have no authority over you and you
refuse to listen to me , you need to pack your sh* t and
go live with your dad. ” This would be a deal breaker for
me. In addition some mothers or the dad would have
problem with you disciplining their kid . I ’ m sorry, if
some kid broke my laptop , I ’ m whooping his a$ $ .

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9) You Know What She Going To Do – She already has
one kid, if you knock her up , it ’ s safe to assume she ’ s
going to have another one .


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10 ) Bad Judge of Character – This female got knocked
up by somebody that she was “ supposely in love with . ”
Not only is she a bad judge of character, she ’ s
GROSSLY irresponsible . The same guy that’ s an a$
$hole now , is the same guy she thought the world of
and had unprotected sex with .

11 ) Unnecessary Expenditures - Eventually you ’ ll get to
meet the kid( s . ) Soon those dates turn into family
outings . Instead of paying for two people , your paying
for three or more . The same goes if you move in with
her .

12 ) You’ll Never Be 1 – When your trying to build a
relationship with somebody, you should be the focus of
the woman ’ s life. It should be about you and her . If she
has a kid, you ’ ll NEVER BE 1 !!! That ’ s not a bad thing
either, but it ’ s something I don’ t want to deal with .
Neither should you .


13 ) Tag , Your It ! - This should be the BIGGEST deterrent
to EVER dealing with a single mother . In some
jurisdictions , I think California is one of them , if you
start dealing with a female with kids, move in with her
and things go south. THE FEMALE CAN SUE YOU FOR
CHILD SUPPORT !!!! She can claim that the her and child
have “ become accustomed to you supporting the child . ”
YOU COULD END UP POSSIBLY PAYING CHILD
SUPPORT FOR A KID THAT ISN ’ T EVEN YOURS !
Imagine being extorted money because you were doing
what you thought was the “ right thing . ” The state
doesn ’ t give a rat ’ s a $ $ about the relationship being
over or you being a “ good guy . ” They just don’ t want
the chick on welfare . So as far as your concerned, it’ s
“ TAG, YOUR IT !”

http://necolebitchie.com/2008/01/13-reasons-to-avoid-dating-single-mothers/

they are always looking hot but with baggage and wahala in in the in the long run
Guys be wise. don't live a miserable life.

Who made those girls/ladies/women,babymamas? MEN ofcourse!


If all men avoid them like plague,who will date/marry them?

They come with too much baggage.
Better to go for brand new ones

I don't believe this, is not alwayz true, mistake can happen in a relationship but women bear the height of it all, guyz go as if they are innocent

Only the ex issue is a serious issue. All other issues are null and void.

So what about the child support? By extension the child is yours.

Danhumprey: Who made those girls/ladies/women,babymamas? MEN ofcourse!


If all men avoid them like plague,who will date/marry them?

DON'T MIND THE IDIOT.HE IS TALKING AS IF THOSE SINGLE MOTHERS IMPREGNATED THEMSELVES.

BUT THANKFULLY NOT EVERY MAN IS AS STUPID AND MYOPIC AS HIM

Owk.

dhammyg:
DON'T MIND THE IDIOT.HE IS TALKING AS IF THOSE SINGLE MOTHERS IMPREGNATED THEMSELVES.

BUT THANKFULLY NOT EVERY MAN IS AS STUPID AND MYOPIC AS HIM

Hey... I rarely sight u dis dayZ...

Wats up?

herald9:
Hey... I rarely sight u dis dayZ...

Wats up?

am gud and u

dhammyg:
am gud and u

It's hard to be gud buh am trying ma best


Hope went to church today to shake Wat ya mama gave yo unto the Lord

Very true write-up. Baby mommas are just not d deal for me.

Cool write up. Baby mama's are more trouble than the single female.

Like seriously? Posts like this make me ashamed to be put in the same category as these idiots who call themselves 'men' . Smfh. Where is the love?

herald9:
It's hard to be gud buh am trying ma best


Hope went to church today to shake Wat ya mama gave yo unto the Lord

I COULDN'T GO.MUM'S CAR DIDN'T WORK,AND THE CHURCH IS PRETTY FAR

I strongly agree with the op especially #1 and #10. Dated this babymama chick few years back. I actually had S*x with her the first day we met.I dumped her bcus she was too insecure, always thinking am gonna end up like her babydaddy plus she keep adding weight..had to move on with single ladies.

Ur nos is so so wrong, didn't bother reading the rest

U need see this hawt lady here, ur jaws will so drop

Nonsense lists
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dhammyg:

I COULDN'T GO.MUM'S CAR DIDN'T WORK,AND THE CHURCH IS PRETTY FAR

Ooh...
Cheer up...u still got other sundays to shake it...
The Lord is your strength

dytbabe: Ur nos is so so wrong, didn't bother reading the rest

U need see this hawt lady here, ur jaws will so drop

Nonsense lists
Mtchewwwwwww

where is she?


#Searching around#

Nonsense post!! Who put them in such situation?? You gave 13 reasons for not dating a single mother. I can give you a 100 reasons for not dating a single father!!

9) You Know What She Going To Do – She
already has
one kid, if you knock her up , it ’ s safe to
assume she ’ s
going to have another one .

So if u knock her up,she must have an abortion?

herald9:
Ooh...
Cheer up...u still got other sundays to shake it...
The Lord is your strength

OK

What a harsh criticism! Its often not right judging things from the physical onset.

It has happened,yes! Those ladies are now babymamas like they tag them as. Is that supposed to be the end of the world for them?

Why paint them evil like they made wishes for themselves?

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They are ladies who couldn't make a relationship work out with their lover.

They are often stubborn girls to deal with when they were younger..

question to ladies bashing op will you give all u heart to your blood younger or elder brother who is single to marry a baby mama OR after you get married and have grown up children and you son comes to present his fiancee is a baby mama?

Senseless thread....
No reasonable point made...

AtheistD: Only the ex issue is a serious issue. All other issues are null and void.

So what about the child support? By extension the child is yours.

by hight tension the child is not mine biko! Blood is not water.

Men and shallow way of reasoning sha... Na only God go help una matter

Jenams: by hight tension the child is not mine biko! Blood is not water.

Any child that stays in your custody for any period of time should be awarded all rights as a child of yours. This has to do with discipline, financial support, emotional support, fairness etc. I dont see where blood comes into it.

We must prevent the cinderella syndrome by expecting to treat only our blood as "special".

No 14: she values her kids more than you. And can kill you just to make them happy.

And why not ?

She can always find another guy.