Goodmorning pals...
I just felt like we should discuss this topic ooo...
i have noticed that couples kiss during their wedding ceremony,but after that day i dont see couples kissing publicly anymore.
Is it that they are shy or what?
if they can kiss in front of kids on their wedding day,why are they shy kissing their spouse publicly after that day na?...cos as for me,i would kiss my wife anywhere whether in the market place,compound,street,road,bus etc cos she is my wife and we are one...
plz share ur view on this pals....[b][/b]

I've also thought about it too and asked myself same. Because Nigeria is such a ridiculously conservative country where PDA between couples is seen as western culture. Couples in western countries no send anybody message o. PDA is a perfectly normal feat over there.

By the way, I love PDA.

If you don't kiss in private. . . .how can you kiss in public?
Nigerians dey kiss?
DEM GO JUSS CUT YA TONGUE TROWAY. . . or swallow am!
Straight to the tin please!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T6QKqFPRZSA

I hate all these public display of affection.
Some people that kiss in the public fight a lot in private.

Well,it is because of our anti-romance culture in Nigeria and wherever we are.

[quote
author=austinozuo]Goodmorning pals...
I just felt like we should discuss this topic ooo...
i have noticed that couples kiss during their wedding ceremony,but after
that day i dont see couples kissing publicly anymore.
Is it that they are shy or what?
if they can kiss in front of kids on their wedding day,why are they shy
kissing their spouse publicly after that day na?...cos as for me,i would
KISS MY WIFE ANYWHERE
place,compound,street,road,bus etc cos she is my wife and we are one...
plz share ur view on this pals....[b][/b][/quote]





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Sweety
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austinozuo: Goodmorning pals...
I just felt like we should discuss this topic ooo...
i have noticed that couples kiss during their wedding ceremony,but after that day i dont see couples kissing publicly anymore.
Is it that they are shy or what?
if they can kiss in front of kids on their wedding day,why are they shy kissing their spouse publicly after that day na?...cos as for me,i would kiss my wife anywhere whether in the market place,compound,street,road,bus etc cos she is my wife and we are one...
plz share ur view on this pals....[b][/b]

Its inappropriate. You don't need to kiss her in public, certain things are meant to be private.

Sophyrocks: I've also thought about it too and asked myself same. Because Nigeria is such a ridiculously conservative country where PDA between couples is seen as western culture. Couples in western countries no send anybody message o. PDA is a perfectly normal feat over there.

By the way, I love PDA.

Pls feel free to kiss your husband anywhere o, market place, on the street, while pricing cocoyam, after all its done in western countries not ridiculously conservative countries like Nigeria. Also feel free to fvck him anywhere too cos that is the vogue in western culture too. All na affection.
SMH.

Africans and inferiority complex.

5minsmadness:
Pls feel free to kiss your husband anywhere o, market place, on the street, while pricing cocoyam, after all its done in western countries not ridiculously conservative countries like Nigeria. Also feel free to fvck him anywhere too cos that is the vogue in western culture too. All na affection.
SMH.

Africans and inferiority complex.

Bad Belle pikin. Your mind no dey ever get positive thoughts. Na so so negative negative. CAVE MAN!! You dey jealous me? You never get over your obsession with me for this Nairaland? Feel free to burst your veins while you look on with Envy. wetin you even sabi sef? ROMANCE and PDA ZERO. Too rigid! Cave man like you. To be romantic to you means to be a weakling. Shame! I go do PDA for your front make you piss for your boxers with Envy.

Odilafta:



Sweety
u neva fit decode my number?

Will call you today dear.

Sophyrocks:

Bad Belle pikin. Your mind no dey ever get positive thoughts. Na so so negative negative. CAVE MAN!! You dey jealous me? You never get over your obsession with me for this Nairaland? Feel free to burst your veins while you look on with Envy. wetin you even sabi sef? ROMANCE and PDA ZERO. Too rigid! Cave man like you. To be romantic to you means to be a weakling. Shame! I go do PDA for your front make you piss for your boxers with Envy.

Abeg go siddon jo
I will have you know that I was very romantic in my early hunting days. A lot of my first kisses were in public, at the swimming pool, walking down the street of my home at night, under an umbrella in the pouring rain. It was pretty mbeke sisters like you who discouraged me with ==pls am embarrassed, pla am shy, they will think am a wild gel etc etc until i finally got the message. Na you girls dey shy pass if not most of us naija guys start out very romantic but you kill the spirit in us then when we become badazz you start to moan and complain and compare us with Alfonso , that bastard philipino guy on telemundo who incidentally is gay.

The behavior of most guys you meet are moulded by females who have come before you. And you know am telling the truth

5minsmadness:
Pls feel free to kiss your husband anywhere o, market place, on the street, while pricing cocoyam, after all its done in western countries not ridiculously conservative countries like Nigeria. Also feel free to fvck him anywhere too cos that is the vogue in western culture too. All na affection.
SMH.

Africans and inferiority complex.

LWKMD

Most of them go dey frown face esp when their wives dey with them.

Some of my ex colleagues those days, very jovial guys when at work, but when with their wife, their face go change. Them never frown finish na to kiss. You go wait tire.

maybe it's the environment. The dust go don settle for the lipstick mouth, hence when you place mouth on the dusty lips you will be sure of traces of carbon monoxide .

Anyway, not in the culture of Africans, they are trying. At least they do it now on their weddings, small small we will get there.

softsparkyy: I hate all these public display of affection.
Some people that kiss in the public fight a lot in private.

How did you arrive at this? mind sharing an experience?

Sophyrocks: I've also thought about it too and asked myself same. Because Nigeria is such a ridiculously conservative country where PDA between couples is seen as western culture. Couples in western countries no send anybody message o. PDA is a perfectly normal feat over there.
By the way, I love PDA.

I dont mind PDA too. Do you agree with the bolded above in red?

Sophyrocks:

Bad Belle pikin. Your mind no dey ever get positive thoughts. Na so so negative negative. CAVE MAN!! You dey jealous me? You never get over your obsession with me for this Nairaland? Feel free to burst your veins while you look on with Envy. wetin you even sabi sef? ROMANCE and PDA ZERO. Too rigid! Cave man like you. To be romantic to you means to be a weakling. Shame! I go do PDA for your front make you piss for your boxers with Envy.

Chillisauce: Most of them go dey frown face esp when their wives dey with them.

Some of my ex colleagues those days, very jovial guys when at work, but when with their wife, there face go change. Them never frown finish na to kiss. You go wait tire.

maybe it's the environment. The dust go don settle for the lipstick mouth, hence when you place mouth on the dusty lips you will be sure of traces of carbon monoxide .

Anyway, not in the culture of Africans, they are trying. At least they do it now on their weddings, small small we will get there.

LMAO!

Honestly what that simply tells me is that someone is having an unghappy/non-peaceful marriage

Sophyrocks:

Bad Belle pikin. Your mind no dey ever get positive thoughts. Na so so negative negative. CAVE MAN!! You dey jealous me? You never get over your obsession with me for this Nairaland? Feel free to burst your veins while you look on with Envy. wetin you even sabi sef? ROMANCE and PDA ZERO. Too rigid! Cave man like you. To be romantic to you means to be a weakling. Shame! I go do PDA for your front make you piss for your boxers with Envy.

So-so, i am interested in this'o

shizzle11: LMAO!

Honestly what that simply tells me is that someone is having an unghappy/non-peaceful marriage

Not necessarily. Maybe bored too. You know sometimes when dem marry the zombie ( "gentle" ones, you get bored easily and she can't seem to know what to say in public that may annoy you. They answer, yes sir, only to smile even when something isn't funny.

Chillisauce:

Not necessarily. Maybe bored too. You know sometimes when dem marry the zombie ( "gentle" ones, [/b]you get bored easily and she can't seem to know what to say in public that may annoy you[b]. They answer, yes sir, only to smile even when something isn't funny.

funny but serious! Such marriages can indeed be so boring. This is why people should marry partners with whom they are on the same page intellectually, socially and otherwise. Cant imagine having a puppet as a wife, someone you cant even be proud, you don't want to be seen in public with her or cant attend social functions with her cos you feel she could just embarrass you.

A zombie for a wife, God forbid bad thing!

5minsmadness:
Abeg go siddon jo
I will have you know that I was very romantic in my early hunting days. A lot of my first kisses were in public, at the swimming pool, walking down the street of my home at night, under an umbrella in the pouring rain. It was pretty mbeke sisters like you who discouraged me with ==pls am embarrassed, pla am shy, they will think am a wild gel etc etc until i finally got the message. Na you girls dey shy pass if not most of us naija guys start out very romantic but you kill the spirit in us then when we become badazz you start to moan and complain and compare us with Alfonso , that bastard philipino guy on telemundo who incidentally is gay.

The behavior of most guys you meet are moulded by females who have come before you. And you know am telling the truth

Continue to be Cave Man o. E no concern moi.

shizzle11:
How did you arrive at this? mind sharing an experience?


I dont mind PDA too. Do you agree with the bolded above in red?

Yep. I agree. But its does not apply in all cases.

shizzle11: So-so, i am interested in this'o

What is it about the bolded that interests you?

shizzle11:
funny but serious! Such marriages can indeed be so boring. This is why people should marry partners with whom they are on the same page intellectually, socially and otherwise. Cant imagine having a puppet as a wife, someone you cant even be proud, you don't want to be seen in public with her or cant attend social functions with her cos you feel she could just embarrass you.

A zombie for a wife, God forbid bad thing!

You are right. Go shizzle, go shizzle.
Even if they are not same page, they should have the zeal to learn.

It's well.

Chillisauce: Most of them go dey frown face esp when their wives dey with them.

Some of my ex colleagues those days, very jovial guys when at work, but when with their wife, their face go change. Them never frown finish na to kiss. You go wait tire.

maybe it's the environment. The dust go don settle for the lipstick mouth, hence when you place mouth on the dusty lips you will be sure of traces of carbon monoxide .

Anyway, not in the culture of Africans, they are trying. At least they do it now on their weddings, small small we will get there.

Those your colleagues are dealing with an unhappy marriage or were forced into it. About PDA not in our culture, that was the exact point i made before that cave man came to pounce on me as usual. Cave Man.

Chillisauce:


You are right. Go shizzle, go shizzle.
Even if they are not same page, they should have the zeal to learn.

It's well.

AMEN'O!

Sophyrocks:
What is it about the bolded that interests you?

The PDA part.

How have you being?

shizzle11:
AMEN'O!

The PDA part.

How have you being?

Okies.

I'm good. Hope you are too.

Sophyrocks:

Okies.

I'm good. Hope you are too.

Yes i am!

Thanks for asking

Sophyrocks:

Those your colleagues are dealing with an unhappy marriage or were forced into it. About PDA not in our culture, that was the exact point i made before that cave man came to pounce on me as usual. Cave Man.

Aw c'mon sophie. You know you like it rough
Of course PDA like kissing and fucking in public is not in our culture, but that doesnt make us ridiculously conservative, just different. Its the same with the japanese. They rarely show public displays of affection. It doesnt make them inferior. That's the point I was trying to make.



Call me Cave-man again. I find it strangely arousing

shizzle11:
Yes i am!

Thanks for asking

5minsmadness:
Aw c'mon sophie. You know you like it rough
Of course PDA like kissing and fucking in public is not in our culture, but that doesnt make us ridiculously conservative, just different. Its the same with the japanese. They rarely show public displays of affection. It doesnt make them inferior. That's the point I was trying to make.



Call me Cave-man again. I find it strangely arousing

You are wetting your boxers already.