There are so many reasons why couples
call it quits – the list goes on and on!
Besides the obvious reasons – physical
and/ or mental abuse, lying or cheating, etc
when a break-up is initiated, it usually
happens because two people are not
compatible for the long term. Here’s short
list to explain why:
“What I found endearing, I now found
annoying ” Whatever qualities first attracted
you to this person, now repulse and irritate
you. It feels as if everything your partner
does frustrates you - including talking.
“I feel as if I’m dating someone else”
The honeymoon stage is definitely over and
your significant other has become
comfortable enough to reveal his or her true
personality. Let’s just say this “new”
personality should’ve just stay hidden
forever.
“My Significant other is always working”
When the person you are dating
consistently puts work before you, they are
not ready for a serious relationship. I
believe that you should love what you do,
but do you really want to marry someone
who’s first love in their job, not you?
“I can’t remember last time we had sex”
This is when your sex life is going down the
drain, fast! This usually happens when your
partner has either let themselves go in the
grooming department – or has gained way
more than a few pounds, causing their
previous sex appeal to become a lot less
attractive. Hmmm, and they wonder why
you continue to have a reoccurring
headache?
“Was he/she always this lazy?” When
you start to feel like your partner’s maid –
verses a loving, caring boyfriend or
girlfriend – this can get really old, really
quick. No one like to consistently pick up
after someone especially without a simple
“thank you” or acknowledgement.
“We are just not on the same life-page
anymore” You have mentally and
emotionally grown apart, and at this point,
probably physically too. This usually
happens when two people start dating at a
young age, have been dating for a long
time, and before committing to each other
(for a life time) never asked signification
relationship-altering questions: financial
issues, political opinions, religious views,
family values, career goals etc
“All we do is sit around and watch T.V”
We never go out anymore, clearly, romance
has left the building, the “spark” is gone,
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